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37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

Is your boyfriend your best friend, too? Some relationships come and go, but when you have something special it is very different. You respect and love your partner, even after seeing all of their gross habits – check out 37 weird things that happen when your boyfriend is your best friend.

1. You occasionally have moments where you think you can’t stand to be around anyone other than your boyfriend.

2. You have accidental outfit ensembles, such as your nearly matching blue jumpers.

3. You sometimes wear each other’s clothes. He thinks your dressing gown is comfy, and you know that his boxers are comfier than your own pants.

4. Embarrassment is no longer an issue in your relationship – you’ve even had a few burping competitions.

5. You’ve let him see you in your true form; wearing your favorite PJ’s, make-up free and smothered in moisturizer – and he thought you looked cute.

6. You know his family well, and you no longer worry about impressing them; you know they already like you.

7. You have tons of inside jokes, and often your conversations make no sense to other people.

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8. You actually find his gross habits kinda cute and endearing.

9. You know all of his favorite interests, and you are always finding funny videos and pictures that would make him laugh.

10. You have a favorite restaurant and a favorite takeaway – and it took many, many meals to settle on the best option.

11. You know each other so well that you would be able to tell if he was acting weird or strange.

12. Despite #11, you’ve never worried that he would do anything bad to you anyway.

13. You have a selection of excellent TV shows that you always watch together.

14. In fact, watching one of these TV shows without your boyfriend would be the easiest way to make him mad.

15. Sometimes you look at him while he is checking his phone, laughing or doing something else random, and you realize in that moment how much you love him.

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16. He knows everything he possibly could about your period, and he finds it interesting rather than weird.

17. You know his favorite snacks off by heart, and he knows yours.

18. You don’t talk to your boyfriend every day, but you do think about him every day.

19. He knows all of your co-workers by name, and he never forgets which ones you like and which ones you find annoying.

20. You have become experts at taking afternoon naps together.

21. You like to embrace your inner child with your boyfriend by watching cartoons and building forts.

22. You occasionally like to get crazy drunk with each other – even if you’re just sat at home.

23. You can have an entire conversation silently with facial movements if other people are around.

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24. Your play-fighting could actually be mistaken for real fighting.

25. You know each other’s favorite bands – even if you hate them.

26. You have hundreds of pictures together – and on most of them, you’re both pulling goofy faces.

27. You dislike people together.

28. You bring out each other’s competitive sides, so even the most boring board game becomes intense when you two play it.

29. You have a mental list of things you and your boyfriend want to do together, such as travelling and trying out the new Thai restaurant on your block.

30. You love each other’s pets like they are your own.

31. You like to create silly dance routines together in the house.

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32. You used to take showers together for intimacy.

33. Now you actually share showers because its practical and it is extra time to hang out together.

34. You both have extremely embarrassing pictures of each other.

35. You always know if your boyfriend has had a bad day at work, and how to make him feel better.

36. You know what his favorite alcohol is.

37. Your partner being sad makes you sad, and their happiness makes you happy.
What did you think of this list? Do you agree? Share this list with your boyfriend and see what he thinks!

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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