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12 Reasons Why People Who Speak Their Minds Are Incredibly Attractive

12 Reasons Why People Who Speak Their Minds Are Incredibly Attractive

It is a cliché that truth is always bitter. That said, what would we do without truth, honesty or vividness? In actuality, sometimes our actions and the decisions aren’t the best. We need certain people who can tell us the way it is. These people are not simply attractive, they also make the world a better place by providing more truth.

Here are 12 reasons why people who speak their mind are incredibly attractive.

1. They don’t mince words

You can always know what they’re thinking because their words somehow reveal their emotions, feelings, and perspectives. They know that being pretentious will make them pretty uncomfortable in the relationship with you, so they will pour it out in words and expressions.

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2. They are honest

People who speak their minds are advocates of honesty. They don’t simply preach it, they practice it. At the end of the day, there is so much strength and solidity that can be achieved with honest – like trust, transparency, and awareness.

3. They are bold

Bold is sexy and appealing. People who speak their minds are bold and courageous. They really are not focused on what they have to lose, but rather on what they will gain by telling you the truth. They just are not worried about compromise. When push comes to shove this quality could be what your relationship is valued on.

4. They don’t give soft love

All that pampering and smothering may never make you aware of the smart and hard decisions you have to be making. They wouldn’t flatter you. Everything you will get from them is something you deserve.

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5. They are clear

Sometimes this is what you need in a relationship – clarity. With clarity you know where you are heading or where you are coming from. They offer clarity to a relationship rather than vagueness or distortions.

6. They can cut through your pretentiousness

You can be pretentious or fake. They will not only see through it, they will break through it with their honesty and vividness.

7. They understand that life is short

We do not have too many chances or opportunities in life to express how we feel or take those decisive actions. However, a person who speaks their mind takes the slim opportunities they have and still makes such moments matter. They know that life is too short to be holding in feelings and not expressing yourself.

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8. They are not scared of confrontation

Actually, they revel in confrontation, and are great at confronting others. They consider confrontations as a way of making a statement. Such moments can make you see a person who speaks their mind for what they are. You are forced to accept them this way or not.

9. They offer an honest opinion

At this point, they can attract people who want to be mirrored by them. They have no problem giving anyone an honest opinion on any given issue. Actually, they attract a lot of people who want an honest piece of advice.

10. They are not needy

They don’t feel insecure or beg for attention. They do not feel obligated to butter the truth. They are stable. You can deal with that because it makes them really attractive and complete.

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11. They will apologize if they have to

They are responsible. They know that they will not always be right. When they are on the edge of a mistake, they are okay with telling you that they are sorry and they are on the wrong. They are never too egotistic to admit a mistake because they know how to reveal their hate, love, fears, distaste, and their mistakes.

12. They don’t limit themselves

They see possibilities in the cold wilderness. They know that a hard truth doesn’t hide these possibilities, but actually reveals them. It makes them aware of all the chances and options that they can urge you to take.

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Casey Imafidon

Specialized in motivation and personal growth, providing advice to make readers fulfilled and spurred on to achieve all that they desire in life.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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