Every break up hurts. You lose your self-esteem and your emotions are bruised. Sometimes you may think that it will take forever to heal and you start to ask yourself questions like, “am I a worthy person to be loved,” or “can I be loved again?” A lot of thoughts of unworthiness suddenly swing through your mind and you wonder if you will ever get out of such a situation.
The truth is that although every breakup is hard, it can serve as a step in the right direction. While the present may see gloom and tortuous, there are always amazing possibilities. To tap into what lovely possibilities that awaits you, it is time to develop a positive mindset and look at the bright side of what you are going through. You should never succumb to the negativity of what has been lost rather you should consider the master of what interesting and exciting prospects await you. It is time to envision and picture your new relationship will be like. With these five positive mindsets you can get a grip of where you are and get over your breakup as soon as possible.
Sometimes it is better to leave a relationship broken because like a glass it only hurts trying to fix them and put them back together
Not every story is meant to end the exact way we want it. Most times we do nurture selfish inclinations that we could have either made a great couple and we could have lived together happily ever after. However this is not always the case. Although a sad truth, it is always a better option to move on since not all relationships can be fixed.
No one loses love. When it is not reciprocated it has a way of flowing back to soften and purifying the heart
There is nothing wrong in the act of loving. Actually it should be an act of giving without expecting anything in return. So focus on what you have to give and know that nature has a way of rewarding such act of goodness.
It is not about the wrong person who walks out of your life, it is about offering something beautiful to the right one
There is no reason to be cynical or bitter about love. If the person was right for you there is no reason for them not to appreciate something so beautiful. However what treasures you have within should be for the right person when they come along.
Letting go of the life we planned is the best way to earn the life that is waiting for us
Every experience whether negative or positive defines who we are. If you want to get the best out of your present situation you have to see the possibilities of growth rather than holding on to what is lost. Getting over the negative experiences of a terrible breakup will push you further to experiencing something better eventually. While you may be reminiscing over the life and possibilities of things that may have happened before the breakup, the brightest future can only be attained out of a forgotten past.
Letting go does not mean that you do not care about someone anymore. You are simply willing to take the chance of having control over yourself
While you might want to cling on to thoughts as “what might have been” or “where he/she must be without me” you should understand that you do not have any control over your exes. Every relationship is a choice for every individual involved. If they want to leave, there is nothing you can do about that. It is up to you now to accept the situation, let go, heal and aspire to be a better person with more interesting prospects.
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