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15 Struggles A Girl Who Speaks Too Much Knows Too Well

15 Struggles A Girl Who Speaks Too Much Knows Too Well

Do you struggle to hold your tongue? Me too. For some of us, it is nearly impossible to not say exactly what we think, whenever we think it. It can result in some pretty awkward situations. However, there are also some sweet advantages.

Check out these 15 struggles a girl who speaks too much knows too well.

1. You Are Known For Being A Loud Mouth

Before anything else, you are known for being a loud mouth. You’re never sure if this is a good thing. At least it’s better than being mean, but it isn’t as good as being kind.

2. You Order Drinks For The Group

You’re always the one at the bar ordering the drinks because your friends take way too long. You are the only one who is willing to push through the crowds and get the attention of the bar staff.

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3. You Are The One Friends Go To When They Want The Truth

In your group, if someone needs the cold, hard truth, they go straight to you. To you, this is a great compliment because it means everyone in the group trusts you to tell it exactly how it is.

4. You Are Someone Friends Can Say Whatever They Want To

Your friends tend to get louder and more vulgar when they are around you – probably  because you say whatever you want to them. Bring on the sexual innuendos!

5. You Reveal Everything Straight Away

You are very experienced in talking without thinking, so you always end up telling people about your life. Most of the time, you don’t even notice you’re doing it.

6. You Know All Of Your Friends Are Real Friends

Not many people can tolerate non-stop and sometimes cruel honesty, but your group of friends can. You really appreciate having friends who love you for exactly who you are. In return, you try to be the best friend you can possibly be.

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7. You Don’t Like To Lie

You don’t see the point in lying. Being deceitful often becomes complicated. Besides, the truth is always the best option. You would rather be honest and deal with the consequences now than lie and deal with them later.

8. You Don’t Understand The Point Of Biting Your Tongue

You believe that if someone has something to say, they should just say it. You can’t comprehend why people bite their tongue. The concept is just weird to you.

9. You Give Your Friends Tough Love

You give your friends tough love because you care about them and you don’t want them to make mistakes. You would never lie to your friends, even when the truth is difficult to say.

10. You Are Trustworthy

You may not have a filter, but you understand the importance of keeping secrets. Your best friends are always letting you in on their secrets, and you would never betray their trust.

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11. You Always Over-share

You always over-share. Luckily, most of your friends think it is hilarious. This is mainly awesome because everyone else you know tells you to shut up.

12. You Sometimes Confuse People With Honesty

People are never sure if they find your honesty refreshing or offensive to start off with. However, by the end of the conversation, they are normally laughing.

13. You’re Happy To Ask For Better Service

You don’t understand the point of paying for something and then settling for less. If you go out for a meal or drinks and the order is wrong, you always tell them to change it. After all, why wouldn’t you?

14. You Are Someone People Hate Embarrassing Themselves Around

If someone embarrasses themselves, you think it is the funniest thing ever. You will ring up your other friends to tell them about it. If you could, you would even take a picture. They will never live it down, so people hate to embarrass themselves in front of you.

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15. You Always Have An Opinion On Your Friend’s Partners

If your friends want an honest opinion of their date, they come to you. They always patiently listen to your opinions – and then they go and do whatever they want. But you still love them anyways.

What did you think of this list? Do you know someone who speaks too much?

Share this list with your loudest friends to see what they think! I’m sure they’ll have something to say.

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Last Updated on November 5, 2018

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

We’ve all got our enemies; people who take pleasure in causing us pain and misery. Sometimes, the development of an enemy is due to certain differences in your characters and events have led to that. Other times, some people end up hating you for apparently no reason at all.

Regardless of how you got this enemy, as opposed to the paradigm of fighting fire with fire, consider the following reasons and see why you should actually appreciate your enemies. This article will show you not only how to not be bothered by your enemies, but how to actually foster love for them.

Read on to learn the secret.

1. It’s a practical lesson in anger management

To be honest, your enemies are the best people to help you understand your sense of anger management. When it might be true that your enemies have a way of bringing out the worst in you as regards anger, it is also true that they can help you in your quest to have that anger managed. You can’t get truly angry at someone you love and it is only in that time when you get truly annoyed that you learn how to manage it.

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Anger management is more effective when it is in practice and not in theory

Your enemies are like the therapists who you need, but actually don’t want. Inasmuch as you might want to hate them, they provide you an opportunity to control the anger impulse that you have.

2. It’s an opportunity for healthy competition

You might not know it, but your enemies make for great rivals as they help harness the competitor in you (sometimes, you might not even know or bee conversant with this competitive side until you come across an adversary). You get the right motivation to compete and this can go a long way to spur you to victory.

However, while doing so, it is also essential that you remember not to become a worse version of yourself while competing. Working against an adversary is tricky, and you need to ensure that you don’t cause harm to yourself or your morals in the process. Healthy competition is all you need to get out of this.

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3. Their negative comments can help you make a breakthrough

It is true that your enemies never really have much good to say about you. However, in as much as they might be talking out of a place of hate, there might be some truth to what they’re saying.

To wit, whenever you hear something mean or nasty from an enemy, you might want to take a step back and evaluate yourself. There is a chance that what this enemy is saying is true and coming to face that fact is a major step in helping you to become a better person overall. This is another testament to the fact that enemies can be therapists in their own way.

4. Enemies can also be powerful allies

Loving your enemies can also mean making an effort to interact and make peace with them. In the end, if you are able to establish some common ground and patch things up, you’ll have succeeded in making another friend. And who doesn’t need friends?

This can also help you in working with people in the long run. You get to hone your inter-personal skills, and that can be a big plus to your ledger.

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5. It gives you the ability to realize positivity

In a multitude of negativity, a speck of positivity always seems to find its way through.

Sometimes, a knowledge of the fact that you have enemies will also help you to focus on the many positives and good things that are in your life. A lot of times, we neglect what really matters in life. This can be due to being overly concerned with the enemies we have.

However, it is also possible for this acknowledgement to spur you to take a step back and appreciate the goo things (and people who surround you).

6. There might just be a misunderstanding

Sometimes, the reason why you have an enemy might be something very innocuous. You might not have known the cause of this fractured relationship and your enemy will help complete the picture.

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Simply approaching them will help you to understand the reason for the fracture. This, in turn, can help you to work towards healing your relationship moving forward. Misunderstandings happen, and you need to be able to work around them.

7. You learn to appreciate love as well

A constant reminder of the fact that there are enemies will also help you not to take those who love you for granted. Love and hate are two opposing emotions and it is possible for one to momentarily overshadow the other.

However, while you’ll always have enemies, there will also always be people who love you. These people need to be appreciated for what they do for you. Never let the hate projected to you from your enemies take the place of that.

8. Do you really need the hate?

The truth is that enemies bring only toxic emotions and generate bad reactions from you. If you’re truly to live a prosperous life, you can’t really be carrying all this baggage around.

Hate is bad and you should try all you can to get rid of it. It is a well-known fact that nobody can get really far in life while carrying a lot of emotional baggage. Well, hate is the biggest form of emotional baggage there is.

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