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37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

37 Weird Things That Happen When Your Boyfriend Is Indeed Your Bestfriend

Is your boyfriend your best friend, too? Some relationships come and go, but when you have something special it is very different. You respect and love your partner, even after seeing all of their gross habits – check out 37 weird things that happen when your boyfriend is your best friend.

1. You occasionally have moments where you think you can’t stand to be around anyone other than your boyfriend.

2. You have accidental outfit ensembles, such as your nearly matching blue jumpers.

3. You sometimes wear each other’s clothes. He thinks your dressing gown is comfy, and you know that his boxers are comfier than your own pants.

4. Embarrassment is no longer an issue in your relationship – you’ve even had a few burping competitions.

5. You’ve let him see you in your true form; wearing your favorite PJ’s, make-up free and smothered in moisturizer – and he thought you looked cute.

6. You know his family well, and you no longer worry about impressing them; you know they already like you.

7. You have tons of inside jokes, and often your conversations make no sense to other people.

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8. You actually find his gross habits kinda cute and endearing.

9. You know all of his favorite interests, and you are always finding funny videos and pictures that would make him laugh.

10. You have a favorite restaurant and a favorite takeaway – and it took many, many meals to settle on the best option.

11. You know each other so well that you would be able to tell if he was acting weird or strange.

12. Despite #11, you’ve never worried that he would do anything bad to you anyway.

13. You have a selection of excellent TV shows that you always watch together.

14. In fact, watching one of these TV shows without your boyfriend would be the easiest way to make him mad.

15. Sometimes you look at him while he is checking his phone, laughing or doing something else random, and you realize in that moment how much you love him.

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16. He knows everything he possibly could about your period, and he finds it interesting rather than weird.

17. You know his favorite snacks off by heart, and he knows yours.

18. You don’t talk to your boyfriend every day, but you do think about him every day.

19. He knows all of your co-workers by name, and he never forgets which ones you like and which ones you find annoying.

20. You have become experts at taking afternoon naps together.

21. You like to embrace your inner child with your boyfriend by watching cartoons and building forts.

22. You occasionally like to get crazy drunk with each other – even if you’re just sat at home.

23. You can have an entire conversation silently with facial movements if other people are around.

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24. Your play-fighting could actually be mistaken for real fighting.

25. You know each other’s favorite bands – even if you hate them.

26. You have hundreds of pictures together – and on most of them, you’re both pulling goofy faces.

27. You dislike people together.

28. You bring out each other’s competitive sides, so even the most boring board game becomes intense when you two play it.

29. You have a mental list of things you and your boyfriend want to do together, such as travelling and trying out the new Thai restaurant on your block.

30. You love each other’s pets like they are your own.

31. You like to create silly dance routines together in the house.

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32. You used to take showers together for intimacy.

33. Now you actually share showers because its practical and it is extra time to hang out together.

34. You both have extremely embarrassing pictures of each other.

35. You always know if your boyfriend has had a bad day at work, and how to make him feel better.

36. You know what his favorite alcohol is.

37. Your partner being sad makes you sad, and their happiness makes you happy.
What did you think of this list? Do you agree? Share this list with your boyfriend and see what he thinks!

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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