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15 Times You Realised Your Best Friend Is The Only One Who Knows You

15 Times You Realised Your Best Friend Is The Only One Who Knows You

Do you love your best friend? Having a best friend is often similar to a marriage – they make you laugh, you know they are always there for you, they know you better than anyone else and you’re pretty sure they are your soul mate, just without the sex. Check out 15 times you realized your best friend is the only person who truly knows you.

1. When They Hate The People You Hate

Your best friend hates your ex and your old boss. Why? Because they upset you. They haven’t actually met either of these people, but anyone who upsets you is no friend of theirs.

2. When They Let You Talk For Hours About Your Crush

You are forever thankful to your best friend for all of the hours they have sat there in silence while you ramble on about coffee shop guy and all of his great traits – like how he has a Greenpeace badge on his backpack. How sweet?!

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3. When They Stayed By Your Side After You Got Your Heart Broken

If you go through a break-up, your best friend is there for you no matter what. If you feel sad, they are happy to sit inside and gallons of ice-cream, and if you’re ready to move on, they are happy to get crazy-drunk and stay up until 4 in the morning.

4. When They Listen Patiently To Your Ranting

After a long day, you just want to vent – and your best friend is happy to sit patiently and nod at all of the right places. Sometimes they even provide you with invaluable life advice relating to your problems.

5. Every Time That They Knew Exactly What You Want To Eat

They know your favorite takeout order off by heart, and which candies you hate and which ones you love. This is especially awesome when you go to their house and they have already ordered in. Delicious!

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6. When They ‘Like’ Everything You Post On Social Media

Your best friend is your online ally; they ‘like’ everything you post online and make you look way more popular than you actually are. They also keep you updated on your ex, and you check up on their little sister for them.

7. When They Basically Wrote Your Texts For You

If you have a difficult text to send, your best friend will always help you to come up with the perfect text. It may take 7 drafts, but eventually the two of you will come up with the perfect text.

8. Whenever They Let You Borrow Their Stuff

They even let you borrow their brand new jacket from American Apparel, which they haven’t even worn yet – true love.

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9. Whenever You Watch Netflix Together

You love to binge watch the same shows, and your perfect evening is with your best friend catching up on Orange Is The New Black.

10. Whenever They Are Totally Honest With You

Your best friend is the only person in your life who is happy to tell you that you have food stuck between your teeth, and for that, you are forever thankful.

11. When You Feel Down And They Know Exactly What To Say

Your best friend always knows exactly what to say, no matter what the situation is. If you’re feeling sad, they can make you smile and laugh. When you’re angry, they can calm you down. No-one else has this power – your best friend is basically magical.

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12. When You Do Well And They Cheer You On

From a new promotion to a hot date, your best friend is always happy that you are happy. They always cheer on your victories, and you’re pretty sure they are just as proud of you as your parents are.

13. When They Believed In You

Whenever you’re not sure if you’re good enough for something, your best friend firmly reminds you that you are. It is a much needed confidence boost and you always appreciate it.

14. When They Dropped Everything To Be With You

Every time something horrible has happened to you, your best friend has always dropped everything to make sure you’re okay. They even Skyped you when they were in Spain to make sure you were okay when your favorite TV show finished.

15. Whenever You Realize That They Will Always Be There For You

Even if you moved to a different country, you know in your heart that you two would still be best friends. You will always be in each other’s lives, and you know you will still be laughing together in your 80s.

What did you think of this list? Do you agree? Share this list with your best friend to see what they think!

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

When you have an important decision to make, what is the first thing you do?

You want to know if your decision is right or wrong because, of course, you want to make the right choice. Do you go to friends hoping they will tell you? Do you agonize over it writing lists? Or have you ever tried to feel into the wisdom of your body? We all have the ability to read the body’s signs – inwards and out. But not everyone knows how to listen and trust your intuition.

You may have noticed two voices in your head arguing back and forth. They can get loud and confusing because they both seem concerned for your well-being.

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So which one is your inner knowing and which is simply resistant? You can tell through the simple exercise of slowing down, breathing deeply and tuning into your body. You will notice very real signs.

Everyone can tune into their intuition with the simple exercise outlined below. If you want to know how to trust your intuition, read on.

The Golden Rule

A rising, light and expansive feeling in your heart is a yes. A sinking, contracting and heavy feeling in your gut is a maybe or a no, which are both a no. The best way to access these feelings is by slowing down with a deep breath.

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Access Your Inner Guidance

Think of a simple decision you have to make that has two sides to it. Forgetting your background stories, take each at a time and sort of role play as you alternate each option in your mind.

Don’t go into the details of how you’ll get there or how a certain person might feel about it. Drop the stories and worries around it, simply be with one option, as though it is your choice. Remember, you can always pick up your concerns again right afterwards, if you want!

Bring option A into your mind like you are already there. It doesn’t have to be super specific, just imagine it is the direction you take. Start with the breath because it is clearing, it resets your nervous system and brings you to be completely present. Begin with your long, deep breath, exhaling all the way out.

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As you sit there and think of option A, notice what is happening in your body. What sensations are there, and where? Do you feel a buzzing in a limb or a prickling sensation? Maybe butterflies in your stomach? Sit with it, not judging it. Simply take note of what your body is telling you. If it is light and expansive then you have a good option. Now, take another breath to clear out option A.

Next you will probably notice feelings in different parts of your body as you focus on option B. Again, drop the fear and doubt you might have around it. Let yourself imagine (just for now) that this is what you’re choosing. Your breath is so important in this because it slows you down and connects you with your inner guidance. Give yourself that few extra seconds to deepen your breath. It will help you feel incredibly clear.

Become curious about the feelings in your body and how they are different from the last option. What do they mean? The answer is always in the weight of them. If they rise and feel light, you have your yes. The option that feels shrouded, heavier, contracted and sinking deeper in your stomach is the warning. It sounds simplistic, because it is.

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Your body has a profound and simple wisdom. When you let go of old expectations and open up to myriad possibilities, you can easily feel the best avenue to take simply by following what feels best. This is an important key in manifestation because how you feel at the start of any endeavor is generally how it will play out. So the lighter you feel about a situation, the happier it will be.

The Bottom Line

A special thing about intuition is that it never explains, it simply points the way. It may not always seem logical, but if it feels best then it will lead you to your success.

Remember, you need not to explain yourself either. Your internal yes will always be with you. The more you practice this and follow your internal yes, the stronger it will become and the more confidence you will gain! Soon you will notice it to be second nature, and the answer will come to you in a heart beat.

How have you connected to your intuition? We would love to hear how this exercise works for you. Where did you feel the yes or the no in your body? 

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