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12 Ways To Prevent and Soothe Pregnancy Heartburn

12 Ways To Prevent and Soothe Pregnancy Heartburn

When pregnant, women get heartburn because the placenta manufactures high levels of progesterone. This causes a relaxing of the muscles, including the valve that separates the stomach from the esophagus. This allows gastric acids to creep back up the esophagus and that is when we experience the awful burning pain sensation. This very annoying condition has been known to start early on in pregnancy but is most commonly endured in the second half of your 40 weeks.

Here are 12 effective ways to find relief and avoid pregnancy heartburn.

1. Eat slowly

When you gulp down your food quickly you miss the window of time when you feel full. A full tummy is not a good idea if you are trying to avoid pregnancy heartburn.

So take your time. Savor every bite.

2. Wear loose clothing

Tight clothing can push your baby right up against your stomach, forcing acid back up your esophagus. It’s best to wear your clothes as loose as you can if you are already suffering from heartburn.

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3. Drink water

Lots of water will help to neutralize the acid in your stomach.

During meals it is best to just take small sips. This way you leave enough room for your meal. Once your meal is digested, you can drink a full glass of water.

4. Don’t bend over

It’s a good idea not to bend over if you tend to get pregnancy heartburn. I know this may sound like a bit of a tall order but trust me, bending over will aggravate the problem and you will be sorry once the heartburn starts.

Try bending your knees if you’re reaching down low for something. Any expert in ergonomics will tell you this is the best way to go anyway.

5. Try natural remedies

There are many natural remedies which are beneficial, as they neutralize the acid in the stomach and they pose no risk to your baby. These include:

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  • Pineapple
  • Almonds
  • Coconut water
  • Fennel tea
  • Acid cider vinegar
  • Ginger
  • Chewable papaya enzymes
  • Slippery elm bark

It’s worth trying out some of these–perhaps one or two of them will give you relief.

6. Use a bed wedge

This is a specially designed pillow which raises your upper abdomen while in bed, preventing acid from rising up and annoying you.

A cheaper alternative to a bed wedge is to get two blocks and put them under the legs of the bed on either side so you are lying slightly propped up.

7. Avoid triggers

After suffering from heartburn for a while you will get to know which foods act as triggers for you. Not everyone reacts to the same foods, but fried and spicy food are notorious for causing heartburn.

The best thing you can do is to stay away from these foods until the baby is born.

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Ultimately it’s up to you. You can eat what you wish, but be prepared to pay the price for eating the wrong foods.

8. Stay upright after eating

You may be tempted to go and have a lie down after you eat but that’s not such a good idea. Give your digestive system time to work before you lie down or you could well find yourself with that burning sensation again. And once it starts it can be so hard to get rid of it.

9. Eat small meals often

Eating smaller meals often–that is, five or six small meals a day instead of three or four large meals–means that your stomach is never packed with food. This will cut down on the likelihood of getting caught with heartburn.

It’s a simple fix for anyone who is really suffering; the key is to be organized and plan your meals ahead.

10. Try antacids

If the preventative measures and the natural remedies have done nothing to alleviate your pain, you could always try an over-the-counter antacid. There is no risk to your little one, so you don’t have to worry in any way.

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11. H2 blockers

These are that bit stronger than antacids and they may hit the spot for you and banish that pesky heartburn for good.

While they are safe to take in pregnancy, make sure you check with a pharmacist before you chosoe one of these just to be on the safe side.

12. Protein pump inhibitors

Protein pump inhibitors (PPIs) are the most effective method for preventing and soothing heartburn or acid reflux. You will have to be careful though. Talk to your doctor and make sure you get a prescription for a PPI that is safe to take during pregnancy.

I know these work, as I take them myself for very bad acid reflux. You will get fantastic relief and you can give them up once the baby is born.

Pregnancy should be a time of great joy and anticipation. Sure, you will have swollen ankles to deal with and you might have trouble sleeping, but suffering every day with heartburn is unnecessary when there are so many different remedies available to you.

Don’t suffer in silence. Take action with the tips here and you will be smiling again in no time.

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Published on December 14, 2018

14 Helpful Tips for Single Parents: How to Stay Sane While Doing it All

14 Helpful Tips for Single Parents: How to Stay Sane While Doing it All

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, over 27% of children under the age of 18 are living with a single parent.[1] That’s over 1/4th of the U.S. population.There is a common misconception that children who grow up in single parent homes are not as successful as children living in two-parent homes.

One crucial detail that was often left out of studies when comparing single and two-parent homes was the stability of the household. There is a correlation between family structure and family stability, but this study shows that children who grow up in stable single-parent homes do as well as those in married households in terms of academic abilities and behavior.

But providing stability is easier said than done. With only one adult to act as a parent, some tasks are inherently more challenging. However, there are a few helpful things you can do to make the parenting journey a little easier for yourself and stay sane while doing it.

1. Don’t Neglect Self-Care

Before anything else can be done, you must be caring for your own needs adequately. Only when you are feeling well-rested and healthy can you be at your best for your children.

Many parents tend to put their kids’ needs first and their owns last, but that will result in a never-ending cycle of exhaustion and feelings of inadequacy. Make time to eat regularly and healthfully, get plenty of rest, and squeeze in exercise whenever you can. Even a short walk around the neighborhood will help your body get much-needed movement and fresh air.

Your children depend on you, and it’s up to you to make sure that you are well-equipped and ready to take on that responsibility.

2. Join Forces with Other Single Parents

At times, it may seem like you’re the only person who knows what it’s like to be a single parent. However, the statistics say that there are many others who know exactly what you’re going through.

Find single parents locally, through your kid’s school, extracurricular activities, or even an app. There are also numerous online communities that can offer support and advice, through Facebook or sites like Single Mom Nation.

Although single moms make up the majority of single parents, there are more than 2.6 million single dads in the U.S. A great way to connect is through Meetup. Other single parents will more than happy to arrange babysitting swaps, playdates, and carpools.

Join forces in order to form mutually beneficial relationships.

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3. Build a Community

In addition to finding support with other single parents, also build a community comprised of families of all different types. Rather than focus solely on the single parent aspect of your identity, look for parents and kids who share other things in common.

Join a playgroup, get plugged in at a church, or get to know the parents of the kids involved in the same extracurricular activities. Having a community of a variety of people and families will bring diversity and excitement into your and your kids’ lives.

4. Accept Help

Don’t try to be a superhero and do it all yourself. There are probably people in your life who care about you and your kids and want to help you. Let them know what types of things would be most appreciated, whether it’s bringing meals once a week, helping with rides to school, or giving you time to yourself.

There is no shame in asking for help and accepting assistance from loved ones. You will not be perceived as weak or incompetent. You are being a good parent by being resourceful and allowing others to give you a much-needed break.

5. Get Creative with Childcare

Raising a child on a single income is a challenge, with the high cost of daycares, nannies, and other conventional childcare services. More affordable options are possible if you go a less traditional route.

If you have space and live in a college town, offer a college student housing in exchange for regular childcare. Or swap kids with other single parents so that your kids have friends to play with while the parents get time to themselves.

When I was younger, my parents had a group of five family friends, and all of the children would rotate to a different house each day of the week, during the summer months. The kids would have a great time playing with each other, and the parents’ job becomes a lot easier. That’s what you would call a win-win situation.

6. Plan Ahead for Emergencies

As a single parent, a backup plan or two is a must in emergency situations. Make a list of people you know you can call in a moment’s notice. There will be times in which you need help, and it’s important to know ahead of time who you can rely on.

Look into whether or not your area offers emergency babysitting services or a drop-in daycare. Knowing who will be able to care for your child in the event of an emergency can relieve one potential source of anxiety in stressful situations.

7. Create a Routine

Routines are crucial for young children because knowing what to expect gives them a semblance of control. This is even more important when in a single parent home.

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If the child travels between homes or has multiple caretakers, life can seem extremely chaotic and unpredictable. Establish a routine and schedule for your child as much as possible. This can include bedtime, before/after school, chores, meal times, and even a weekend routine.

Having a routine does not mean things cannot change. It is merely a default schedule to fall back on when no additional events or activities are going on. When your children know what to expect, they will be less resistant because they know what to expect, and days will run much more smoothly.

8. Be Consistent with Rules and Discipline

If your child has multiple caretakers, such as another parent, grandparent, or babysitter, communicate clearly on how discipline will be handled. Talk to your ex, if you are sharing custody, as well as any other caretakers about the rules and the agreed-upon approach to discipline.

When a child realizes that certain rules can be bent with certain people, he/she will use it to their advantage, causing additional issues with limits, behavior, and discipline down the road.

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9. Stay Positive

Everyone has heard the saying, “Mind over matter.” But there really is so much power behind your mentality. It can change your perspective and make a difficult situation so much better.

Your kids will be able to detect even the smallest shift in your attitude. When the responsibilities of motherhood are overwhelming, stay focused on the positive things in your life, such as your friends and family. This will produce a much more stable home environment.

Maintain your sense of humor and don’t be afraid to be silly. Look towards the future and the great things that are still to come for you and your family. Rediscover and redefine your family values.

10. Move Past the Guilt

In a single parent home, it is impossible to act as both parents, regardless of how hard you try. Let go of the things that you cannot do as a single parent, and instead, think of the great things you ARE able to provide for your children.

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Leave behind the notion that life would be easier or better with two parents. This is simply not true. There is a multitude of pros and cons to all family dynamics, and the one you are providing for your kids now is the one that they need.

Don’t get bogged down by guilt or regret. Take control of your life and be the best parent you can by being present and engaged with them on a daily basis.

11. Answer Questions Honestly

Your kids may have questions about why their home situation is different from many of their friends. When asked, don’t sugarcoat the situation or give them an answer that is not accurate.

Depending on their age, take this opportunity to explain the truth of what happened and how the current circumstances came about. Not all families have two parents, whether that is due to divorce, death, or whatever else life brings.

Don’t give more detail than necessary or talk badly about the other parent. But strive to be truthful and honest. Your children will benefit more from your candor than a made-up story.

12. Treat Kids Like Kids

In the absence of a partner, it can be tempting to rely on your children for comfort, companionship, or sympathy. But your kids are not equipped to play this role for you.

There are many details within an adult relationship that children are not able to understand or process, and it will only cause confusion and resentment.

Do not take out your anger on your kids. Separate your emotional needs from your role as a mother. If you find yourself depending on your kids too much, look for adult friends or family members that you can talk to about your issues.

13. Find Role Models

Find positive role models of the opposite sex for your child. It’s crucial that your child does not form negative associations with an entire gender of people.

Find close friends or family members that would be willing to spend one-on-one time with your kids. Encourage them to form meaningful relationships with people that you trust and that they can look up to.

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Role models can make a huge difference in the path that a child decides to take, so be intentional about the ones that you put in your kids’ lives.

14. Be Affectionate and Give Praise

Your children need your affection and praise on a daily basis. Engage with your kids as often as possible by playing with them, going on outings, and encouraging open dialogue.

Affirm them in the things that they are doing well, no matter how small. Praise their efforts, rather than their achievements. This will inspire them to continue to put forth hard work and not give up when success is not achieved.

Rather than spending money on gifts, spend time and effort in making lasting memories.

Final Thoughts

Being a single parent is a challenging responsibility to take on. Without the help of a partner to fall back on, single parents have a lot more to take on.

However, studies show that growing up in a single parent home does not have a negative effect on achievement in school. As long as the family is a stable and safe environment, kids are able to excel and do well in life.

Use these tips in order to be a reliable and capable parent for your kids, while maintaining your own well-being and sanity.

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