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What Love Is Really Like

What Love Is Really Like

Dr. Seuss said it best when he described love. Love is weird, love is different, love is something words can't really describe. I've given it a try with these 14 examples of what love is really like. What does love mean to you?

“We're all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness – and call it love – true love.” – Dr. Seuss

1. Love is taking the good with the bad.

Love is taking the good with the bad

    2. Love is accepting the morning breath, the runny nose and the bad hair days.

    Accepting Love

      3. Love is letting go of your ego.

      love and ego

        4. Love is respecting the other person's beliefs.

        love and respect

          5. Love is standing up for yourself.

          stand up for yourself

            6. Love is knowing when to back off.

            Personal-Space-In-Love

              7. Love is knowing when to say no.

              saying no

                8. Love is allowing the other person to be themselves.

                be yourself

                  9. Love is listening.

                  love listen

                    10. Love is being judgement free.

                    judgement free

                      11. Love is a constant challenge.

                      challenge

                        12. Love is fun!

                        fun love

                          13. Love is friendship.

                          fire love

                            14. Love is unique.

                            unique love

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                              Last Updated on January 21, 2020

                              How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                              How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                              If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

                              Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

                              So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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                              1. Listen

                              Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

                              2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

                              Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

                              “Why do you want to do that?”

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                              “What makes you so excited about it?”

                              “How long has that been your dream?”

                              You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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                              3. Encourage

                              This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

                              4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

                              After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

                              5. Dream

                              This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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                              6. Ask How You Can Help

                              Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

                              7. Follow Up

                              Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

                              Final Thoughts

                              By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

                              Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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