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I Love You But It’s Tiring.

I Love You But It’s Tiring.

Even while a situation could sound complex, you cannot ignore the fact that a woman always wants to stick with her partner. I have seen women cry, plead, and wish their man changed for the better and improve. The truth is that in the long run, what matters to a woman goes beyond money or just being the man, you need to care for them, love, and appreciate them.

When a woman leaves, it means she has simply reached a point where she can take no more. Be responsible and read between the lines. Here are a few things that can drive a woman over the edge.

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She feels neglected

Every relationship is relied upon for three major reasons: love, attention, and support. When a partner feels they are not receiving any of these three elements of a solid relationship, they tend to walk out the door. They simply get fed up. A woman would only abandon a man or cheat on him when an emotional void or the needed attention is lacking. Women do not want to be unhappy in a relationship. They want to feel appreciated.

Let your woman be aware of the love you have for her. Be sensitive about her needs. Give her a piece of your time and affection. Every woman deserves someone who will give her what she wants. And it is your responsibility, if you are with her, to make her feel worthy.

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She is tired of the lies

Lies do not help a relationship. They destroy it. Women want partners with character, who stand by their own words. If you keep on telling lies and saying “I’m sorry”, you won’t get any more love from your partner. Through her support of you, you have to let her be aware she is dealing with an honorable person who doesn’t just speak, but acts accordingly. It is not simply about being decent — you have to be truthful too.

She doesn’t feel her partner is present anymore

A woman needs someone who is present and who is not simply coming and going. They have to be attentive and be willing to communicate with her. A woman is not property, and you do not have her presence simply because you are with her, you have to earn it every day. You should make your woman feel wanted. When she talks to you, you should do well to listen and respond. You can’t just be there — you have to show her you are concerned about her.

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She is tired of being hurt physically and emotionally

No woman should be used as a channel or medium for someone to express frustration and anger. A woman will leave a partner who turns her into an avenue to get out their disappointment at life. Women should be appreciated and acknowledged for the strong role they play in any union. She could become frustrated at being abused or maligned by the person she calls a partner. Leaving won’t be a problem for her if she feels she is a victim of anger, disappointment, or frustration.

She is frustrated with you acting like a kid

You have to be ready to own up to the role of being in a relationship. You have to grow up and stop acting immature if you want to keep your woman. A woman needs a partner that can own up to their mistakes or play the role that she expects them to play. You have to be prepared to come home and stick to her. She needs you to secure your position, rather than make excuses and hang around the wrong group.

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Last Updated on February 18, 2019

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

Why It’s Never Too Late To Redefine Yourself

The ability to reinvent and redefine yourself is a bold, daring and purposeful choice. It doesn’t just happen. You have to make a conscious, intentional choice and then follow through.

If the thought of forging a new path, changing habits, thought patterns and your inner circle of friends scares you – you’re not alone. Change can be a very scary thing. It takes courage, fortitude and a bit of faith to decide to shed your old self and don a new persona. However, it is one of the most critical processes one must repeatedly endure in the pursuit of destiny. Change unlocks new levels of potential.

The Need for Change

Everyday when we wake up, we make a decision. We decide to follow our routine or we decide to go off script and shake things up a bit. For those who are creatures of habit, routine is comfortable, easy and produces very little stress. The problem with this is, after a while you stop growing.

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We all reinvent ourselves at some point in our lives. It is absolutely necessary to achieve certain levels of success.

Reflect back on who you were as a teenager and then who you were at 25. Those are two very different people. Most of us are completely different. Your thought patterns changed, your appearance, job, level of education and even your friends– changed. We like to refer to this as “growing up” or maturing and consider it to be one of life’s natural progressions. However the changes you made were purposeful and deliberate.

This process must be a lifelong and continuous cycle. You are never too old to refresh yourself.

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    Signs It’s Time to Redefine

    “Just as established products and brands need updating to stay alive and vibrant, you periodically need to refresh or reinvent yourself.”– Mireille Guiliano

    So how do you know when it’s time for a system upgrade? There are signs along the way that alert you that it is time for an overhaul. The first sign is the feeling of being stuck. If you feel like you are in a rut, you’re bored with life or you need some newness and excitement, a self reinvention may be in order. Re-evaluate your life vision and your goals. Is that vision still valid and are your goals consistent with your vision and–are they achievable? If you are off course, it’s time for a change. If you are not moving forward and making progress, it’s time for a change.

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    In life, there’s no such thing as neutrality–you’re either moving forward or you are moving backward. Time constantly moves forward and if you are standing still, you are actually losing ground. No matter your age or stage in life– there is always room for improvement.

    “You’re never too old to set another goal or dream a new dream.” ~C. S. Lewis

    The second sign that you are due for a change is the occurrence of major life events in which change is forced upon you. Getting married, starting a new job, being promoted, ending a relationship, becoming a parenting or relocating are all prime opportunities to completely overhaul your life.

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    When these major shifts occur in your life–you have to shift with them. You can’t have a single mentality and have a successful marriage. You can’t remain selfish and irresponsible, and raise a healthy, well-adjusted child. You can’t be promoted to a supervisory position and keep the same subordinate attitude. Each level of success requires something different from you.

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      Consider, for a moment, Arnold Schwarzenegger. People may have different opinions about his character and some of his life choices, but he is a master at reinventing himself. He achieved the ultimate success as a professional body builder by earning the title “Mr. Universe” three times. He then earned a tremendous amount of fame and fortune in the entertainment industry making action/adventure films. And in his latest role, he served two terms as the Governor of California. He succeeded as a professional body builder, a film star and a politician. Each role required massive amounts of change, commitment, strength and hard work.

      And if Arnold can do it…so can you!

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