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I Love You But It’s Tiring.

I Love You But It’s Tiring.

Even while a situation could sound complex, you cannot ignore the fact that a woman always wants to stick with her partner. I have seen women cry, plead, and wish their man changed for the better and improve. The truth is that in the long run, what matters to a woman goes beyond money or just being the man, you need to care for them, love, and appreciate them.

When a woman leaves, it means she has simply reached a point where she can take no more. Be responsible and read between the lines. Here are a few things that can drive a woman over the edge.

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She feels neglected

Every relationship is relied upon for three major reasons: love, attention, and support. When a partner feels they are not receiving any of these three elements of a solid relationship, they tend to walk out the door. They simply get fed up. A woman would only abandon a man or cheat on him when an emotional void or the needed attention is lacking. Women do not want to be unhappy in a relationship. They want to feel appreciated.

Let your woman be aware of the love you have for her. Be sensitive about her needs. Give her a piece of your time and affection. Every woman deserves someone who will give her what she wants. And it is your responsibility, if you are with her, to make her feel worthy.

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She is tired of the lies

Lies do not help a relationship. They destroy it. Women want partners with character, who stand by their own words. If you keep on telling lies and saying “I’m sorry”, you won’t get any more love from your partner. Through her support of you, you have to let her be aware she is dealing with an honorable person who doesn’t just speak, but acts accordingly. It is not simply about being decent — you have to be truthful too.

She doesn’t feel her partner is present anymore

A woman needs someone who is present and who is not simply coming and going. They have to be attentive and be willing to communicate with her. A woman is not property, and you do not have her presence simply because you are with her, you have to earn it every day. You should make your woman feel wanted. When she talks to you, you should do well to listen and respond. You can’t just be there — you have to show her you are concerned about her.

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She is tired of being hurt physically and emotionally

No woman should be used as a channel or medium for someone to express frustration and anger. A woman will leave a partner who turns her into an avenue to get out their disappointment at life. Women should be appreciated and acknowledged for the strong role they play in any union. She could become frustrated at being abused or maligned by the person she calls a partner. Leaving won’t be a problem for her if she feels she is a victim of anger, disappointment, or frustration.

She is frustrated with you acting like a kid

You have to be ready to own up to the role of being in a relationship. You have to grow up and stop acting immature if you want to keep your woman. A woman needs a partner that can own up to their mistakes or play the role that she expects them to play. You have to be prepared to come home and stick to her. She needs you to secure your position, rather than make excuses and hang around the wrong group.

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Last Updated on August 16, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Enjoy Taking Risks

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

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