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11 Reasons You Should Date a Sorority Girl

11 Reasons You Should Date a Sorority Girl

So, how about those Greek girls? If you haven’t ever done so, dating a sorority girl is something you may just want to consider. These girls have some great qualities that come from being pledged to a sorority and they are surprisingly well-suited to relationships.

Here are eleven reasons you should give your heart to a sorority girl.

1. They Understand Commitment

Greek-pledged girls understand what commitment is. When they pledge, they are becoming part of a sorority for life. They aren’t scared away by that commitment — so they just might be open to meeting your parents one of these days.

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At the very least, they’ll be a lot more committed to a monogamous relationship with you.

2. They Have a Lot of Friends

Your sorority girl will have a lot of sisters. That means that they aren’t going to be totally clingy and want to be with you all the time. Instead, they will spend time with their friends often so you will be able to spend time with your buddies – or if you want – kick back and watch the game in peace and quiet.

Additionally, your buddies will be forever in debt to you for the amount of girls you introduce them to.

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3. They’ll Appreciate Your Loyalty in the Midst of Their Drama

Okay, so they are going to have drama. Drama and sorority girls simply go hand-in-hand.

But they are going to appreciate the way that you stick by them — just like their sorority sisters do when they have drama in their life.

4. They Know When You Need to Be Professional and When to Let Loose

They’ve been well-trained by their sorority sisters regarding when to get down to business and when to have some fun. That will come in handy when you’re in a relationship.

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5. They Are Well-Rounded

Sorority girls are definitely worth having around because of how well-rounded they are. They are smart, sexy, funny, comforting or any combination of those and more.

Sorority girls are more talented, more experienced and fuller of information about all kinds of stuff than their Greek-less counterparts.

6. They Are Confident

Sorority girls went through the whole pledging process which may or not have involved streaking through campus at midnight with campus safety on their heels. If that doesn’t take confidence, I don’t know what does.

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7. They Aren’t Clingy

They’ve got plenty of options besides you and that leads to them being sure of themselves and not clingy. And isn’t that the kind of girlfriend all of us want?

8. They Are F*cking Beautiful

Um….they are sorority girls. Have you ever seen an ugly one? They are absolutely the most beautiful girls on campus and they know how to make themselves look amazing.

9. They Know How to Have Fun

You know those pillow fights that you hear about going on in the sorority houses? Well, it’s not just a wonderful story my friend. Sorority girls know how to have fun. They’ll be up for just about anything.

10. They Are Sexually Experienced

Sorority girls have double exposure when it comes to sexual experiences. Not only are they in college, where all of the magic happens, they are also in a sorority. That pretty much makes them the most desirable girls on campus.

11. They Take Photos of Everything

You’ll never have to worry about having enough photos of them, or them with you, or you with their friends, or them with their friends, or you and them with their friends. They take lots and lots of photos and pretty much your entire dating life with a sorority girl is going to be chronicled on film.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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