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You Need To Play Video Games Because They Can Help Prepare Your Life

You Need To Play Video Games Because They Can Help Prepare Your Life

If you’re reading this, there’s a decent chance that you play or have played video games at some point in your lifetime. And it’s not just “kid stuff” anymore; the average gamer is 31 years old, and more than likely grew up playing video games in various formats. While it used to be the norm to consider gaming a waste of time, it’s now widely accepted as a genuine hobby and pastime. What we haven’t paid much attention to is the fact that this hobby can actually prepare us for the real world in a variety of ways.

1. They allow you to cheat

Let’s get this one out of the way early, shall we? Video games are full of cheats and tricks that allow you to unlock certain areas or items without putting in all the (*gasp*) work you would otherwise need to do if you played the game fairly. While I wouldn’t condone getting ahead in life through unethical or immoral means, there are certainly many people who have gotten away with doing just that. But, if you get caught doing something illegal in real life, your punishment will be more severe than being forced to wear a dunce cap. At any rate, you should probably the cheating to the virtual realm.

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2. They promote exploration

Ever since the original Legend of Zelda was released back in the 1980s, video games have required players to dive into virtual worlds in order to discover the secrets within. Even linear games like Super Mario Bros. had warp tunnels and other surprises stashed away for those who dared venture off the beaten path. Isn’t that was life is all about? Even though most of our world has been mapped out, there’s still a ton out there to discover. And the awards for finding something new in real life are much greater than getting to skip to level 8!

3. They promote perseverance

Any true gamer has one game they can play for at least a couple minutes with their eyes closed. But that’s because they’ve been through that level dozens (and possibly hundreds) of times. And quitting was never an option. We just had to get past that one boss or obstacle. In real life, the only people who experience true success are the ones who get back up after being knocked down a peg, and keep working hard until they attain their goals. Even if it means starting from scratch sometimes, it’s important to push through adversity to get where you want to be in life.

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4. They promote socialization

Video games require you to socialize on two different levels: as your in-game character, and as a person in the real world. If you’ve ever played an RPG, such as Final Fantasy, you know the importance of talking to every single character you come into contact with. While most non-playable characters in these games don’t add much to your story, you never know when talking to a passerby will lead you to a new and exciting adventure.

Although there is the long-running stereotype of video gamers being Mountain Dew-swilling basement dwellers, they’re now more than ever required to interact with one another, at least within their games. Online play has transformed the way we play games. We can now cooperate with or issue challenges to other gamers all over the world, which, incidentally, gives some of us even less reason to leave their apartment. That wasn’t the point I wanted to make! Ugh…anyway…

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5. They strengthen foresight

Think back to the hours you’ve undoubtedly spent playing Tetris. Remember how you always kept one side completely unblocked so you could fit the long, straight piece in and clear four lines at once? It seems pretty simple now, but as kids the game was teaching us to think strategically and to time our moves perfectly.

Also, many games nowadays require the player to make decisions for their character that will ultimately affect the storyline in major ways. Even in the virtual world, in which you can restart from your last save point if you die, game designers are implementing the notion of cause and effect, and that every action has a consequence that may change the course of a person’s entire life.

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6. They evoke empathy

While we’re on the subject of characters, I’d be remiss if I didn’t discuss the emotional responses video games can evoke. Any avid reader or theatre-goer will tell you that media can have an incredible effect on a person’s emotions. Video games take it one step further, in that, for the duration of the time you’re playing them, you become connected to the character you’re controlling. Even younger gamers who have never experienced loss in real life can begin to gain an understanding of what it is and how to deal with it through the way a character reacts within a storyline. Not only can video games teach you a lot about the world, but they can also teach you a lot about yourself.

Featured photo credit: social gamers & siblings – _MG_0983 / sean dreilinger via farm4.staticflickr.com

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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