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12 Things Only Dubaian People Can Understand

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12 Things Only Dubaian People Can Understand

Dubai needs no introduction. It is the pivotal point of business for the whole of the Middle East. More importantly, this city is famously known for its modern high-rises, the dazzling night life, the grand shopping experiences, the 830-meter-tall tower known as Burj Khalifa, and the man-made islands—Atlantis, The Palm Hotel and Resort—, amongst other famous things.

I have never been to Dubai before, and honestly, I would love to visit the “America” of the Middle East. That is, whenever my partner and I save ample of money to make a trip there. The advantage for us is that my brother and sister-in-law live there. So, whatever information I know about Dubai is from them, along with information that I’ve gathered from other sources. So, here is a list of 12 things only people from Dubai can relate to, and for the rest of us, we can try to read and imagine that we relate, too!

1. You know it is a tax-free city.

This is one of the best things about Dubai—you can go mad shopping! You can indulge in scrumptious meals, and you can visit those fancy places that you have always wanted to visit. All because it is a tax-free city!

2. You also know it is one of the most expensive cities, too.

So what if your city is tax free? What about the sky-high rents that you have to pay? Or, lets say, the tolls in the middle of your inner-city commute? All the clothes, the jewellery, and the fancy restaurants will certainly put a dent in your wallet.

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3. You enter a mall and you are lost for the entire day.

I am not going to say they’re a “waste of time.” The malls are huge, with so many activities and things to do that you can’t really keep track of time. Especially if you visit the mall on a weekend for a brunch. You can easily spend the whole day eating, shopping (or window shopping), relaxing, watching the kids in the playzone, getting hungry, and finally deciding to eat dinner there as well. Your entire day spent inside a mall! Didn’t think it could happen, did you?

4. You never eat a simple meal.

Talking about brunch, your meal in Dubai can never be a simple meal. It has to be a grand meal. Even if you order fish and chips, the quantity they’ll give for a single person is enough for two adults to finish off. Most of the time, brunch, lunch, and dinner are all buffet-style, eat-what-you-can endeavours.

5. You have used a gold ATM booth.

I mean, seriously. They have Gold to go: The gold ATM. This is one rich city!

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    6. You see muscle cars EVERYWHERE.

    If you think gold-to-go booths indicate how rich people from Dubai are, wait till you hit the road. Everyone, and I mean everyone, invests their wealth in buying muscle cars. The roads are literally covered with names like BMW, Volkswagen, Audi, Cadillac, Ferrari, Porsche, Nissan Infinity, Bentley, and Lamborghini—to name a few. Talk about luxurious travel!

    And, guess what cars the police drive?

    Lamborghini Aventador, Ferrari FF, limited edition of Aston Martin One-77, Mercedes Benz SLS AMG, Ford Mustang GT, Bentley Continental GT, Hummer H-3, Audi R-8—these are few names from the big list.

    Bottom line: it’s not only the civilians who drive fancy cars, the whole city seems to be breathing ludicrous vehicles.

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    7. You get lost while driving.

    The roads change every day. In the morning, you drove across the bridge, and by the evening, you have to take an alternative route because that bridge has closed down. Therefore, the constant route changes lead to severe traffic jams. Dubai sees horrible traffic jams. But the plus point is, you get to check out all the fancy cars stuck on the road.

    8. Your camel is your favorite pet.

    They have chocolates made out of camel milk. They take their camels out for walks just like we take our pets out for walks. They even park their camels in the parking lots beside all the deluxe wheels.

    9. You don’t know your postal address.

    Sounds crazy but it’s true. Especially for us, the “foreigners,” who would like to DHL a gift parcel to our beloved family members living there. The addresses Dubaians know are their office addresses—that’s where we all send our gifts. No zip code, no street addresses, no post office box!

    10. Your simple hotel is our luxurious one.

    A very simple hotel in Dubai looks like a hotel stripped from a fairy tale. Starting from the chandeliers, to the designer tables and chairs, sofas, to the lush carpets, even the beds and bathrooms are insanely lavish. They represent the rich Middle Eastern flavor in every step you take. So, just imagine what Burj Khalifa would be like? Or any other superstar hotel in the city?

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    11. You know that sand storms are just a part of life.

    You can hardly see much nature in Dubai, thanks to the constant building of high rises. They do have artificial greens, but they can’t really replace the beauty of nature. What they do have from nature is the sudden sand storms. These storms are so frequent that they are now considered to be part of every Dubaian’s life.

    12. You have a very hot city.

    I really mean it. I don’t know what you make out of it, but when I say hot, I actually mean the blazing sun laughing down at you. You may not have humidity, but you do have scorching heat reaching somewhere around 40 degrees plus. No wonder all the buildings, the cars, malls, restaurants, and offices are air conditioned. And because of the intense heat, even the cold water turns hot.

    Despite having some negative points, Dubai is a beautiful city with bustling night life, endless entertainment, vast options for fine dining, luxurious experiences in any hotel, and shopping to satisfy anyone. You just need to make sure you have a constant cashflow to really enjoy it.

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    Last Updated on July 20, 2021

    How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)

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    How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking (A Step-by-Step Guide)

    You’re standing behind the curtain, just about to make your way on stage to face the many faces half-shrouded in darkness in front of you. As you move towards the spotlight, your body starts to feel heavier with each step. A familiar thump echoes throughout your body – your heartbeat has gone off the charts.

    Don’t worry, you’re not the only one with glossophobia(also known as speech anxiety or the fear of speaking to large crowds). Sometimes, the anxiety happens long before you even stand on stage.

    Your body’s defence mechanism responds by causing a part of your brain to release adrenaline into your blood – the same chemical that gets released as if you were being chased by a lion.

    Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you overcome your fear of public speaking:

    1. Prepare yourself mentally and physically

    According to experts, we’re built to display anxiety and to recognize it in others. If your body and mind are anxious, your audience will notice. Hence, it’s important to prepare yourself before the big show so that you arrive on stage confident, collected and ready.

    “Your outside world is a reflection of your inside world. What goes on in the inside, shows on the outside.” – Bob Proctor

    Exercising lightly before a presentation helps get your blood circulating and sends oxygen to the brain. Mental exercises, on the other hand, can help calm the mind and nerves. Here are some useful ways to calm your racing heart when you start to feel the butterflies in your stomach:

    Warming up

    If you’re nervous, chances are your body will feel the same way. Your body gets tense, your muscles feel tight or you’re breaking in cold sweat. The audience will notice you are nervous.

    If you observe that this is exactly what is happening to you minutes before a speech, do a couple of stretches to loosen and relax your body. It’s better to warm up before every speech as it helps to increase the functional potential of the body as a whole. Not only that, it increases muscle efficiency, improves reaction time and your movements.

    Here are some exercises to loosen up your body before show time:

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    1. Neck and shoulder rolls – This helps relieve upper body muscle tension and pressure as the rolls focus on rotating the head and shoulders, loosening the muscle. Stress and anxiety can make us rigid within this area which can make you feel agitated, especially when standing.
    2. Arm stretches – We often use this part of our muscles during a speech or presentation through our hand gestures and movements. Stretching these muscles can reduce arm fatigue, loosen you up and improve your body language range.
    3. Waist twists – Place your hands on your hips and rotate your waist in a circular motion. This exercise focuses on loosening the abdominal and lower back regions which is essential as it can cause discomfort and pain, further amplifying any anxieties you may experience.

    Stay hydrated

    Ever felt parched seconds before speaking? And then coming up on stage sounding raspy and scratchy in front of the audience? This happens because the adrenaline from stage fright causes your mouth to feel dried out.

    To prevent all that, it’s essential we stay adequately hydrated before a speech. A sip of water will do the trick. However, do drink in moderation so that you won’t need to go to the bathroom constantly.

    Try to avoid sugary beverages and caffeine, since it’s a diuretic – meaning you’ll feel thirstier. It will also amplify your anxiety which prevents you from speaking smoothly.

    Meditate

    Meditation is well-known as a powerful tool to calm the mind. ABC’s Dan Harris, co-anchor of Nightline and Good Morning America weekend and author of the book titled10% Happier , recommends that meditation can help individuals to feel significantly calmer, faster.

    Meditation is like a workout for your mind. It gives you the strength and focus to filter out the negativity and distractions with words of encouragement, confidence and strength.

    Mindfulness meditation, in particular, is a popular method to calm yourself before going up on the big stage. The practice involves sitting comfortably, focusing on your breathing and then bringing your mind’s attention to the present without drifting into concerns about the past or future – which likely includes floundering on stage.

    Here’s a nice example of guided meditation before public speaking:

    2. Focus on your goal

    One thing people with a fear of public speaking have in common is focusing too much on themselves and the possibility of failure.

    Do I look funny? What if I can’t remember what to say? Do I look stupid? Will people listen to me? Does anyone care about what I’m talking about?’

    Instead of thinking this way, shift your attention to your one true purpose – contributing something of value to your audience.

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    Decide on the progress you’d like your audience to make after your presentation. Notice their movements and expressions to adapt your speech to ensure that they are having a good time to leave the room as better people.

    If your own focus isn’t beneficial and what it should be when you’re speaking, then shift it to what does. This is also key to establishing trust during your presentation as the audience can clearly see that you have their interests at heart.[1]

    3. Convert negativity to positivity

    There are two sides constantly battling inside of us – one is filled with strength and courage while the other is doubt and insecurities. Which one will you feed?

    ‘What if I mess up this speech? What if I’m not funny enough? What if I forget what to say?’

    It’s no wonder why many of us are uncomfortable giving a presentation. All we do is bring ourselves down before we got a chance to prove ourselves. This is also known as a self-fulfilling prophecy – a belief that comes true because we are acting as if it already is. If you think you’re incompetent, then it will eventually become true.

    Motivational coaches tout that positive mantras and affirmations tend to boost your confidents for the moments that matter most. Say to yourself: “I’ll ace this speech and I can do it!”

    Take advantage of your adrenaline rush to encourage positive outcome rather than thinking of the negative ‘what ifs’.

    Here’s a video of Psychologist Kelly McGonigal who encourages her audience to turn stress into something positive as well as provide methods on how to cope with it:

    4. Understand your content

    Knowing your content at your fingertips helps reduce your anxiety because there is one less thing to worry about. One way to get there is to practice numerous times before your actual speech.

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    However, memorizing your script word-for-word is not encouraged. You can end up freezing should you forget something. You’ll also risk sounding unnatural and less approachable.

    “No amount of reading or memorizing will make you successful in life. It is the understanding and the application of wise thought that counts.” – Bob Proctor

    Many people unconsciously make the mistake of reading from their slides or memorizing their script word-for-word without understanding their content – a definite way to stress themselves out.

    Understanding your speech flow and content makes it easier for you to convert ideas and concepts into your own words which you can then clearly explain to others in a conversational manner. Designing your slides to include text prompts is also an easy hack to ensure you get to quickly recall your flow when your mind goes blank.[2]

    One way to understand is to memorize the over-arching concepts or ideas in your pitch. It helps you speak more naturally and let your personality shine through. It’s almost like taking your audience on a journey with a few key milestones.

    5. Practice makes perfect

    Like most people, many of us are not naturally attuned to public speaking. Rarely do individuals walk up to a large audience and present flawlessly without any research and preparation.

    In fact, some of the top presenters make it look easy during showtime because they have spent countless hours behind-the-scenes in deep practice. Even great speakers like the late John F. Kennedy would spend months preparing his speech beforehand.

    Public speaking, like any other skill, requires practice – whether it be practicing your speech countless of times in front of a mirror or making notes. As the saying goes, practice makes perfect!

    6. Be authentic

    There’s nothing wrong with feeling stressed before going up to speak in front of an audience.

    Many people fear public speaking because they fear others will judge them for showing their true, vulnerable self. However, vulnerability can sometimes help you come across as more authentic and relatable as a speaker.

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    Drop the pretence of trying to act or speak like someone else and you’ll find that it’s worth the risk. You become more genuine, flexible and spontaneous, which makes it easier to handle unpredictable situations – whether it’s getting tough questions from the crowd or experiencing an unexpected technical difficulty.

    To find out your authentic style of speaking is easy. Just pick a topic or issue you are passionate about and discuss this like you normally would with a close family or friend. It is like having a conversation with someone in a personal one-to-one setting. A great way to do this on stage is to select a random audience member(with a hopefully calming face) and speak to a single person at a time during your speech. You’ll find that it’s easier trying to connect to one person at a time than a whole room.

    With that said, being comfortable enough to be yourself in front of others may take a little time and some experience, depending how comfortable you are with being yourself in front of others. But once you embrace it, stage fright will not be as intimidating as you initially thought.

    Presenters like Barack Obama are a prime example of a genuine and passionate speaker:

    7. Post speech evaluation

    Last but not the least, if you’ve done public speaking and have been scarred from a bad experience, try seeing it as a lesson learned to improve yourself as a speaker.

    Don’t beat yourself up after a presentation

    We are the hardest on ourselves and it’s good to be. But when you finish delivering your speech or presentation, give yourself some recognition and a pat on the back.

    You managed to finish whatever you had to do and did not give up. You did not let your fears and insecurities get to you. Take a little more pride in your work and believe in yourself.

    Improve your next speech

    As mentioned before, practice does make perfect. If you want to improve your public speaking skills, try asking someone to film you during a speech or presentation. Afterwards, watch and observe what you can do to improve yourself next time.

    Here are some questions you can ask yourself after every speech:

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    • How did I do?
    • Are there any areas for improvement?
    • Did I sound or look stressed?
    • Did I stumble on my words? Why?
    • Was I saying “um” too often?
    • How was the flow of the speech?

    Write everything you observed down and keep practicing and improving. In time, you’ll be able to better manage your fears of public speaking and appear more confident when it counts.

    If you want even more tips about public speaking or delivering a great presentation, check out these articles too:

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