When you are in a relationship you do have a lot of expectations and beliefs about what you are getting into. But with a playboy, nothing is exact. You should expect a lot of surprises that are not really positive or thrilling when you are dating a playboy. But you could know these things already if you are in a relationship with one.
1. Nothing is ever certain
He caters for you and can be charming and sweet enough to be there for you. But commitment can be as scary to him as death is to anyone. Nothing is certain with him.
2. They put you on the edge every now and then
If the playboy is a skilled one, they will groom you to be the crazy one. They simply keep you on your toes and proactive enough to protect the title of being their girlfriend.
3. You are not the only one
Well never feel too comfortable with the role of being their girlfriend. Because at the end of the day there is a strong chance you are not the only one or won’t be.
4. It is always so hard to let go
Being a girlfriend to a playboy makes you silently committed to him. Because it is always so hard to walk away when you know your space will be filled immediately when you depart.
5. Your man is the ideal flirt
You would know he is a playboy when he is with other women. How does he act with them around? Does he flirt with them simply to receive attention from them?
6. Sex is the theme of your relationship
From the first date to yesterday, it is more about the sex rather than other elements of a serious relationship. It is never about verbal communication or plans about how your relationship will become more progressive.
7. Your man is not willing to show you to his friends or family
It is just you and him. He is not about you seeing other members of his family or intimate friends. He just wants to keep it casual. He doesn’t even want to meet your friends or family too.
8. You have a good looking man
He is charming not only to you but to everyone. He wants to be on top of his game and that means he has to constantly keep in shape, he doesn’t mind if this means he has to go to the gym every now and then.
9. You have an evasive man
Your relationship with him is not constant or solid. Actually he is always mysterious about personal things. You would rarely have him tell you about his dreams, aspirations or insecurities. They are just protective about personal data. He wouldn’t want you to use these things against him at some point.
10. He is not spending lots of money on you
When you are in a relationship with a play boy you can expect some nice things but this will never go overboard. They tend to have the ideal script of using some money to lure you in, but this is never extensive.
11. There is no clarity in the relationship
The relationship can be vague and mysterious. He is never giving you every detail about his whereabouts or what he is up to when he is not with you.
12. He has friends who are playboys
Don’t think you are stuck with a gentleman when your man has friends and buddies who are always talking about women and hooking up every now and then. Playboys hang around other playboys, period.
13. His words do not match his actions
He says one thing and does another thing. He makes promises he cannot keep. In fact he is more about calming your feelings for the moment rather than acting to making sure you are secure.
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