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Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

You have to cherish a woman who sticks around when every other lady does not. Such are never in for the light stuff but something substantive and definitive. When a woman needs you she understands your depth, what you can become and somehow how ideal you will be for her future.

She believes and she is not scared. She has more to lose than you do. Yet she is willing to go the long haul. Even if it fails she is assured that she has given her goodness and purity to someone who should appreciate her. You should understand that happy endings could take a life time to create and she is willing to make that compromise.

The truth is that there are very few people in the world who would wait for anyone. Yet it is not about waiting, it is about believing. It is about knowing. With you she saw beauty, she saw a future, she saw a certainty.

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Here are pertinent reasons why you should cherish a woman who believed and waited until you were ready.

She understands you

She certainly wouldn’t wait if she couldn’t relate and identify with you. Her reasons for sticking around must have stemmed from the knowledge that you are someone she can trust and make a future with. Such understanding is built on courage and figuring things out even before you made the proposition.

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She is in love

She won’t be sticking around for so long if her affection doesn’t stem from something so deep and certain. She doesn’t have a passing or a sweeping emotion rather she has something real and authentic. Such waiting could define the fact that she will always be with you until the end of time because her feelings for you are consistent and stable.

She is patient

Patience is a virtue, a plus. She didn’t insist, she didn’t fight, she didn’t pound her way to making sure you did what she wanted. Rather she waited. She was sustained. She may have had other choices, but rather she looked nowhere else. She made you her only choice. And while she must have been pressured by doubts and by certain naysayers, she remained consistent with her emotions. Because there was no other person that could make her feel the same way as you did.

She is positive

Optimism like patience is another virtue. She delivered on her promise on finding tomorrow with you. She was certain that things would work out right for you. And whether she was wrong or right, that believe in you must have seen you through many odds and challenging moments when you even doubted yourself. Such positive wouldn’t just play in this moment, it will also play when you meet with future obstacles.

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She is consistent

She was stable. She was solid. She was unshaken and such commitment to you and your future defines that she will always be around to the same with anything that you represent. She wouldn’t shake with fear or lose touch with something else or someone else and lose touch with why she always wanted to be with you.

She is courageous

Let us admit it, it takes some level of inner strength and mental power for her to get through with staying the long haul and waiting for you. It takes boldness, it takes ferocity, it takes strength and vigor to win with you. She must have a winning spirit and this could be necessary and essential to defining where you and her headed together.

There really is no reason for you to let go of a woman who waited for you to be ready. Don’t get lost or confused about it, being with such a lady is the best decision you can ever make, because they are diamond in a desert. And holding on to them may be the only thing you can have.

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Last Updated on July 3, 2020

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

30 Small Habits To Lead A More Peaceful Life

In today’s world, true peace must come from within us and our own actions. Here are 30 small things you can do on a regular basis to increase your overall sense of harmony, peace, and well-being:

1. Don’t go to every fight you’re invited to

Particularly when you’re around those who thrive on chaos, be willing to decline the invitation to join in on the drama.

2. Focus on your breath

Throughout the day, stop to take a few deep breaths. Keep stress at bay with techniques such as “square breathing.” Breathe in for four counts, hold for four counts, then out for four counts, and hold again for four counts. Repeat this cycle four times.

3. Get organized and purge old items

A cluttered space often creates a cluttered spirit. Take the time to get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year and invest in organizational systems that help you sustain a level of neatness.

4. Stop yourself from being judgmental

Whenever you are tempted to have an opinion about someone else’s life, check your intentions. Judging others creates and promotes negative energy.

5. Say ‘thank you’ early and often

Start and end each day with an attitude of gratitude. Look for opportunities in your daily routine and interactions to express appreciation.

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6. Smile more

Even if you have to “fake it until you make it,” there are many scientific benefits of smiling and laughing. Also, pay attention to your facial expression when you are doing neutral activities such as driving and walking. Turn that frown upside down!

7. Don’t worry about the future

As difficult as this sounds, there is a direct connection between staying in the present and living a more peaceful life. You cannot control the future. As the old proverb goes, “Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it won’t get you anywhere.” Practice gently bringing your thoughts back to the present.

8. Eat real food

The closer the food is to the state from which it came from the earth, the better you will feel in eating it. Choose foods that grew from a plant over food that was made in a plant.

9. Choose being happy over being right

Too often, we sacrifice inner peace in order to make a point. It’s rarely worth it.

10. Keep technology out of the bedroom

Many studies, such as one conducted by Brigham and Women’s Hospital, have connected blue light of electronic devices before bed to adverse sleep and overall health. To make matters worse, many people report that they cannot resist checking email and social media when their cell phone is in reach of their bed, regardless of the time.

11. Make use of filtering features on social media

You may not want to “unfriend” someone completely, however you can choose whether you want to follow their posts and/or the sources of information that they share.

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12. Get comfortable with silence

When you picture someone who is the ultimate state of peace, typically they aren’t talking.

13. Listen to understand, not to respond

So often in conversations, we use our ears to give us cues about when it is our turn to say what we want to say. Practice active listening, ask questions, process, then speak.

14. Put your troubles in a bubble

Whenever you start to feel anxious, visualize the situation being wrapped in a bubble and then picture that sphere floating away.

15. Speak more slowly

Often a lack of peace manifests itself in fast or clipped speech. Take a breath, slow down, and let your thoughtful consideration drive your words.

16. Don’t procrastinate

Nothing adds stress to our lives like waiting until the last minute.

17. Buy a coloring book

Mandala coloring books for adults are becoming more popular because of their connection to creating inner peace.

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18. Prioritize yourself

You are the only person who you are guaranteed to live with 24 hours a day for the rest of your life.

19. Forgive others

Holding a grudge is hurting you exponentially more than anyone else. Let it go.

20. Check your expectations

Presumption often leads to drama. Remember the old saying, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.”

21. Engage in active play

Let your inner child come out and have some fun. Jump, dance, play, and pretend!

22. Stop criticizing yourself

The world is a hard enough place with more than enough critics. Your life is not served well by being one of them.

23. Focus your energy and attention on what you want

Thoughts, words, and actions all create energy. Energy attracts like energy. Put out what you want to get back.

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24. Assign yourself “complaint free” days.

Make a conscious decision not to complain about anything for a whole day. It might be harder than you think and the awareness will stick with you.

25. Surround yourself with people you truly enjoy being in the company of

Personalities tend to be contagious, and not everyone’s is worth catching. Be judicious in your choices.

26. Manage your money

Financial concerns rank top on the list of what causes people stress. Take the time each month to do a budget, calculate what you actually spend and sanity check that against the money you have coming in.

27. Stop trying to control everything

Not only is your inner control freak sabotaging your sense of peace, it is also likely getting in the way of external relationships as well.

28. Practice affirmations

Repeat positive phrases that depict the life and qualities you want to attract. It may not come naturally to you, but it works.

29. Get up before sunrise

Personally witnessing the dawn brings a unique sense of awe and appreciation for life.

30. Be yourself

Nothing creates more inner discord than trying to be something other than who we really are. Authenticity breeds happiness.

Featured photo credit: man watching sunrise via stokpic.com

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