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9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

As women, we are so used to allowing a man to tell us and to show us how much he loves us, but how many of us give thought on how we can show him that we love him. In order to build a strong, respectful and lasting relationship it is important, for us women, to show our men that we love and appreciate them in our lives.

Here are 9 creative ways to get you started.

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1. Write Creative Notes To Him

Sometimes finding the right words to say when you want to say something from the heart can be daunting. Make the process fun and flirtatious so that it helps you to let him know how you feel about him. Don’t be afraid to add a funny picture into the note – something that will surprise him and make him laugh.

2. Let Him Be Independent

Being in a relationship is not about needing to be stuck with one another 24/7. Be OK with him following his own interests and going out with his friends. Showing him that you trust him will raise his appreciation and trust in you and your relationship.

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3. Encourage Him To Follow His Dreams

Support him to achieve the things that he wants to do in his life. By helping him and trusting him to see his potential and not holding him back tells him that you care and love him. This is something that will also help to strength your relationship and his love for you.

4. Make A Note Of The Little Things That He Enjoys

Take note of the little things that he likes or does such as, how he takes his coffee, what he likes watching/reading etc. These little things show him that you are interested in him and care about him and they add value and meaning to a relationship, as the little things count.

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5. Tell Him That You Love Him And How He Makes You Feel

Don’t get caught up in assumptions that he knows how you feel about him. By letting your man know how you feel about him and how he makes you feel will boost his self confidence and let him know that he’s loved and appreciated by you.

6. Cook Or Bake Him His Favorite Meal/Cake

They say ‘The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’, so cook or bake him his favorite meal or cake. This will make him feel special at the thought of this, as he knows that you have gone through all this trouble just for him.

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7. Wear Something That You Know He Loves Seeing You In

Wearing an outfit that you know he loves seeing you in, will not only make you feel special but it will make him feel like he is the only man. His confidence and love for you will be raised when he knows that you have made an effort to dress up for his eyes only.

8. Compliment Him On The Things That You Love About Him

Tell him the things that you love about him and the things that you appreciate when he does them for you.  By giving him positive encouragement, you will be giving him the reassurance of how you feel about him and making him feel cherished and valued.

9. Talk To Him About The Things That Are Worrying You

Give him the opportunity to be your knight in shining armor. Seek his advise by sharing the things in your life that you are worried about. He will love the chance to be able to be there for you and show you how much he cares and wants to protect you and take your pain away.

Featured photo credit: Brandon Warren via albumarium.com

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Last Updated on October 16, 2019

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

5 Powerful Ways for Building Fulfilling Relationships

We all have relationships. We have acquaintances, relatives, colleagues, neighbors and friends. However, for a large percentage of us, many of these relationships are not fulfilling.

They are unfulfilling because they lack real strength; and they lack real strength because they lack real depth.

Unfortunately, in today’s society, we tend to have shallow, superficial relationships with others, and it’s extremely hard for this kind of relationships to provide anything more than faint satisfaction.

I’d like to show you, based on my experience as a communication and confidence coach, how you can add a significant amount of depth, and thus strength, to your relationships and make your social life a whole lot more meaningful.

Here’re 5 simple yet powerful ways for meaningful relationships building:

1. Meet More People

This is an apparent paradox, but the quality of the people you meet has considerably to do with the quantity of people you meet.

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If you don’t know a lot of people and you barely meet one or two new people every season of the year, considering the variety of individuals out there, you won’t meet very often people who are a good match with you in terms of personality, interests and values.

And since this natural match plays a huge part in building strong relationships, you’ll just as seldom have the opportunity to develop strong relationships.

Conversely, if you go out a lot, you meet a lot of new people and you constantly expand your social circle, you’re much more likely to meet people you match up well with, and these people have a tremendous potential to become good friends, reliable partners, etc.

This is why it’s important to meet more people.

2. Talk about the Things That Matter To You

A relationship becomes the strongest when two people discover they believe in the same things and have similar interests. It’s these commonalities regarding values and interests that create the strongest emotional connection.

I’ve noticed that many people keep conversations shallow. They talk about trivial stuff such as the weather, what’s on TV, the lives of various movie stars, but they rarely talk about what really matters to them in life. This is a mistake from my perspective, because it’s the perfect method for a relationship to not develop.

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Talk about the things that truly matter to you and give others a chance to know what you care about and what you believe in. If they believe in the same things and they care about the same things, they’ll eagerly let you know. Thus you’ll find meaningful common ground and you’ll feel more connected.

3. Express Vulnerability

Many people try to come off as perfect. They don’t talk about their failures, they hide their shortcomings and they never say anything that could embarrass them.

This is all just a facade though. You may appear perfect to some, but you know you’re not perfect and they know that too. You’re only human and humans have flaws.

However, by hiding your flaws, what you do succeed in is appearing cold and impersonal. You seem like a marble statue rather than a real person. And this makes it very hard for anyone to connect with you emotionally.

Humans connect with other humans, not with ideals. Keep this in mind and don’t be afraid to let your vulnerability and your humanity show. This is what takes a relationship to the next level.

Take a look at this article and find out Why Showing Vulnerability Actually Proves Your Strength.

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4. Have Integrity

Integrity, as I see it, is the alignment between your thoughts, your words and your actions. When you say what you think and you do what you said you’ll do, you have integrity.

This is a crucial trait because if you have integrity, people can trust you. They can trust you to give them an honest feedback, even when it’s hard to shallow, and they can trust you to keep your promises.

This trust is one of the central pillars of a strong relationship, both in your personal and your professional life. So, as challenging as it can be sometimes, always try to have integrity.

Be honest with the people around you, even when this will initially hurt them. It’s more important for them to trust you than to not feel hurt. And always do what you promised. Even better, think twice before you promise anything, and only promise what you really can and you are willing to do.

5. Be There for Others

Another central pillar of strong relationships is support. Connections between people grow sturdy if they can rely on each other for support when it’s needed, whether that support means a few kind words or several massive actions.

Of course, you can’t be there for everybody, all the time. Your time, energy and other resources are limited. But what you can do is identify the genuinely important people in your life and then seek to be there as much as possible, at least for them.

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Your support will help them practically, and it will comfort them emotionally; which makes one hell of a difference in a relationship.

The Bottom Line

With the right mindset and the right behavior, you can strengthen a wide range of relationships in your life and advance them as far as they can be advanced.

And with strong relationships, not only that you feel more fulfilled, but you feel more connected to the entire world. You feel that your life has real value, you have more fun and you live in the moment. An entire world of opportunities opens up in front of you.

Then your task is to simply walk through the open doors.

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