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What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur

What It’s Like To Be Married To An Entrepreneur

Whether one wants to admit it or not, our environment has a strong impact on our successes. This is why as an entrepreneur it is always ideal to have the ideal partner at your side. They will help you navigate the tides and meet your entrepreneurial goals.

So what about the partner who is married to an entrepreneur? What is the take in for them? How can they prove to be the ideal partner to an entrepreneur? Whether they are starting out or has been an entrepreneur for a while, there are challenges to having an entrepreneur as your partner. There are the long work hours, as well as the highs and lows of building and executing a business idea. Entrepreneurship can come with its demands.

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Here are some things that should be noted when being married to an entrepreneur.

You need patience

For the entrepreneur, there is nothing like overnight success. Sometimes they will have to work nights and the occasional weekend. This means you have to be patient with them as they pursue their dreams. Sometimes you have to make their dreams your own. Be certain to make the time you spend together count. It is about loving and living at the same time. While you may not be interested in their business, do well to be interested in who they are. Commitment and patience have a way of paying off after all.

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You have to be a listener

It is always a lonely ride for an entrepreneur. They are always away from the activities of the world. This could mean that they are either working alone at home or from an office. They have very few friends who could understand what it means to be mentally isolated and shut away from the many distractions of the world while they work on their next major idea. As a spouse to an entrepreneur you have to focus on listening. You don’t need to understand every business detail, you simply have to be supportive by helping them conquer their doubts and fears. Listening means willing to offer them the opportunity to talk certain things through with you and being open-minded.

You have to be their biggest supporters

To be an entrepreneur’s married partner you have to be willing to offer your unwavering support. What an entrepreneur needs most is your support and belief in every enterprise. Your support can be more valuable than any praise for innovations or acknowledgement for strong work ethic. You have to be willing to be their cheerleader and offer your support even when it seems that they are loosing in a particular venture. Your voice of positivity has to be the loudest thing they are listening to. Perhaps you have to pray or brainstorm with them, just to make sure they know you are there for them. It may not be easy to do this, but your consistency can be vital to their success.

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You have to respect them

In every relationship or partnership, respect is fundamental. Being married to an entrepreneur, respect is extra vital. The truth is that many entrepreneurs have a lot of self-belief and a high regard for themselves and their ideas. Rather than ego, it is more of a survival trait for them, so you should never look down on them or make them feel under-appreciated. Make sure to show that you trust, respect, and appreciate as they proceed with their ventures.

Respecting or valuing an entrepreneur is a two way street. Entrepreneurs always feel indebted to persons who value their hard work and entrepreneurial gusto. If you make them feel valued and understood you will definitely be rewarded.

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At the end of the day, you should understand the intent of why certain persons want to be entrepreneur. They want to be free. Many entrepreneurs are passionate, creative, and perhaps unique. It is best to understand the challenges that will come with being married to one.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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