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Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

You have to cherish a woman who sticks around when every other lady does not. Such are never in for the light stuff but something substantive and definitive. When a woman needs you she understands your depth, what you can become and somehow how ideal you will be for her future.

She believes and she is not scared. She has more to lose than you do. Yet she is willing to go the long haul. Even if it fails she is assured that she has given her goodness and purity to someone who should appreciate her. You should understand that happy endings could take a life time to create and she is willing to make that compromise.

The truth is that there are very few people in the world who would wait for anyone. Yet it is not about waiting, it is about believing. It is about knowing. With you she saw beauty, she saw a future, she saw a certainty.

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Here are pertinent reasons why you should cherish a woman who believed and waited until you were ready.

She understands you

She certainly wouldn’t wait if she couldn’t relate and identify with you. Her reasons for sticking around must have stemmed from the knowledge that you are someone she can trust and make a future with. Such understanding is built on courage and figuring things out even before you made the proposition.

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She is in love

She won’t be sticking around for so long if her affection doesn’t stem from something so deep and certain. She doesn’t have a passing or a sweeping emotion rather she has something real and authentic. Such waiting could define the fact that she will always be with you until the end of time because her feelings for you are consistent and stable.

She is patient

Patience is a virtue, a plus. She didn’t insist, she didn’t fight, she didn’t pound her way to making sure you did what she wanted. Rather she waited. She was sustained. She may have had other choices, but rather she looked nowhere else. She made you her only choice. And while she must have been pressured by doubts and by certain naysayers, she remained consistent with her emotions. Because there was no other person that could make her feel the same way as you did.

She is positive

Optimism like patience is another virtue. She delivered on her promise on finding tomorrow with you. She was certain that things would work out right for you. And whether she was wrong or right, that believe in you must have seen you through many odds and challenging moments when you even doubted yourself. Such positive wouldn’t just play in this moment, it will also play when you meet with future obstacles.

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She is consistent

She was stable. She was solid. She was unshaken and such commitment to you and your future defines that she will always be around to the same with anything that you represent. She wouldn’t shake with fear or lose touch with something else or someone else and lose touch with why she always wanted to be with you.

She is courageous

Let us admit it, it takes some level of inner strength and mental power for her to get through with staying the long haul and waiting for you. It takes boldness, it takes ferocity, it takes strength and vigor to win with you. She must have a winning spirit and this could be necessary and essential to defining where you and her headed together.

There really is no reason for you to let go of a woman who waited for you to be ready. Don’t get lost or confused about it, being with such a lady is the best decision you can ever make, because they are diamond in a desert. And holding on to them may be the only thing you can have.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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