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I Love You But It’s Tiring.

I Love You But It’s Tiring.

Even while a situation could sound complex, you cannot ignore the fact that a woman always wants to stick with her partner. I have seen women cry, plead, and wish their man changed for the better and improve. The truth is that in the long run, what matters to a woman goes beyond money or just being the man, you need to care for them, love, and appreciate them.

When a woman leaves, it means she has simply reached a point where she can take no more. Be responsible and read between the lines. Here are a few things that can drive a woman over the edge.

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She feels neglected

Every relationship is relied upon for three major reasons: love, attention, and support. When a partner feels they are not receiving any of these three elements of a solid relationship, they tend to walk out the door. They simply get fed up. A woman would only abandon a man or cheat on him when an emotional void or the needed attention is lacking. Women do not want to be unhappy in a relationship. They want to feel appreciated.

Let your woman be aware of the love you have for her. Be sensitive about her needs. Give her a piece of your time and affection. Every woman deserves someone who will give her what she wants. And it is your responsibility, if you are with her, to make her feel worthy.

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She is tired of the lies

Lies do not help a relationship. They destroy it. Women want partners with character, who stand by their own words. If you keep on telling lies and saying “I’m sorry”, you won’t get any more love from your partner. Through her support of you, you have to let her be aware she is dealing with an honorable person who doesn’t just speak, but acts accordingly. It is not simply about being decent — you have to be truthful too.

She doesn’t feel her partner is present anymore

A woman needs someone who is present and who is not simply coming and going. They have to be attentive and be willing to communicate with her. A woman is not property, and you do not have her presence simply because you are with her, you have to earn it every day. You should make your woman feel wanted. When she talks to you, you should do well to listen and respond. You can’t just be there — you have to show her you are concerned about her.

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She is tired of being hurt physically and emotionally

No woman should be used as a channel or medium for someone to express frustration and anger. A woman will leave a partner who turns her into an avenue to get out their disappointment at life. Women should be appreciated and acknowledged for the strong role they play in any union. She could become frustrated at being abused or maligned by the person she calls a partner. Leaving won’t be a problem for her if she feels she is a victim of anger, disappointment, or frustration.

She is frustrated with you acting like a kid

You have to be ready to own up to the role of being in a relationship. You have to grow up and stop acting immature if you want to keep your woman. A woman needs a partner that can own up to their mistakes or play the role that she expects them to play. You have to be prepared to come home and stick to her. She needs you to secure your position, rather than make excuses and hang around the wrong group.

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13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life.

Take a look at these 13 things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become mentally stronger.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves

Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power

They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

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3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change

Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control

You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone

Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks

They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.

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7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past

Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it.

However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over

Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success

Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

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10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure

Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time

Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive.

They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything

Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

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13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results

Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.

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