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Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

Don’t Miss The Chance: Why You Should Cherish The Girl Who Waits For You To Be Ready

You have to cherish a woman who sticks around when every other lady does not. Such are never in for the light stuff but something substantive and definitive. When a woman needs you she understands your depth, what you can become and somehow how ideal you will be for her future.

She believes and she is not scared. She has more to lose than you do. Yet she is willing to go the long haul. Even if it fails she is assured that she has given her goodness and purity to someone who should appreciate her. You should understand that happy endings could take a life time to create and she is willing to make that compromise.

The truth is that there are very few people in the world who would wait for anyone. Yet it is not about waiting, it is about believing. It is about knowing. With you she saw beauty, she saw a future, she saw a certainty.

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Here are pertinent reasons why you should cherish a woman who believed and waited until you were ready.

She understands you

She certainly wouldn’t wait if she couldn’t relate and identify with you. Her reasons for sticking around must have stemmed from the knowledge that you are someone she can trust and make a future with. Such understanding is built on courage and figuring things out even before you made the proposition.

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She is in love

She won’t be sticking around for so long if her affection doesn’t stem from something so deep and certain. She doesn’t have a passing or a sweeping emotion rather she has something real and authentic. Such waiting could define the fact that she will always be with you until the end of time because her feelings for you are consistent and stable.

She is patient

Patience is a virtue, a plus. She didn’t insist, she didn’t fight, she didn’t pound her way to making sure you did what she wanted. Rather she waited. She was sustained. She may have had other choices, but rather she looked nowhere else. She made you her only choice. And while she must have been pressured by doubts and by certain naysayers, she remained consistent with her emotions. Because there was no other person that could make her feel the same way as you did.

She is positive

Optimism like patience is another virtue. She delivered on her promise on finding tomorrow with you. She was certain that things would work out right for you. And whether she was wrong or right, that believe in you must have seen you through many odds and challenging moments when you even doubted yourself. Such positive wouldn’t just play in this moment, it will also play when you meet with future obstacles.

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She is consistent

She was stable. She was solid. She was unshaken and such commitment to you and your future defines that she will always be around to the same with anything that you represent. She wouldn’t shake with fear or lose touch with something else or someone else and lose touch with why she always wanted to be with you.

She is courageous

Let us admit it, it takes some level of inner strength and mental power for her to get through with staying the long haul and waiting for you. It takes boldness, it takes ferocity, it takes strength and vigor to win with you. She must have a winning spirit and this could be necessary and essential to defining where you and her headed together.

There really is no reason for you to let go of a woman who waited for you to be ready. Don’t get lost or confused about it, being with such a lady is the best decision you can ever make, because they are diamond in a desert. And holding on to them may be the only thing you can have.

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Casey Imafidon

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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