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6 Myths That Only People Who Travel by Train Can Relate To

6 Myths That Only People Who Travel by Train Can Relate To

Of course travelling by train is great. You can enjoy the scenery, you are not polluting the environment, you are more relaxed, and you can enjoy a snooze without killing anybody in the process!

But there are a lot of myths and misconceptions about train travel that you no doubt have heard about. There are some wonderful aspects about train travel but also some challenges. As a dedicated train traveller, you will have no problems in relating to these.

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1. You are generating more greenhouse gases than automobiles.

Back in 2008, Randal O’Toole of the Cato Institute claimed that trains were contributing more to greenhouse gases than people thought. Amtrak (the US rail network) came back and stated that trains are more energy efficient than cars by about 30%. They are also more efficient than planes by about 14%. You don’t even need to mention the fact about not littering downtown parking lots with parked automobiles with all the pollution and congestion they bring.

2. Your fellow passengers are always polite and quiet.

In an ideal world, this would certainly be the case. But let’s do a reality check. I find that people shouting on their cell phones is almost intolerable. You dream about Japan where passengers actually adhere to the notice to keep their mobiles on silent mode. It is also good to note that Amtrak have introduced quiet cars on their network.

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Back in Europe, some passengers dump their bags on seats and you have to ask them to remove them so that you can actually get a place to sit. Now, if you had taken the car, you could have avoided all that hassle.

3. You are not producing any clean energy.

All the critics say that trains are not so eco friendly as people think. Let me tell you about Greenrail which will help trains to generate cleaner energy as they pass over the new type of sleepers (also called “ties”). Up until now, sleepers were either made from wood or pre-stressed concrete and they needed a lot of maintenance.

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Italian engineers have developed Greenrail which will use old tires and plastic to make the sleepers. The wonderful thing is that through a piezoelectric system, the trains produce electricity as they pass over the sleepers. Engineers estimate that Greenrail sleepers on a 100 km stretch of railway could produce up to 1.25MWh an hour. This system has already been patented in 148 countries. Where there are no ways of recycling old tires and plastic, this will transform trains into a new source of green power.

4. You know that trains are always reliable and on time.

Unfortunately, even if you are the most ardent train fan, you cannot get away from the fact that delays, breakdowns, weather conditions, and strikes are all going to put a gremlin in the works sooner or later. The Italians say that delay times are always displayed in minutes, so that you can while away the time calculating how many hours that really amounts to. The Japanese, on the other hand will go to extreme lengths to apologize to their 22 million clients when their trains are a few minutes late. Even if a train is five minutes late, passengers are entitled to a “delay certificate” to show their employers when they arrive a little late for work!

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5. You are destroying farmland by using high-speed trains.

Let’s take California as an example. The population is set to grow to over 60 million by the year 2050. If modern rail road connections are not made, there will be an urban sprawl, new freeways to cover 3,000 miles and five airport runways. All this would cost in the region of $100 billion. Just think of the impact that would have on the environment. Building high-speed rail corridors is a much better solution for everybody.

6. You are not really saving any money by travelling by train.

This is not true at all. Let us take Italy, where I live, as an example here. Lots of high-speed trains connecting all the major cities, downtown to downtown. The service is fast and unbelievably cheap, if you book in advance. Just think that you can cover Rome to Florence in one and a half hours for $21. Think about not having to get to the airport, the awful check-in and security procedures, and you need never worry about parking your car. You save an incredible amount of time, as well.

You can’t beat the train.  It is still the cheapest and most relaxing form of transport available. Amtrak allows you to carry on 200 lbs of luggage free. Now try getting that amount checked in on a flight!

Featured photo credit: Local train (for local people)/hairyeggg via flickr.com

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Last Updated on July 10, 2020

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

Boundaries are limits

—they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

1. Self-Awareness Comes First

Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

  • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
  • When do you feel disrespected?
  • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
  • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
  • When do you want to be alone?
  • How much space do you need?

You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

2. Clear Communication Is Essential

Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

Sample language:

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  • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
  • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
  • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
  • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
  • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
  • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
  • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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Final Thoughts

Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

Featured photo credit: Thomas Kelley via unsplash.com

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