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This Is Why Some People Can Always Attract Devoted Partners

This Is Why Some People Can Always Attract Devoted Partners

Living a great life and having all the things we deserve is dependent on the choices and the decisions we make. Many people want things to turn out great for them, but they are wary and hesitant to direct themselves in the right channel. We tend to envy those who have devoted partners and wonder why someone will get the best when all that is coming our way are persons who are in a relationship with us half-heartedly. It all starts from experiencing the internal journey of being secure, poised and vibrant even when the right person has not come yet.

You should understand why some people can attract devoted partners while others cannot. These are actually the reasons why some people can always attract devoted partners.

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1. They can be independent

Being independent substantiates how decisive and complete you are. People who are independent are not afraid to be alone neither are they needy or clingy. Independent people can dictate the direction a relationship should go. Most times relationships can be complicated but everyone wants to attach themselves to someone who is secure, formidable, and certain. It is so hard to be devoted to someone who is missing something or experiencing a void. In order to get the best out of your partner in terms of devotion, learn to be independent emotionally, financially, and physically. When you become independent you will start attracting people who want to devote themselves to you.

2. They can be confident

Many people are concerned about how they are treated or what people think about them. Yet, once you start letting others dictate your life or your emotions you lose your confidence and esteem. To have a successful relationship and gain devotion from your partner, you have to learn to not be overly concerned about the opinions of others. You can’t get the best out of your partner when you are too concerned about what they think of you. Self-respect comes from how you view yourself and adjusting your perspective to being self-assured that you are a person of value.

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3. They expect the best

People who have devoted partners do not pine after the lesser experiences in life. They expect the best and set their standards or requirements to suit this. Getting a devoted partner could take time and patience. There is no need to settle for what will give you heartache and pain at the end of the day. The best way to face what is before you is to be proactive and go out there to get what you deserve, which is a devoted partner.

4. They are happy

While we know that it is impossible to be happy 100 percent of the time, it is important to know that you can have a happy frame of mind and be positive regardless of what you are faced with. Of course, no one likes to share their life with a pessimistic and miserable partner. When you start becoming positive while you accept responsibility without blaming others you will start attracting someone with a positive energy. Being happy tends to attract the right type of people who will devote themselves to you.

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5. They are not anxious about how a relationship will go

Once you become self-aware and complete internally you do not doubt everyone that comes your way. People who are not anxious on how a relationship will go do not put themselves under pressure. By showing you are available for possibilities, you are settled and in tune with accepting a devoted partner when they come along. The truth is that life is about experimenting and taking chances with what comes your way.

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Last Updated on July 3, 2020

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

In today’s world, true peace must come from within us and our own actions. Here are 30 small things you can do on a regular basis to increase your overall sense of harmony, peace, and well-being:

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath

Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.

3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.

4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.

5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.

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6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!

7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.

8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.

9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.

10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.

11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.

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12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.

13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.

14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.

15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.

16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.

17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.

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18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.

20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!

22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.

23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.

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24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.

25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.

26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.

27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.

28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.

29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.

30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.

Featured photo credit: man watching sunrise via stokpic.com

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