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9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

As women, we are so used to allowing a man to tell us and to show us how much he loves us, but how many of us give thought on how we can show him that we love him. In order to build a strong, respectful and lasting relationship it is important, for us women, to show our men that we love and appreciate them in our lives.

Here are 9 creative ways to get you started.

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1. Write Creative Notes To Him

Sometimes finding the right words to say when you want to say something from the heart can be daunting. Make the process fun and flirtatious so that it helps you to let him know how you feel about him. Don’t be afraid to add a funny picture into the note – something that will surprise him and make him laugh.

2. Let Him Be Independent

Being in a relationship is not about needing to be stuck with one another 24/7. Be OK with him following his own interests and going out with his friends. Showing him that you trust him will raise his appreciation and trust in you and your relationship.

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3. Encourage Him To Follow His Dreams

Support him to achieve the things that he wants to do in his life. By helping him and trusting him to see his potential and not holding him back tells him that you care and love him. This is something that will also help to strength your relationship and his love for you.

4. Make A Note Of The Little Things That He Enjoys

Take note of the little things that he likes or does such as, how he takes his coffee, what he likes watching/reading etc. These little things show him that you are interested in him and care about him and they add value and meaning to a relationship, as the little things count.

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5. Tell Him That You Love Him And How He Makes You Feel

Don’t get caught up in assumptions that he knows how you feel about him. By letting your man know how you feel about him and how he makes you feel will boost his self confidence and let him know that he’s loved and appreciated by you.

6. Cook Or Bake Him His Favorite Meal/Cake

They say ‘The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’, so cook or bake him his favorite meal or cake. This will make him feel special at the thought of this, as he knows that you have gone through all this trouble just for him.

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7. Wear Something That You Know He Loves Seeing You In

Wearing an outfit that you know he loves seeing you in, will not only make you feel special but it will make him feel like he is the only man. His confidence and love for you will be raised when he knows that you have made an effort to dress up for his eyes only.

8. Compliment Him On The Things That You Love About Him

Tell him the things that you love about him and the things that you appreciate when he does them for you.  By giving him positive encouragement, you will be giving him the reassurance of how you feel about him and making him feel cherished and valued.

9. Talk To Him About The Things That Are Worrying You

Give him the opportunity to be your knight in shining armor. Seek his advise by sharing the things in your life that you are worried about. He will love the chance to be able to be there for you and show you how much he cares and wants to protect you and take your pain away.

Featured photo credit: Brandon Warren via albumarium.com

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Last Updated on October 17, 2018

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Overcome Your Fear

10 Ways To Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone And Overcome Your Fear

The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step.

In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.

Here are 10 ways to help you step out of your comfort zone and get closer to success:

1. Become aware of what’s outside of your comfort zone

What are the things that you believe are worth doing but are afraid of doing yourself because of the potential for disappointment or failure?

Draw a circle and write those things down outside the circle. This process will not only allow you to clearly identify your discomforts, but your comforts. Write identified comforts inside the circle.

2. Become clear about what you are aiming to overcome

Take the list of discomforts and go deeper. Remember, the primary emotion you are trying to overcome is fear.

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How does this fear apply uniquely to each situation? Be very specific.

Are you afraid of walking up to people and introducing yourself in social situations? Why? Is it because you are insecure about the sound of your voice? Are you insecure about your looks?

Or, are you afraid of being ignored?

3. Get comfortable with discomfort

One way to get outside of your comfort zone is to literally expand it. Make it a goal to avoid running away from discomfort.

Let’s stay with the theme of meeting people in social settings. If you start feeling a little panicked when talking to someone you’ve just met, try to stay with it a little longer than you normally would before retreating to comfort. If you stay long enough and practice often enough, it will start to become less uncomfortable.

4. See failure as a teacher

Many of us are so afraid of failure that we would rather do nothing than take a shot at our dreams.

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Begin to treat failure as a teacher. What did you learn from the experience? How can you take that lesson to your next adventure to increase your chance of success?

Many highly successful people failed plenty of times before they succeeded. Here’re some examples:

10 Famous Failures to Success Stories That Will Inspire You to Carry On

5. Take baby steps

Don’t try to jump outside your comfort zone, you will likely become overwhelmed and jump right back in.

Take small steps toward the fear you are trying to overcome. If you want to do public speaking, start by taking every opportunity to speak to small groups of people. You can even practice with family and friends.

Take a look at this article on how you can start taking baby steps:

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The Number One Secret to Life Success: Baby Steps

6. Hang out with risk takers

There is no substitute for this step. If you want to become better at something, you must start hanging out with the people who are doing what you want to do and start emulating them. (Here’re 8 Reasons Why Risk Takers Are More Likely To Be Successful).

Almost inevitably, their influence will start have an effect on your behavior.

7. Be honest with yourself when you are trying to make excuses

Don’t say “Oh, I just don’t have the time for this right now.” Instead, be honest and say “I am afraid to do this.”

Don’t make excuses, just be honest. You will be in a better place to confront what is truly bothering you and increase your chance of moving forward.

8. Identify how stepping out will benefit you

What will the ability to engage in public speaking do for your personal and professional growth? Keep these potential benefits in mind as motivations to push through fear.

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9. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes. Risk taking will inevitably involve failure and setbacks that will sometimes make you look foolish to others. Be happy to roll with the punches when others poke fun.

If you aren’t convinced yet, check out these 6 Reasons Not to Take Life So Seriously.

10. Focus on the fun

Enjoy the process of stepping outside your safe boundaries. Enjoy the fun of discovering things about yourself that you may not have been aware of previously.

Final thoughts

It will probably seem really scary at first to get out of your comfort zone. But as I said, you don’t need to jump right out of your comfort zone at once, you can take baby steps gradually. As you slowly push past your comfort zone, you’ll feel more and more at ease about the new stuff which seems so dangerous to you.

Take the first step and I’m sure you’ll make it!

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