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Women Who Live Alone Are More Likely To Succeed At Work, Study Finds

Women Who Live Alone Are More Likely To Succeed At Work, Study Finds

With the myriad types of dating websites and dating mobile applications available, there is some stigma attached to being a single female these days, especially for those who are in their mid-twenties and older. However, being single – or at least living independently – has far more benefits than society is letting on. In fact, a recent study has proven that young women living alone are more likely to earn more money, have professional jobs, and have more education than those who live with other people.

All the single ladies out there: Rejoice! All the women living alone: Raise your wallets! Women who live alone are more likely to be successful — keep reading to find out why.

Why Women Are Living Independently

Women are far more likely than men (54% versus  46%, as of 2013) to live independently, and older adults are even more likely to do so than the younger generation of women. There are numerous reasons for this.

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  • For one, women live an average of six years longer than men do. As a result, if they maintain good health, they can care for themselves well into their 80s and 90s.
  • They can afford to. Women buy twice as many homes as men do.
  • They cherish their individualism. This individualism is not always easy to maintain when living with roommates or a significant other.
  • There are far more options available than there were just a few years ago. Today, women are able to pursue their goals first. There is simply less of need for women to cohabitate in today’s society.

Women Living Alone Are More Successful

Women living alone are more likely to be successful than both their male counterparts and fellow women who choose to live with others.

According to recent studies, 45% of women living independently had completed tertiary education (compared to just 26% of men). Women living alone were also more likely to have an established and successful career. In fact, 38% of women residing independently had a professional job. This is 10% more than women who lived with others and 14% more than men who lived alone.

In terms of salary, women who live by themselves represent a significant portion of those getting that cash. An entire fifth of young women living alone fell into the top tier income bracket during these studies, compared to a mere 7% of young women who live with other people.

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The success that comes with living alone brings far more options than women have when they live with others. Not only are they able to do whatever they want with their place of residence (have a night of Netflix and ice cream, spread newspapers all over the floor, dance around), but they also end up saving a good amount of money. Take into account the fact that they are more likely to have professional careers, and then factor in the fact that they do not have to pay for shared items. Living alone is costing them less in the long-run than living with others would.

The co-author of the study, Dr Lixia Qu of the Australian Institute of Family Studies, says “young women who live alone are well to-do and have choices” that were not available a few decades ago. In fact, this “success provides [young women] with more options.” This furthers their independence and personal success because “they do not need to partner, or their work and career provide more attractions than partnering and having a family.”

A Note on Cost of Living

Roommates are great… most of the time. But, there are those times when the food you buy gets “accidentally” eaten by someone else. There are times when you end up spotting them a twenty, only to never actually have them pay you back. There are times when you end up buying the household items because your roommate forgets or is simply far too irresponsible to think of buying household cleaners.

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By living alone, women are able to dedicate themselves to succeeding in their careers, saving their money, and living on their own terms. They do not have to share space, or things, with other people. They learn to deal with the surprises that pop up every now and then, such as a power outage or leaky faucet, without having to rely on someone else to fix it. They acquire more life skills, which adds to their independence and success.

Saving money and focusing on climbing that career ladder is especially important in places that are more expensive to live. By saving up the money that they would otherwise end up spending on roommates, shared household items, or frequent nights out, they are able to compensate for possibly higher living in expensive cities or areas. Places like New York City, New Jersey, and California, for example, have a much higher cost of living — from groceries, to haircuts, to auto insurance.

By being better educated, having more professional jobs, and being more independent, women living alone in these areas are less likely to experience the difficulties associated with the high cost of living than those who live with others.

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As such, women living alone tend to be more successful than those who live with others. Why put up with sharing space with other people when you can save stacks of cash by living on your own?

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

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For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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