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I Love You But It’s Tiring.

I Love You But It’s Tiring.

Even while a situation could sound complex, you cannot ignore the fact that a woman always wants to stick with her partner. I have seen women cry, plead, and wish their man changed for the better and improve. The truth is that in the long run, what matters to a woman goes beyond money or just being the man, you need to care for them, love, and appreciate them.

When a woman leaves, it means she has simply reached a point where she can take no more. Be responsible and read between the lines. Here are a few things that can drive a woman over the edge.

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She feels neglected

Every relationship is relied upon for three major reasons: love, attention, and support. When a partner feels they are not receiving any of these three elements of a solid relationship, they tend to walk out the door. They simply get fed up. A woman would only abandon a man or cheat on him when an emotional void or the needed attention is lacking. Women do not want to be unhappy in a relationship. They want to feel appreciated.

Let your woman be aware of the love you have for her. Be sensitive about her needs. Give her a piece of your time and affection. Every woman deserves someone who will give her what she wants. And it is your responsibility, if you are with her, to make her feel worthy.

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She is tired of the lies

Lies do not help a relationship. They destroy it. Women want partners with character, who stand by their own words. If you keep on telling lies and saying “I’m sorry”, you won’t get any more love from your partner. Through her support of you, you have to let her be aware she is dealing with an honorable person who doesn’t just speak, but acts accordingly. It is not simply about being decent — you have to be truthful too.

She doesn’t feel her partner is present anymore

A woman needs someone who is present and who is not simply coming and going. They have to be attentive and be willing to communicate with her. A woman is not property, and you do not have her presence simply because you are with her, you have to earn it every day. You should make your woman feel wanted. When she talks to you, you should do well to listen and respond. You can’t just be there — you have to show her you are concerned about her.

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She is tired of being hurt physically and emotionally

No woman should be used as a channel or medium for someone to express frustration and anger. A woman will leave a partner who turns her into an avenue to get out their disappointment at life. Women should be appreciated and acknowledged for the strong role they play in any union. She could become frustrated at being abused or maligned by the person she calls a partner. Leaving won’t be a problem for her if she feels she is a victim of anger, disappointment, or frustration.

She is frustrated with you acting like a kid

You have to be ready to own up to the role of being in a relationship. You have to grow up and stop acting immature if you want to keep your woman. A woman needs a partner that can own up to their mistakes or play the role that she expects them to play. You have to be prepared to come home and stick to her. She needs you to secure your position, rather than make excuses and hang around the wrong group.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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