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10 Thoughts Extroverts Have About Introverts You May Have Never Imagined

10 Thoughts Extroverts Have About Introverts You May Have Never Imagined

While we think that being an introvert can be cool and could mean depth emotionally and intellectually, we still have our grievances and misgivings about them. There really is no reason why introverts shouldn’t want to explore and connect with the world around them. Since it is difficult to decipher who they are, here are some conclusions or thoughts we have about introverts.

1. We think they are mysterious

We like to know what other people are thinking and how we can connect with that, whether it is through their success or challenges. We want to share and discuss. But introverts never share their problems or difficulties. Actually they rather observe than share. They simply want to keep to themselves and only speak when they are willing to.

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2. We think they lack self-esteem

Why should someone keep to themselves in such a strange way? Why can’t they be expressive and accommodate us? It must mean that they lack confidence and are not courageous enough to bring some energy to their interactions with us.

3. We think they look down upon us or feel inferior to us

If they are not feeling inferior to us, then we think that they might be feeling superior to us. They should have a lot of things to say, but they prefer not talking. The truth though is that introverts just like to keep to themselves. And this doesn’t really sink in well with us because we want something more out of our relationships.

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4. We think they need to get a life

Action matters a lot to us and we love to pump up every scenario we’re in with action. Why should we act otherwise? We do think introverts should care more about the world around them and participate more. We want them to open up their emotional gates and be more accommodating.

5. We think they are afraid

It is so difficult to comprehend why people would be so cold and distant some times. We think they are not willing to make that effort and be around people who will fire up their energy. We think they are afraid and not prepared to let go.

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6. We think they are boring

They really are uninteresting and unexciting. How can someone find comfort and happiness in being alone? With them not conversing and keeping to themselves a lot, it is hard to figure out how to add excitement to interactions.

7. We think they are rude

We think that they are in between being arrogant and rude. Can they be honest and real with the way they act since they seem to shunning everyone and spending time only with themselves? We really want them to fit in and tolerate others too.

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8. We feel they are not really good communicators

They are not expressive. But they may be good listeners. Yet it matters that we want to hear them and know what is going on inside them. Awkwardness when participating in one-sided conversations doesn’t make us extroverts feel really cool.

9. We think they are lonely

They must be alone and finding it hard to get out of their box. They really need our help to find some social presence. They really cannot be at their best if they are always locked into their own world. To be happy don’t they need to spend time with people?

10. We think they are unpredictable

If they are mysterious, how can you really know what they are up to? They certainly must have some aces up their sleeves. You can’t really know with them and it can be such a Herculean task trying to break through their walls. Perhaps it is best to leave them the way they are.

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Last Updated on December 2, 2018

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

7 Public Speaking Techniques To Help Connect With Your Audience

When giving a presentation or speech, you have to engage your audience effectively in order to truly get your point across. Unlike a written editorial or newsletter, your speech is fleeting; once you’ve said everything you set out to say, you don’t get a second chance to have your voice heard in that specific arena.

You need to make sure your audience hangs on to every word you say, from your introduction to your wrap-up. You can do so by:

1. Connecting them with each other

Picture your typical rock concert. What’s the first thing the singer says to the crowd after jumping out on stage? “Hello (insert city name here)!” Just acknowledging that he’s coherent enough to know where he is is enough for the audience to go wild and get into the show.

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It makes each individual feel as if they’re a part of something bigger. The same goes for any public speaking event. When an audience hears, “You’re all here because you care deeply about wildlife preservation,” it gives them a sense that they’re not just there to listen, but they’re there to connect with the like-minded people all around them.

2. Connect with their emotions

Speakers always try to get their audience emotionally involved in whatever topic they’re discussing. There are a variety of ways in which to do this, such as using statistics, stories, pictures or videos that really show the importance of the topic at hand.

For example, showing pictures of the aftermath of an accident related to drunk driving will certainly send a specific message to an audience of teenagers and young adults. While doing so might be emotionally nerve-racking to the crowd, it may be necessary to get your point across and engage them fully.

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3. Keep going back to the beginning

Revisit your theme throughout your presentation. Although you should give your audience the credit they deserve and know that they can follow along, linking back to your initial thesis can act as a subconscious reminder of why what you’re currently telling them is important.

On the other hand, if you simply mention your theme or the point of your speech at the beginning and never mention it again, it gives your audience the impression that it’s not really that important.

4. Link to your audience’s motivation

After you’ve acknowledged your audience’s common interests in being present, discuss their motivation for being there. Be specific. Using the previous example, if your audience clearly cares about wildlife preservation, discuss what can be done to help save endangered species’ from extinction.

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Don’t just give them cold, hard facts; use the facts to make a point that they can use to better themselves or the world in some way.

5. Entertain them

While not all speeches or presentations are meant to be entertaining in a comedic way, audiences will become thoroughly engaged in anecdotes that relate to the overall theme of the speech. We discussed appealing to emotions, and that’s exactly what a speaker sets out to do when he tells a story from his past or that of a well-known historical figure.

Speakers usually tell more than one story in order to show that the first one they told isn’t simply an anomaly, and that whatever outcome they’re attempting to prove will consistently reoccur, given certain circumstances.

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6. Appeal to loyalty

Just like the musician mentioning the town he’s playing in will get the audience ready to rock, speakers need to appeal to their audience’s loyalty to their country, company, product or cause. Show them how important it is that they’re present and listening to your speech by making your words hit home to each individual.

In doing so, the members of your audience will feel as if you’re speaking directly to them while you’re addressing the entire crowd.

7. Tell them the benefits of the presentation

Early on in your presentation, you should tell your audience exactly what they’ll learn, and exactly how they’ll learn it. Don’t expect them to listen if they don’t have clear-cut information to listen for. On the other hand, if they know what to listen for, they’ll be more apt to stay engaged throughout your entire presentation so they don’t miss anything.

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