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Human Library, Where You Not Only Read But Also Talk To Your Books

Human Library, Where You Not Only Read But Also Talk To Your Books

Professional Housewife. Aggressive Workaholic. Recovering Anorexic. These are all words we use to label certain people in society, slowly closing them in into a box in which they might not belong, or grow out of eventually.  In 2000, “The Human Library” originated in Denmark with the goal to fight prejudice and giving people the opportunity to hear the stories of people they would have probably never met otherwise. Well, how does it work? Library visitors can go to the “Book Shelf”, filled with volunteers ready to be “checked out.” Each volunteer gives themselves a title, such as, “Olympic Athlete”, “A Questioning Christian”, or “Fat Woman.” While you can’t take these books home, visitors get an invaluable half hour to listen to these amazing, personal stories.

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        The individuals who volunteer as human books are usually people with certain backgrounds, stories, or perspectives that give them a particular stereotype in society. Through honest and open conversation, the Human Library seeks to break through the social barriers that we have built and give people the opportunity to challenge their prejudices and thoughts towards any particular type of person.

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        In the 15 years since the first Human Library launched in Denmark, this idea has taken the world by a quiet storm. These libraries are a key to social understanding and cohesion, yet they are still not as known as they should be. I recently found out even my alma mater, Loyola Marymount has been hosting them while I was enrolled there – something I had no idea about even thought I spent most of my time in the library. You can search for the nearest Human Library near you here.

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        Go on now – go open your mind and shake your reality. No library card needed.

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        Featured photo credit: University of Sussex via flickr.com

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        How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

        How to Stay Calm and Cool When You Are Extremely Stressful

        Being in a hurry all the time drains your energy. Your work and routine life make you feel overwhelmed. Getting caught up in things beyond your control stresses you out…

        If you’d like to stay calm and cool in stressful situations, put the following 8 steps into practice:

        1. Breathe

        The next time you’re faced with a stressful situation that makes you want to hurry, stop what you’re doing for one minute and perform the following steps:

        • Take five deep breaths in and out (your belly should come forward with each inhale).
        • Imagine all that stress leaving your body with each exhale.
        • Smile. Fake it if you have to. It’s pretty hard to stay grumpy with a goofy grin on your face.

        Feel free to repeat the above steps every few hours at work or home if you need to.

        2. Loosen up

        After your breathing session, perform a quick body scan to identify any areas that are tight or tense. Clenched jaw? Rounded shoulders? Anything else that isn’t at ease?

        Gently touch or massage any of your body parts that are under tension to encourage total relaxation. It might help to imagine you’re in a place that calms you: a beach, hot tub, or nature trail, for example.

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        3. Chew slowly

        Slow down at the dinner table if you want to learn to be patient and lose weight. Shoveling your food down as fast as you can is a surefire way to eat more than you need to (and find yourself with a bellyache).

        Be a mindful eater who pays attention to the taste, texture, and aroma of every dish. Chew slowly while you try to guess all of the ingredients that were used to prepare your dish.

        Chewing slowly will also reduce those dreadful late-night cravings that sneak up on you after work.

        4. Let go

        Cliche as it sounds, it’s very effective.

        The thing that seems like the end of the world right now?

        It’s not. Promise.

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        Stressing and worrying about the situation you’re in won’t do any good because you’re already in it, so just let it go.

        Letting go isn’t easy, so here’s a guide to help you:

        21 Things To Do When You Find It Hard To Let Go

        5. Enjoy the journey

        Focusing on the end result can quickly become exhausting. Chasing a bold, audacious goal that’s going to require a lot of time and patience? Split it into several mini-goals so you’ll have several causes for celebration.

        Stop focusing on the negative thoughts. Giving yourself consistent positive feedback will help you grow patience, stay encouraged, and find more joy in the process of achieving your goals.

        6. Look at the big picture

        The next time you find your stress level skyrocketing, take a deep breath, and ask yourself:

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        Will this matter to me…

        • Next week?
        • Next month?
        • Next year?
        • In 10 years?

        Hint: No, it won’t.

        I bet most of the stuff that stresses you wouldn’t matter the next week, maybe not even the next day.

        Stop agonizing over things you can’t control because you’re only hurting yourself.

        7. Stop demanding perfection of yourself

        You’re not perfect and that’s okay. Show me a person who claims to be perfect and I’ll show you a dirty liar.

        Demanding perfection of yourself (or anybody else) will only stress you out because it just isn’t possible.

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        8. Practice patience every day

        Below are a few easy ways you can practice patience every day, increasing your ability to remain calm and cool in times of stress:

        • The next time you go to the grocery store, get in the longest line.
        • Instead of going through the drive-thru at your bank, go inside.
        • Take a long walk through a secluded park or trail.

        Final thoughts

        Staying calm in stressful situations is possible, all you need is some daily practice.

        Taking deep breaths and eat mindfully are some simple ways to train your brain to be more patient. But changing the way you think of a situation and staying positive are most important in keeping cool whenever you feel overwhelmed and stressful.

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