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10 Valuable Lessons We Can Learn From Disney Movies

10 Valuable Lessons We Can Learn From Disney Movies

For decades, Disney movies, both animated and live-action, have touched the lives of children and adults alike. If you watched Disney movies as a kid, you probably paid more attention to the songs, bright colors and action sequences (if applicable).

Watching them as an adult, though (don’t lie – you know you do it), you’ve probably realized these movies have buried deep within them valuable life lessons you never even knew you were learning throughout your childhood. Here are 10 of those movies. You might have to watch them again, one right after the other in marathon fashion, to see the lessons played out in real time.

Cinderella

Not everyone will approve of what you do or the dreams fluttering inside your heart. You have to find the courage to chase those dreams no matter who tries to stop you. It’s not always possible to do this alone, however. Sometimes you need a little help to get to where you want to go.

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Peter Pan

Growing up is scary, filled with responsibilities we’re not sure we’re ready to adopt. Just because you’re growing older, though, doesn’t mean you have to let your playful imagination fade away. There’s nothing wrong with believing in dreams or far-off fairytales. Your inner child will always be there when you’re running low on faith.

The Lion King

Your past will always be there lurking in the shadows. It’s tough not to look over your shoulder and think about it. Instead of running from it and trying to leave it behind you, run toward it. Face it head-on. Overcoming a bad memory isn’t easy, but once you’re standing on the other side of it, you’ll realize you’re a better person for it.

Air Bud

Stand up for your friends and stick close to your family. Helping those who have helped you when you were in need is what friendship is all about. Those loyal to you will stand behind you no matter the situation. Whether it be a teammate, a parent or a golden retriever, team work never, ever fails.

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Lilo & Stitch

Everyone has their own definition of family. You don’t have to be related by blood to someone to care for and love them. Okay, so maybe your dog is actually a distant alien species, but that doesn’t mean you should love him any less. What really makes a family is what its members are willing to do for each other in times of both trouble and triumph.

Holes

One mistake doesn’t make you a bad person. There is always good to come of the unfortunate things that happen to us, and always something to learn from every negative experience. Who you really are just might be buried beneath the surface, waiting to be found.

Ice Princess

Deep down, you already know what you were born to do. It’s the same dream you’ve had since you were young. As you’ve grown older, maybe you’ve tried to set it aside, to focus on things you and those around you feel are more important. Never let go of what you’ve always known you wanted most. Even if it means giving up what you’ve worked to achieve, it’s worth pursuing the true ambition that captured your heart from the start.

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The Princess and the Frog

Achieving your life-long dreams doesn’t come without hardship. Along the way, you’ll run into all sorts of obstacles and roadblocks. Maybe not quite as drastic as transforming into a frog, but close enough. Take on those obstacles as they come and do your best to overcome them.

Tangled

The only person who gets to decide how you live your life is you. You can’t miss out on all the world has to offer you by letting other people hold you back. If you want to venture outside your comfort zone, do it. If there’s a question you’ve always had and want to find the answer, get out there and find it. Your dreams are so much more important than the dreams other people might have in mind for you.

Frozen

Everyone has a gift. Maybe you’re good at something no one else can do, and no one seems to understand the true value it has brought to your life. You don’t have to hide it or ignore it because it means something different to you than to everyone around you. Embrace it. Let go of your fear of judgment and isolation. If you can show the world you’re proud of what you can do, they’ll start to look at things differently, too.

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The older you get, the more you’ll be able to appreciate everything these movies have taught you over the years. With more Disney magic on the way for years to come, there’s still plenty more to learn.

Featured photo credit: Richard Stephenson via flickr.com

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Easily Misunderstood by Others? 6 Barriers You Should Overcome to Make Communication Less Frustrating

Easily Misunderstood by Others? 6 Barriers You Should Overcome to Make Communication Less Frustrating

How often have you said something simple, only to have the person who you said this to misunderstand it or twist the meaning completely around? Nodding your head in affirmative? Then this means that you are being unclear in your communication.

Communication should be simple, right? It’s all about two people or more talking and explaining something to the other. The problem lies in the talking itself, somehow we end up being unclear, and our words, attitude or even the way of talking becomes a barrier in communication, most of the times unknowingly. We give you six common barriers to communication, and how to get past them; for you to actually say what you mean, and or the other person to understand it as well…

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Think about it this way, a simple phrase like “what do you mean” can be said in many different ways and each different way would end up “communicating” something else entirely. Scream it at the other person, and the perception would be anger. Whisper this is someone’s ear and others may take it as if you were plotting something. Say it in another language, and no one gets what you mean at all, if they don’t speak it… This is what we mean when we say that talking or saying something that’s clear in your head, many not mean that you have successfully communicated it across to your intended audience – thus what you say and how, where and why you said it – at times become barriers to communication.[1]

Perceptual Barrier

The moment you say something in a confrontational, sarcastic, angry or emotional tone, you have set up perceptual barriers to communication. The other person or people to whom you are trying to communicate your point get the message that you are disinterested in what you are saying and sort of turn a deaf ear. In effect, you are yelling your point across to person who might as well be deaf![2]

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The problem: When you have a tone that’s not particularly positive, a body language that denotes your own disinterest in the situation and let your own stereotypes and misgivings enter the conversation via the way you talk and gesture, the other person perceives what you saying an entirely different manner than say if you said the same while smiling and catching their gaze.

The solution: Start the conversation on a positive note, and don’t let what you think color your tone, gestures of body language. Maintain eye contact with your audience, and smile openly and wholeheartedly…

Attitudinal Barrier

Some people, if you would excuse the language, are simply badass and in general are unable to form relationships or even a common point of communication with others, due to their habit of thinking to highly or too lowly of them. They basically have an attitude problem – since they hold themselves in high esteem, they are unable to form genuine lines of communication with anyone. The same is true if they think too little of themselves as well.[3]

The problem: If anyone at work, or even in your family, tends to roam around with a superior air – anything they say is likely to be taken by you and the others with a pinch, or even a bag of salt. Simply because whenever they talk, the first thing to come out of it is their condescending attitude. And in case there’s someone with an inferiority complex, their incessant self-pity forms barriers to communication.

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The solution: Use simple words and an encouraging smile to communicate effectively – and stick to constructive criticism, and not criticism because you are a perfectionist. If you see someone doing a good job, let them know, and disregard the thought that you could have done it better. It’s their job so measure them by industry standards and not your own.

Language Barrier

This is perhaps the commonest and the most inadvertent of barriers to communication. Using big words, too much of technical jargon or even using just the wrong language at the incorrect or inopportune time can lead to a loss or misinterpretation of communication. It may have sounded right in your head and to your ears as well, but if sounded gobbledygook to the others, the purpose is lost.

The problem: Say you are trying to explain a process to the newbies and end up using every technical word and industry jargon that you knew – your communication has failed if the newbie understood zilch. You have to, without sounding patronizing, explain things to someone in the simplest language they understand instead of the most complex that you do.

The solution: Simplify things for the other person to understand you, and understand it well. Think about it this way: if you are trying to explain something scientific to a child, you tone it down to their thinking capacity, without “dumbing” anything down in the process.[4]

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Emotional Barrier

Sometimes, we hesitate in opening our mouths, for fear of putting our foot in it! Other times, our emotional state is so fragile that we keep it and our lips zipped tightly together lest we explode. This is the time that our emotions become barriers to communication.[5]

The problem: Say you had a fight at home and are on a slow boil, muttering, in your head, about the injustice of it all. At this time, you have to give someone a dressing down over their work performance. You are likely to transfer at least part of your angst to the conversation then, and talk about unfairness in general, leaving the other person stymied about what you actually meant!

The solution: Remove your emotions and feelings to a personal space, and talk to the other person as you normally would. Treat any phobias or fears that you have and nip them in the bud so that they don’t become a problem. And remember, no one is perfect.

Cultural Barrier

Sometimes, being in an ever-shrinking world means that inadvertently, rules can make cultures clash and cultural clashes can turn into barriers to communication. The idea is to make your point across without hurting anyone’s cultural or religious sentiments.

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The problem: There are so many ways culture clashes can happen during communication and with cultural clashes; it’s not always about ethnicity. A non-smoker may have problems with smokers taking breaks; an older boss may have issues with younger staff using the Internet too much.

The solution: Communicate only what is necessary to get the point across – and eave your personal sentiments or feelings out of it. Try to be accommodative of the other’s viewpoint, and in case you still need to work it out, do it one to one, to avoid making a spectacle of the other person’s beliefs.[6]

Gender Barrier

Finally, it’s about Men from Mars and Women from Venus. Sometimes, men don’t understand women and women don’t get men – and this gender gap throws barriers in communication. Women tend to take conflict to their graves, literally, while men can move on instantly. Women rely on intuition, men on logic – so inherently, gender becomes a big block in successful communication.[7]

The problem: A male boss may inadvertently rub his female subordinates the wrong way with anti-feminism innuendoes, or even have problems with women taking too many family leaves. Similarly, women sometimes let their emotions get the better of them, something a male audience can’t relate to.

The solution: Talk to people like people – don’t think or classify them into genders and then talk accordingly. Don’t make comments or innuendos that are gender biased – you don’t have to come across as an MCP or as a bra-burning feminist either. Keep gender out of it.

And remember, the key to successful communication is simply being open, making eye contact and smiling intermittently. The battle is usually half won when you say what you mean in simple, straightforward words and keep your emotions out of it.

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