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9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

9 Creative Things Every Woman Can Do To Show Their Love To Their Men

As women, we are so used to allowing a man to tell us and to show us how much he loves us, but how many of us give thought on how we can show him that we love him. In order to build a strong, respectful and lasting relationship it is important, for us women, to show our men that we love and appreciate them in our lives.

Here are 9 creative ways to get you started.

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1. Write Creative Notes To Him

Sometimes finding the right words to say when you want to say something from the heart can be daunting. Make the process fun and flirtatious so that it helps you to let him know how you feel about him. Don’t be afraid to add a funny picture into the note – something that will surprise him and make him laugh.

2. Let Him Be Independent

Being in a relationship is not about needing to be stuck with one another 24/7. Be OK with him following his own interests and going out with his friends. Showing him that you trust him will raise his appreciation and trust in you and your relationship.

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3. Encourage Him To Follow His Dreams

Support him to achieve the things that he wants to do in his life. By helping him and trusting him to see his potential and not holding him back tells him that you care and love him. This is something that will also help to strength your relationship and his love for you.

4. Make A Note Of The Little Things That He Enjoys

Take note of the little things that he likes or does such as, how he takes his coffee, what he likes watching/reading etc. These little things show him that you are interested in him and care about him and they add value and meaning to a relationship, as the little things count.

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5. Tell Him That You Love Him And How He Makes You Feel

Don’t get caught up in assumptions that he knows how you feel about him. By letting your man know how you feel about him and how he makes you feel will boost his self confidence and let him know that he’s loved and appreciated by you.

6. Cook Or Bake Him His Favorite Meal/Cake

They say ‘The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’, so cook or bake him his favorite meal or cake. This will make him feel special at the thought of this, as he knows that you have gone through all this trouble just for him.

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7. Wear Something That You Know He Loves Seeing You In

Wearing an outfit that you know he loves seeing you in, will not only make you feel special but it will make him feel like he is the only man. His confidence and love for you will be raised when he knows that you have made an effort to dress up for his eyes only.

8. Compliment Him On The Things That You Love About Him

Tell him the things that you love about him and the things that you appreciate when he does them for you.  By giving him positive encouragement, you will be giving him the reassurance of how you feel about him and making him feel cherished and valued.

9. Talk To Him About The Things That Are Worrying You

Give him the opportunity to be your knight in shining armor. Seek his advise by sharing the things in your life that you are worried about. He will love the chance to be able to be there for you and show you how much he cares and wants to protect you and take your pain away.

Featured photo credit: Brandon Warren via albumarium.com

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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