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Small Signs That He’s The One You Can Grow Old With

Small Signs That He’s The One You Can Grow Old With

There are giveaway signs in every relationship that a couple are destined to be together -that without a doubt they will grow old together. These giveaways can be small gestures, subtle behaviors – nothing remarkable at first glance – but so meaningful when we take a closer look.

It’s not the hotel rooms and fancy presents that suggest the longevity of a relationship but the sweet moments shared at the breakfast table or in the bathroom first thing in the morning as you both rush out to work.

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Here are some examples of some everyday signals that tell you this man is for the long road.

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1. He’s the first person you look for when you get big news – you can’t wait for his reaction.

2. You guys still hold hands in public after one year together.

3. You’re happy to wash his smelly gym gear.

4. If he doesn’t text all day it’s not a big deal – you miss hearing from him but you know he’s busy.

5. He very gently clips your toe nails for you.

6. You massage his back after his stressful day even though you’re tired yourself.

7. He remembers the anniversary of your first date and always marks the occasion.

8. When you’re out together he only looks at you – he has no interest in anyone else.

9. You finish his sentences for him and he doesn’t mind.

10. Sometimes you answer the question that he’s just about to ask.

11. Other times you know when he’s going to call you or he knows when you’re going to call him.

12. You always prepare the veg and he does the meat. That’s just how you roll.

13. You laugh at the same things and at the same time.

14. He pretends not to notice when you haven’t shaved your legs.

15. You always find what he’s looking for. Glasses, bag, jacket he knows you’ve got him covered.

16. You leave out a towel for him when he’s in the shower.

17. He just smiles when your cooking goes horribly wrong yet again.

18. He cuddles up to you in your PJ’s – you’re always attractive to him.

19. When you’re out together you know from your body language what the other one is thinking.

20. He always satisfies you in bed – or at least tries his best.

21. He tries to stay awake after sex to keep you company.

22. You love to cook for him even though you know you’re rubbish at it.

23. You use the toilet when he’s in the shower – no biggy.

24. You don’t mind picking up his smelly socks.

25. He’s cool with buying your tampons.

26. He’s upset when you’re upset but he stays strong for you.

27. He always knows when you need a hug.

28. You always know when he needs a hug.

29. You still kiss a lot even after one year together.

30. You laugh when he hangs a picture crooked.

31. You brag about him to your Dad on the phone.

32. He brags about you to his Mom on the phone.

33. He cooks every Sunday and lets you have a long hot soak.

34. You play with your technology ever Sunday afternoon lying together on the couch.

35. He’s happy to spend time with your friends – he considers them his friends.

36. He won’t watch HOMELAND until you can watch it together.

37. He stands up for you when the neighbor gives you grief for scratching her car.

38. You understand each others bodies – you don’t need to talk about it now, it just works.

39. You reassure him when he lays the new floor all wrong.

40. He still insists on paying for dinner even after two years together.

41. You don’t tell him how bad his dodgy haircut really is.

42. He licks his lips after your terrible lasagne – he even has second helpings.

43. You laugh half way through an argument and he joins you – you can’t stay angry at each other for long.

44. You don’t like being apart for more than a night and you call and text constantly.

45. You haven’t fancied anyone else since you met him.

46. You still buy each other small gifts for no particular reason.

47. You love to holiday together.

As you can see there are lots of tell tale signs that you will grow old with this special man in your life. Maybe your partner is always looking out for you or you have fallen into comfortable habits that you would miss were they not there?

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Falling in love with the right person is one of the best feelings imaginable but growing into a deeper love that is based in understanding and trust is the most reassuring feeling there is.

When you’ve got the man you will grow old with you will know – why ? Because he’s a legend.

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Last Updated on August 15, 2018

When You Start to Enjoy Being Single, These 12 Things Will Happen

When You Start to Enjoy Being Single, These 12 Things Will Happen

Being single can make you weary, especially if you didn't initiate a breakup, it could be easy to get carried away with reminiscing and what-if scenarios. Staying caught up in the past is toxic to your growth, however, and interferes with your ability to move forward. Single life can be self-actualizing and enjoyable, but you need to embrace it first. No matter where you are on your journey in coming to terms with being single, the following 12 fantastic things will happen when you accept it.

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1. You will be more focused.

    Once you start to treasure your new-found freedom, you will realize that taking time for yourself will show you what is most important in your life. Enjoying your single time will make what you want clearer and reveal which areas of your life you should build upon. Additionally, studies show that experiencing something alone results in our brain forming a more clear and longer lasting memory.

    2. You will be more active.

      Studies show that unmarried people are also more fit than their hitched counterparts. Let yourself welcome being single, and use this time to your benefit. You'll be more confident and in control when you do meet someone special.

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      3. You will be more likely to have high goals.

        Being single means you can't settle. In case someone who captures your heart comes along, you need to be at the top of your game. By embracing your time being single, you will be more able to pursue your goals and work towards a more complete, fulfilling future.

        4. You will be more creative.

          Spending time alone is also linked to an increase in creative thinking. Spending more time alone will force you to be a deeper thinker, and could lead you to solutions and projects you wouldn't have thought of otherwise.

          5. Your schedule will be your own.

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            Once you get past feeling lonely and realize how wonderful being single is, you will become aware of one of the best perks – your schedule is now completely your own. No longer do you need to have nights out approved, nor will long days at work get interrupted. Relax into loving your single life because nothing is quite as liberating as deciding every moment of your weekly schedule.

            6. You will likely save money.

              Dating is a great way to wave goodbye to all your hard earned cash. When you're with someone, there's nothing more important than impressing them, including your income. However, when the relationship fizzles, you realize how this tactic doesn't pay off. Not only are we more prone to spending when dating, married couples are more likely to have credit card debt than unmarried singles. So don't get depressed when you're eating cheap meals alone – it's really a form of investing in your future!

              7. You won't need to compromise on entertainment.

                Particularly if your significant other tends to have different tastes than you, being single can be a blessing. As soon as you can appreciate being single, you will realize how freeing it is to always watch exactly what you want. There is no longer any need to skimp on your favorite movies, plays, or TV shows that others don't appreciate.

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                8. You will have more time for your family.

                  Another thing you will realize once you learn to relish being single is you now have much more time for family. Especially when it comes to older relatives, time spent with them truly is precious. Make the most of your single time by reconnecting with family members in your life you may have been neglecting.

                  9. You have more time for your friends.

                    Once you start basking in your single glory, you will also find that you have more time for your friends. Not only will increased free time let you reconnect with friends you may have neglected while being half of a couple, studies also show that married people have much weaker social lives than those who are unmarried.

                    10. You will find new haunts in your city.

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                      Once you start to enjoy your single life again you will also find that you have plenty of time to rediscover your city. Where relationships see us fall into the same habit of favorite spots to drink, eat, or dance, when you're on your own you will naturally start to explore fresh venues again.

                      11. You'll find more interests.

                        Similarly, enjoying your time being single will give you more time to consider new hobbies and interests. Instead of repeating the same go-to dates, you can now freely explore activities that really make you passionate.

                        12. You will be more aware of what you want.

                          Ultimately, taking time to ourselves is an important ingredient in discovering what type of person is our ideal match, or what career we can happily commit to. By delighting in your uninhibited life, you are more able to experiment and thereby find out what works for you and what doesn't. Don't look at being single as a drawback, since learning more about yourself and finding out what makes you tick are crucial in forming balanced, healthy relationships in the future.

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