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6 Things You Forgot To Thank Your Introverted Husband For

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6 Things You Forgot To Thank Your Introverted Husband For

Introverted husbands can be a hand full sometimes. They don’t know what to say at times, but other times they will show what they feel through their own actions, devoted specifically and directly towards you. Don’t forget to thank your husbands for this. It is their sublimity that makes them so special and honest. Your relationship is a beautiful thing. You are so lucky to have an introverted husband that cares for you.

1. He does everything for you without saying a word about it

Introverted husbands don’t say much but they express through actions and I’m pretty sure your husbands show their love, affection, and adoration, through each little action. Your introverted husband does everything possible to please you but never says a word to show that he has done any such thing. That is the most special thing about him that you forget to thank him for. Don’t worry! He probably doesn’t mind because he is so great!

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2. He cares for you but sometimes doesn’t say it

Your husband cares for you; his nature is such that he always forgets to say things like “I love you honey,” “Darling,” or “baby.” Know that your husband isn’t perfect but is the most genuine guy you can fall for. He is there for you for a reason. His presence is proof of the love between you and the special bond existing therein.

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3. He truely loves you

Of course, love is always there, but does your husband always express it? I think that he forgets to, but there is no denial that his love for you is imminent and that it is you that resides there in full-fledged form. Never get acquainted with jealousy or suspicion, as your introverted husband means so much to you, I know. Just remember that his nature makes him forget that he could say that or communicate with you his thoughts, however, he is meant for you. Thank him for his sublimity.

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4. He makes sure that you feel safe, secure, and free

Your introverted husband will go to great lengths to ensure that you feel these three things: safe, secure, and free. An introverted husband cares greatly about their spouse. Your sense of security and happiness is the most important thing of all for your beloved husband. Never forget it for as long as you live. Security in a relationship is one of the best things that there can be.

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5. He genuinely believes that you two were always meant to be together

Though he doesn’t express it much to you verbally, your introverted husband knows that deep down you two were always meant to be together. The two of you share a special bond that is inseparable and will always be there tight as it can be. Know that he just finds it hard to tell you this, but he knows that your compatibility is what sets you apart from other relationships. Your love is special in its own way.

6. He greatly appreciates you

Your husband truly appreciates you. You are everything to him. Your love is what keeps him going each day and every day. There is a special place for you right in his heart. You are the reason he smiles and does what he loves each and every single day. You are his sunshine and you are his everything. He will never take you for granted but will always be grateful. Make sure to thank him for placing you on a pedestal because it is not everyday that you are thought of as a “Queen” or a “Princess.” For him, you are exactly that! That truly is such a beautiful thing to behold.

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Last Updated on November 18, 2021

10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

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10 Proven Ways to Judge a Person’s Character

We all fall into the trap of judging a person’s character by their appearance. How wrong we are! All too often, the real character of the person only appears when some negative event hits them or you. Then you may see a toxic person emerging from the ruins and it is often a shock.

A truly frightening example is revealed in the book by O’Toole in Bowman called Dangerous Instincts: How Gut Instincts Betray Us. A perfectly respectable, charming, well dressed neighbor was found to have installed a torture chamber in his garage where he was systematically abusing kidnapped women. This is an extreme example, but it does show how we can be totally deceived by a person’s physical appearance, manners and behavior.

So, what can you do? You want to be able to assess personal qualities when you come into contact with colleagues, fresh acquaintances and new friends who might even become lifelong partners. You want to know if they are:

  • honest
  • reliable
  • competent
  • kind and compassionate
  • capable of taking the blame
  • able to persevere
  • modest and humble
  • pacific and can control anger.

The secret is to reserve judgment and take your time. Observe them in certain situations; look at how they react. Listen to them talking, joking, laughing, explaining, complaining, blaming, praising, ranting, and preaching. Only then will you be able to judge their character. This is not foolproof, but if you follow the 10 ways below, you have a pretty good chance of not ending up in an abusive relationship.

1. Is anger a frequent occurrence?

All too often, angry reactions which may seem to be excessive are a sign that there are underlying issues. Do not think that every person who just snaps and throws his/her weight around mentally and physically is just reacting normally. Everyone has an occasional angry outburst when driving or when things go pear-shaped.

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But if this is almost a daily occurrence, then you need to discover why and maybe avoid that person. Too often, anger will escalate to violent and aggressive behavior. You do not want to be near someone who thinks violence can solve personal or global problems.

2. Can you witness acts of kindness?

How often do you see this person being kind and considerate? Do they give money to beggars, donate to charity, do voluntary work or in some simple way show that they are willing to share the planet with about 7 billion other people?

I was shocked when a guest of mine never showed any kindness to the weak and disadvantaged people in our town. She was ostensibly a religious person, but I began to doubt the sincerity of her beliefs.

“The best index to a person’s character is how he treats people who can’t do him any good, and how he treats people who can’t fight back.”

Abigail Van Buren

3. How does this person take the blame?

Maybe you know that s/he is responsible for a screw-up in the office or even in not turning up on time for a date. Look at their reaction. If they start blaming other colleagues or the traffic, well, this is an indication that they are not willing to take responsibility for their mistakes.

4. Don’t use Facebook as an indicator.

You will be relieved to know that graphology (the study of that forgotten skill of handwriting) is no longer considered a reliable test of a person’s character. Neither is Facebook stalking, fortunately. A study showed that Facebook use of foul language, sexual innuendo and gossip were not reliable indicators of a candidate’s character or future performance in the workplace.

5. Read their emails.

Now a much better idea is to read the person’s emails. Studies show that the use of the following can indicate certain personality traits:

  • Too many exclamation points may reveal a sunny disposition
  • Frequent errors may indicate apathy
  • Use of smileys is the only way a person can smile at you
  • Use of the third person may reveal a certain formality
  • Too many question marks can show anger
  • Overuse of capital letters is regarded as shouting. They are a definite no-no in netiquette, yet a surprising number of  people still use them.

6. Watch out for the show offs.

Listen to people as they talk. How often do they mention their achievements, promotions, awards and successes? If this happens a lot, it is a sure indication that this person has an over-inflated view of his/her achievements. They are unlikely to be modest or show humility. What a pity!  Another person to avoid.

7. Look for evidence of perseverance.

A powerful indicator of grit and tenacity is when a person persists and never gives up when they really want to achieve a life goal. Look for evidence of them keeping going in spite of enormous difficulties.

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Great achievements by scientists and inventors all bear the hallmark of perseverance. We only have to think of Einstein, Edison (who failed thousands of times) and Nelson Mandela to get inspiration. The US Department of Education is in no doubt about how grit, tenacity and perseverance will be key success factors for youth in the 21st century.

8. Their empathy score is high.

Listen to how they talk about the less fortunate members of our society such as the poor, immigrants and the disabled. Do you notice that they talk in a compassionate way about these people? The fact that they even mention them is a strong indicator of empathy.

People with zero empathy will never talk about the disadvantaged. They will rarely ask you a question about a difficult time or relationship. They will usually steer the conversation back to themselves. These people have zero empathy and in extreme cases, they are psychopaths who never show any feelings towards their victims.

9. Learn how to be socially interactive.

We are social animals and this is what makes us so uniquely human. If a person is isolated or a loner, this may be a negative indicator of their character. You want to meet a person who knows about trust, honesty and loyalty. The only way to practice these great qualities is to actually interact socially. The great advantage is that you can share problems and celebrate success and joy together.

“One can acquire everything in solitude, except character.”

Stendhal

 10. Avoid toxic people.

These people are trying to control others and often are failing to come to terms with their own failures. Typical behavior and conversations may concern:

  • Envy or jealousy
  • Criticism of partners, colleagues and friends
  • Complaining about their own lack of success
  • Blaming others for their own bad luck or failure
  • Obsession with themselves and their problems

Listen to these people talk and you will quickly discover that you need to avoid them at all costs because their negativity will drag you down. In addition, as much as you would like to help them, you are not qualified to do so.

Now, having looked at some of the best ways to judge a person, what about yourself? How do others see you? Why not take Dr. Phil’s quiz and find out. Can you bear it?

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