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Jobs That You Should Do At Least Once In Your Life To Be Highly Successful

Jobs That You Should Do At Least Once In Your Life To Be Highly Successful

Are you a retail clerk, a telemarketer, or a cook at the Wendy’s down the street? Do you feel like this is just a starter job? You think this job probably doesn’t matter to the career path that you have dreamed of and are working hard for. You could be dreaming of becoming an accountant, doctor, or technologist, so you assume being a cook or working the drive-in is only helping you pay your bills and there is nothing else to it.

Do you know that you are learning valuable skills as a clerk or cook or all the other similar seemingly menial jobs, that cannot be learned even after paying $7000 a year at  college? That’s right. According to the latest study, College Boards reported that on average you have to spend $7000 a year for a college education! Is it truly possible that the skills you are learning in the starter job — – the job that is helping you get by, the job that just pays your bills for now – actually matter?

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The good news – no… the great news – is that these jobs matter! What you are learning on these jobs is crucial to your future success! So much so, that everybody must do these jobs once in their life to be successful!

1. Fast food

A stint in the fast food world teaches you valuable skills for life. You’ll learn to listen, react promptly, and carry out orders in an efficient manner. As a fast food cook, you learn to carry out orders in a skilled way and with an efficient process. You learn to develop a process and execute it. The tight metrics help you understand inefficiencies and fine-tune the process to eliminate them. Similarly, if you are taking orders at the drive-through, getting accurate and complete information in a timely fashion is very important. The skills you learn in the fast food environment are transferable skills that can almost be considered as disciplines that you adopt for the rest of your life in this fast-paced world.

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2. Telemarketer or Sales

A sales position in any capacity, regardless of whether its a car salesman or a telemarketer, gives you the opportunity to understand the sales cycle and the psychological aspect of sales. Sales is not my passion, I don’t intend to sell anything ever in my career, you may think. That is not true though. You are going to constantly sell something for the rest of your life. It may not be products, but you will sell an idea or persuade someone to do something. The art and skill of persuasion is a learnable skill. What better way to get to learn and practice it than at a sales job that pays you to persuade!

3. Startup

Nowadays, startup businesses and ventures are popping up all around us. Any position at a startup teaches you to hustle! At a startup, everyone wears multiple hats and plays different roles. You learn to do things outside of a regular job description. You learn to do more with less. You learn aspects of business building that no B-school can give you real-life experience on. All of these are important skills and knowledge that will help you in succeed in your career.

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4. Retail

The world of retail is a fascinating one. It’s another job relying on an efficient and optimized system. Retail is a great place to learn how to cater to the customer’s needs. The world of retail is constantly changing to cater to the numerous customer requirements. Learning to adapt and service these changing needs of the customer in an efficiency driven environment is a key skill. The world of retail also offers numerous opportunities for people management – from logistics (in terms of scheduling shifts, etc.) to evaluating people’s performance and building team spirit. These are essential skills in any future career!

5. Customer Service Representative (CSR)

Being at the receiving end of an angry customer call is no fun. It can be truly infuriating and frustrating. However, it’s also a great opportunity to truly put the needs of the customer above you! Learning to deal with people’s emotions, represent the company you work for in a positive way, and truly help a distraught person are commendable skills to have. An opportunity as a CSR teaches you just all of this and more. You also learn the ins and outs of the product or service you are representing.

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Sales, people management and development, Customer Service, hustling, and process efficiencies are all must-know and must-have skills for success in any career, as well as in life.

What other common jobs have you indulged in that led to success in your career?

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Last Updated on July 15, 2019

10 Signs of a Bad Boss and How to Deal with Them

10 Signs of a Bad Boss and How to Deal with Them

This is an article I didn’t want to write. Even if it appears that way on the surface, few things are black and white. Between the two colors is a world of gray. Notwithstanding the bosses who behave criminally, some of the people who carry the “bad boss” label have possibly been, or have the capacity to become, a “good boss.”

This is an article I didn’t want to write because I understand that depending on whom you ask, many of us could be labeled either a good or bad boss.

Perhaps another reason I didn’t want to write this article is because context matters. Context for the organization and context for the individual. What is happening in the organization? What is the culture? Is the “boss” in a position for which the individual is equipped to do the job? Is the person in a terrible place in life? The office culture, the relationship a team member has with a boss or board and the leader’s personal life can all influence how the person shows up and leads and how others perceive the individual.

But since I am writing this article, I will share a few signs that bosses are bad and in need of a timeout.

1. Bad Bosses Don’t Know and Haven’t Healed Their Inner Child

If you plan to lead people – well, if you plan to effectively lead yourself – you must get reacquainted with your inner child. Just because you are in young adulthood, middle age or the golden years doesn’t mean your inner child matches your chronological age. If you experienced trauma as a child, your inner child may be stuck at the point or age of that trauma. While you walk around in a woman’s size 10 shoe, your behavior may showcase an inner child who is much younger.

In a June 7, 2008, Psychology Today article, Stephen A. Diamond, Ph.D., observed,[1]

“The fact is that the majority of so-called adults are not truly adults at all. We all get older … But, psychologically speaking, this is not adulthood. True adulthood hinges on acknowledging, accepting, and taking responsibility for loving and parenting one’s own inner child. For most adults, this never happens. Instead, their inner child has been denied, neglected, disparaged, abandoned or rejected. We are told by society to ‘grow up,’ putting childish things aside. To become adults, we’ve been taught that our inner child—representing our child-like capacity for innocence, wonder, awe, joy, sensitivity and playfulness—must be stifled, quarantined or even killed. The inner child comprises and potentiates these positive qualities. But it also holds our accumulated childhood hurts, traumas, fears and angers.”

Sometimes the key that your inner child needs tending to is conflict with someone else’s inner child.

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Good bosses are aware of the ups and downs of their childhood, have worked or are working to heal their inner child and are aware of their triggers. Good managers use this awareness to manage themselves, and their interactions with others. Bad bosses are oblivious to how their inner child impacts not only their life but the lives of others.

2. Bad Bosses Are Unable to Accept Feedback

Bad bosses are not intentional about creating an environment where their peers and colleagues can share feedback about their leadership. They don’t solicit feedback. Given the power dynamic that managers, CEOs and others in leadership yield, they must go out of their way to solicit feedback, and they must do so repeatedly.

Before being completely honest, most team members will test the waters and share low-stakes information to get a sense for how their boss will respond. If the boss is angry or retaliatory, team members are less likely to risk being candid in the future.

So being unable to accept feedback takes on two forms: failing to proactively and repeatedly ask for feedback and reacting poorly when feedback is shared.

3. Bad Bosses Are Unwilling to Give Timely Feedback

The flip side of accepting feedback is giving feedback. Both require courage. It takes courage to open yourself up and accept feedback on ways that you need to grow. Similarly, it takes courage to share honest feedback about a team member’s or colleague’s performance or behavior.

Since not everyone is open to accepting feedback, whether they’re a manager or not, having an honest conversation about areas a team member or colleague has missed the mark, is not always easy. Still, good bosses will find a way to share feedback, and they’ll do so in a timely fashion.

Withholding feedback and sharing it months after a situation has unfolded or in a snowball fashion is unhelpful to the employees. One of the ways we grow as leaders is through feedback. When people have the courage to tell us the truth, that information allows us to progress.

4. Bad Bosses Are Unable to Acknowledge Their Mistakes

Owning their mistakes is like a disease to bad bosses; they do not want it. Instead of being risk averse, they are accountability averse. The problem is that they can only gloss over their weaknesses or failures for so long; the people around are able to see their flaws and weaknesses, and bad bosses pretending they don’t exist is not helpful. It is infuriating.

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However, bad bosses are masterful at reassigning blame. They are unable or unwilling to accept responsibility for mistakes — small or large. But career expert Amanda Augustine told CNBC “Make It” in May 2017, that “good managers also admit their mistakes.”[2] They don’t pass the blame or pretend they didn’t make a mistake. They own it.

5. Bad Bosses Are Unwilling or Incapable of Being Vulnerable

Vulnerability is an underrated leadership skill. But well-placed and well-thought out vulnerability enables employees to see their leaders’ humanity, and it creates a way for leaders to bond with their teams.

Bad bosses may talk about vulnerability, but they don’t practice it in their own lives, particularly in the workplace.

6. Privately, Bad Bosses Do Not Live Up to the Organization’s Stated Values

Bad bosses may publicly spout the values of the organization they work for, but privately they either don’t believe or don’t embody those values.

If they work for an environmental group, they may not practice sustainability in their private lives. Their words and actions are incongruent.

7. Bad Bosses Are Unable to Inspire Others

When bad bosses are unable or unwilling to take the time to inspire others, they lead through fear or command. Neither are helpful.

A culture dominated by fear will stifle creativity and risk taking that can lead to innovation. An autocratic management style will have a similar effect in that team, members will not feel they have the space to step outside of the box they have been placed in.

A good boss is someone who takes time to share the big picture and time to inspire their teams to want to be a part of it.

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8. Bad Bosses Are Disinterested in How Their Behavior Impacts Others

They are narcissistic and focused on self-preservation. In “19 Traits of a Bad Boss,” Kevin Sheridan said,[3]

“Terrible bosses are endlessly self-centered. Everything is about them and not the people they manage or what is going on in their employees’ personal lives. It is never about the team, but rather all about how good they look. Conversely, great bosses lead with integrity, honesty, care, and authenticity.”

Rather than seeing their team’s talents and seeing people’s full humanity, bad bosses believe their team exists to serve them. Families, personal life and priorities be damned. Bona fide bad bosses believe that their comfort should be prioritized over their team’s needs and desires.

9. Bad Bosses Have Likely Received Negative Feedback

Bad bosses have likely been told that they are poor supervisors. They have likely been told time and time again that their behavior is harmful to the people around them.

Perhaps they do not know how to change or are unwilling to change. But bad bosses certainly have received clues, insights and direct feedback that their management style and behavior are harmful to others.

Even when someone hasn’t explicitly said, “Your behavior is harmful to me and others,” the absence of feedback indicates a problem. It can mean that the leader’s team doesn’t feel safe enough to share feedback, that people do not believe the leader will act on what is shared, or that people have determine the best strategy is to avoid the boss as much as possible.

10. Bad Bosses Are Perfectionists

Bad bosses are driven by an internal urge to be perfect. Perfectionists don’t just want to be perfect; they want everyone around them to be perfect as well. This is a standard that neither they nor their team can live up to.

Since perfection is illusive, they spend their time chasing their shadow and being frustrated that they cannot catch it. They are unable to enjoy the journey and often block others from doing so as well. They let “perfect” be the enemy of “good.” Rather than embracing a growth mindset that desires to learn and improved, they are compulsive and toxic.

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If you are like me and you see yourself in parts of this list, do not despair. A bad boss can change. The key is seeking honest feedback and being willing to work through that feedback and your triggers with a therapist or coach.

The Bottom Line

Regardless of your age and the mistakes you have made, you can change and become a healthier leader whom others respect and appreciate.

Conversely, if you are employed by a bad boss, do everything in your power to take care of yourself. Understand that your boss’s behavior, even if directed at you, is not about you. Your boss’s reactions, if and when you make a mistake, is a reflection on that individual, not you.

To survive the work environment, think about the lesson you are meant to learn. You can do this with a trusted therapist or capable coach. However, if you deem the work environment to be toxic and harmful to your health, seek employment elsewhere.

In the end, this is an article I did not want to write, but I’m happy I did.

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