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Just These 3 Lipsticks Can Keep You Fashionable and Hydrated For The Whole Winter

Just These 3 Lipsticks Can Keep You Fashionable and Hydrated For The Whole Winter

When it comes to make up, every woman has her go-to. We have our common ones: eyeliner, blush or foundation. With that, there are a numerous amount of reasons why these products are a go-to favorite. Each one can and will enhance a feature. Whether it is wanting your eyes to pop, covering up some blemishes or just wanting rosy cheeks. Though, there is one product that I feel never gets enough attention. The product happens to be Lipstick.

I have always been a fan of lipstick. It was actually my first official make up purchase. I loved how it comes in many different shades. If you want to feel spontaneous, you may lean towards a bright color. If you are feeling a little down, you may pick up a darker tone, and so on. Another great reason why I love this product, it is so easy to apply! There is not a certain technique that goes into this. But to not look too outrageous, whenever you are applying any lipsticks, try not go over the lines of your lips. If it does happen, it is an easy fix up, along with clean up.

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There is one flaw about lipsticks, many do not have any hydration. Which isn’t great, especially for the Winter season. The worst thing that can happen is having chapped lips with lip color marks, making it noticeable. Though applying lip balm, it does limit that from happening, if you do pick up a non hydration lipstick.

Looking for the right color, is such a hassle. Stopping by your local drugstore or mall, trying on every color but to find out they were not as flattering. It’s exhausting. Which is why I am here to help out and save some time. Perhaps money as well. I personally find red and brown a perfect tone for the winter. They look great on every skin tone!

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With that said, here are 3 lipsticks that have hydration and are perfect for the Winter season.

NARS Olivia

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NARS

    This shade is beautiful! It is not too bright nor not too dark. If you are looking for an evening lip color, this is the one for you. This product is rich and creamy. Lasts all day and you don’t need to apply lip balm! With that said, this is more of the higher end. It goes for $32 at your local Sephora. Personally, I think this is a great investment.

    MAC Viva Glam l

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    MAC

      I am a sucker for MAC Cosmetics. This is the perfect shade of red. Like NARS, it is creamy and rich, so smooth to apply. I cannot tell you how many times I have gone to MAC and bought this product simply because I want to have a full stock of it. Great for a simple day time look or even a relaxing night out with friends. Compared to NARS Olivia, this is price that won’t make your bank break, going for $17 at the MAC Cosmetics Store.

      NYX Knock Out

      NYX

        Last but not least, I have the NYX Knock Out. A great lipstick for beginners or anyone who is trying to go for a settled red look. This one is a tad different from the other two, as it is a lip cream stick. Lip creams tend to not last as long as lipsticks. Also, they are not as matte, so if you are looking for a solid color with no gloss, lip creams may not be the best suggestion. What I love about this NYX lip cream, it is so affordable and easy to find! The pricing for this product at any local drugstore goes for $7.

        Featured photo credit: flowrwolf via flickr.com

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        How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

        How to Take Control of Your Life with Better Boundaries

        We all have them—those hurtful, frustrating, offensive, manipulative people in our lives. No matter how hard we try to surround ourselves with positive and kind people, there will always be those who will disrespect, insult, berate, and misuse you if we allow them to.

        We may, for a variety of reasons, not be able to avoid them, but we can determine how we interact with them and how we allow them to interact with us.

        So, how to take control of your life and stop being pushed around?

        Learning to set clear firm boundaries with the people in our lives at work and in our personal lives is the best way to protect ourselves from the negative effects of this kind of behavior.

        What Boundaries Are (And What They’re Not)

        Boundaries are limits

        —they are not threats or ultimatums. Boundaries inform or teach. They are not a form of punishment.

        Boundaries are firm lines—determined by you—which cannot be crossed by those around you. They are guidelines for how you will allow others to treat you and what kind of behaviors you will expect.

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        Healthy personal boundaries help protect you from physical or emotional pain. You may also need to set firm boundaries at work to ensure you and your time are not disrespected. Don’t allow others to take advantage of your kindness and generosity.

        Clear boundaries communicate to others that you demand respect and consideration—that you are willing to stand up for yourself and that you will not be a doormat for anyone. They are a “no trespassing” sign that makes it very clear when a line has been crossed and that there will be consequences for doing so.

        Boundaries are not set with the intention of changing other people. They may change how people interact with you, but they are more about enforcing your needs than attempting to change the general behavior and attitude of others.

        How to Establish Boundaries and Take Control of Your Life

        Here are some ways that you can establish boundaries and take control of your life.

        1. Self-Awareness Comes First

        Before you can establish boundaries with others, you first need to understand what your needs are.

        You are entitled to respect. You have the right to protect yourself from inappropriate or offensive behavior. Setting boundaries is a way of honoring your needs.

        To set appropriate boundaries, you need to be clear about what healthy behaviors look like—what healthy relationships look like.

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        You first have to become more aware of your feelings and honest with yourself about your expectations and what you feel is appropriate behavior:

        • Where do you need to establish better boundaries?
        • When do you feel disrespected?
        • When do you feel violated, frustrated, or angered by the behavior of others?
        • In what situations do you feel you are being mistreated or taken advantage of?
        • When do you want to be alone?
        • How much space do you need?

        You need to honor your own needs and boundaries before you can expect others to honor them. This allows you to take control of your life.

        2. Clear Communication Is Essential

        Inform others clearly and directly what your expectations are. It is essential to have clear communication if you want others to respect your boundaries. Explain in an honest and respectful tone what you find offensive or unacceptable.

        Many people simply aren’t aware that they are behaving inappropriately. They may never have been taught proper manners or consideration for others.

        3. Be Specific but Don’t Blame

        Taking a blaming or punishing attitude automatically puts people on the defensive. People will not listen when they feel attacked. It’s part of human nature.

        That said, you do not need to overexplain or defend yourself. Boundaries are not open to compromise.

        Sample language:

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        • “You may not…yell or raise your voice to me…”
        • “I need…to be treated with respect…”
        • “It’s not okay when…you take things from my desk without asking…”
        • “I won’t…do your work…cover for you anymore…”
        • “It’s not acceptable when…you ridicule or insult me…”
        • “I am uncomfortable when…you use offensive language”
        • “I will no longer be able to…lend you money…”

        Being able to communicate these without sounding accusatory is essential if you want others to respect your boundaries so you can take control of your life.

        4. Consequences Are Often Necessary

        Determine what the appropriate consequences will be when boundaries are crossed. If it’s appropriate, be clear about those consequences upfront when communicating those boundaries to others.

        Follow through. People won’t respect your boundaries if you don’t enforce them.

        Standing our ground and forcing consequences doesn’t come easily to us. We want to be nice. We want people to like us, but we shouldn’t have to trade our self-respect to gain friends or to achieve success.

        We may be tempted to let minor disrespect slide to avoid conflict, but as the familiar saying goes, “if you give people an inch, they’ll take a mile.”

        It’s much easier to address offensive or inappropriate behavior now than to wait until that behavior has gotten completely out of hand.

        It’s also important to remember that positive reinforcement is even more powerful than negative consequences. When people do alter the way they treat you, acknowledge it. Let people know that you notice and appreciate their efforts.

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        Final Thoughts

        Respect is always a valid reason for setting a boundary. Don’t defend yourself or your needs. Boundaries are often necessary to protect your time, your space, and your feelings. And these are essential if you want to take control of your life.

        Start with the easiest boundaries first. Setting boundaries is a skill that needs to be practiced. Enlist support from others if necessary. Inform people immediately when they have crossed the line.

        Don’t wait. Communicate politely and directly. Be clear about the consequences and follow them through.

        The better you become at setting your own boundaries, the better you become at recognizing and respecting the boundaries of others.

        Remember that establishing boundaries is your right. You are entitled to respect. You can’t control how other people behave, but you do have control over the way you allow people to treat you.

        Learning to set boundaries is not always easy, but with time, it will become more comfortable. You may eventually find that boundaries become automatic and you no longer need to consciously set them.

        They will simply become a natural extension of your self-respect.

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