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37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

Is your boyfriend your best friend, too? Some relationships come and go, but when you have something special it is very different. You respect and love your partner, even after seeing all of their gross habits – check out 37 weird things that happen when your boyfriend is your best friend.

1. You occasionally have moments where you think you can’t stand to be around anyone other than your boyfriend.

2. You have accidental outfit ensembles, such as your nearly matching blue jumpers.

3. You sometimes wear each other’s clothes. He thinks your dressing gown is comfy, and you know that his boxers are comfier than your own pants.

4. Embarrassment is no longer an issue in your relationship – you’ve even had a few burping competitions.

5. You’ve let him see you in your true form; wearing your favorite PJ’s, make-up free and smothered in moisturizer – and he thought you looked cute.

6. You know his family well, and you no longer worry about impressing them; you know they already like you.

7. You have tons of inside jokes, and often your conversations make no sense to other people.

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8. You actually find his gross habits kinda cute and endearing.

9. You know all of his favorite interests, and you are always finding funny videos and pictures that would make him laugh.

10. You have a favorite restaurant and a favorite takeaway – and it took many, many meals to settle on the best option.

11. You know each other so well that you would be able to tell if he was acting weird or strange.

12. Despite #11, you’ve never worried that he would do anything bad to you anyway.

13. You have a selection of excellent TV shows that you always watch together.

14. In fact, watching one of these TV shows without your boyfriend would be the easiest way to make him mad.

15. Sometimes you look at him while he is checking his phone, laughing or doing something else random, and you realize in that moment how much you love him.

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16. He knows everything he possibly could about your period, and he finds it interesting rather than weird.

17. You know his favorite snacks off by heart, and he knows yours.

18. You don’t talk to your boyfriend every day, but you do think about him every day.

19. He knows all of your co-workers by name, and he never forgets which ones you like and which ones you find annoying.

20. You have become experts at taking afternoon naps together.

21. You like to embrace your inner child with your boyfriend by watching cartoons and building forts.

22. You occasionally like to get crazy drunk with each other – even if you’re just sat at home.

23. You can have an entire conversation silently with facial movements if other people are around.

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24. Your play-fighting could actually be mistaken for real fighting.

25. You know each other’s favorite bands – even if you hate them.

26. You have hundreds of pictures together – and on most of them, you’re both pulling goofy faces.

27. You dislike people together.

28. You bring out each other’s competitive sides, so even the most boring board game becomes intense when you two play it.

29. You have a mental list of things you and your boyfriend want to do together, such as travelling and trying out the new Thai restaurant on your block.

30. You love each other’s pets like they are your own.

31. You like to create silly dance routines together in the house.

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32. You used to take showers together for intimacy.

33. Now you actually share showers because its practical and it is extra time to hang out together.

34. You both have extremely embarrassing pictures of each other.

35. You always know if your boyfriend has had a bad day at work, and how to make him feel better.

36. You know what his favorite alcohol is.

37. Your partner being sad makes you sad, and their happiness makes you happy.
What did you think of this list? Do you agree? Share this list with your boyfriend and see what he thinks!

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Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on September 12, 2019

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

Here are 12 things to remember:

1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

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2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

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7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

10. Journal During This Time

Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

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Final Thoughts

Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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