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These 8 Illustrations Will Show You What Everyday Love Is

These 8 Illustrations Will Show You What Everyday Love Is

True love can’t be put into words. When you find yourself deeply in love with someone, nothing you could possibly say would ever make them fully aware just how crazy you are for them. Nidhi Chanani knows this, and so she created a series of illustrations showing the love between two characters who are absolutely over the moon for each other. Through these beautiful drawings, Chanani accurately presents a picture-perfect life shared between two soulmates.

1. Love is doing things alone, together

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    When you love someone, you can be doing two totally different things, but never be truly alone. Although these two lovebirds are reading two separate books, they are still enjoying each other’s company to the fullest extent. Even when deeply engrossed in a fictional world, the two are still there to remind each other of how much they care for one another.

    2. Love is expressing yourself

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      Even though you can’t hear it, you just know he’s playing her favorite song right now. He might be too nervous to ever play in front of a crowd, but for his one and only, he’ll belt out each line to any song she wants to hear, regardless of how bad he thinks he sounds. And it doesn’t even matter if he sounds terrible; the look in her eyes makes it clear how content she is in this single moment.

      3. Love is enjoying nature together

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        I’m willing to bet this guy would never go on a picnic with anyone other than his love. When you’re with your soulmate, you can do absolutely anything and have the time of your life. All it takes is a blanket, some watermelon, and a nice breeze, and this couple has everything they need to create a memory that will last a lifetime.

        4. Love is teaching each other new things

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          My wife and I love to learn from each other. I teach her meaningless information about sports (like how to calculate  slugging percentage), and she teaches me about God, how to cook new recipes, and why I should take my contacts out every night. Even seven years into our relationship, there’s still so much we have to learn about each other. It keeps everything fresh, knowing that there’s always more to teach, and always more to learn.

          5. Love is acting young together

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            No matter how old you get, being in love keeps the kid in you alive. When you’re with the one you love, you can be silly, make a fool out of yourself, and act like your five years old again without worrying about who’s watching you or laughing at you.

            6. Love is sharing interests

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              You definitely have different tastes in hobbies, music, television, and more, but you begin to appreciate certain things more simply because you know your soulmate likes them. You start listening to the music your love enjoys, or watching the TV shows you know they’re obsessed with, even when they’re not around. When you’re in love, both of your interests rub off on each other, and become a part of who you are.

              7. Love is being comfortable when you’re uncomfortable

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                If you got caught in the rain alone, chances are you’d be pretty upset about it. But just look at these two: they’re having the time of their life! They could choose to be miserable, but they’ve made the most of a dreary situation, and, again, are creating a memory that will last forever. Whether either literal or metaphorical rain clouds appear overhead, having someone by your side makes it easier to deal with them.

                8. Love is growing old together

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                  Through all the good and bad times they’ve faced, this couple is clearly as in love now as they were twenty or thirty years ago. They’ve kept their love alive by never being afraid to show it, and clearly appreciate every single moment they have together. When you fall in love, you cherish every second of every day, knowing that life is so much better with your true love by your side.

                  Featured photo credit: Everyday Love / Nidhi Chanani via adaymag.com

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                  12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

                  12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

                  Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

                  While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

                  What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

                  Here are 12 things to remember:

                  1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

                  The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

                  However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

                  We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

                  Learn how to embrace your me time: What Your Fear of Being Alone Is Really About and How to Get over It

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                  2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

                  You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

                  Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

                  Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

                  3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

                  Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

                  Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

                  4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

                  Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

                  No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

                  5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

                  Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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                  Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

                  6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

                  Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

                  Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

                  Take a look at this article and learn to accept your imperfect self: Accept Yourself (Flaws and All): 7 Benefits of Being Vulnerable

                  7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

                  Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

                  Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

                  And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

                  8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

                  When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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                  Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

                  9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

                  Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

                  Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

                  Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

                  10. Journal During This Time

                  Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

                  This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

                  11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

                  It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

                  The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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                  Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

                  12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

                  The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

                  Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

                  When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

                  Afraid to ask for help? Here’s how to change your outlook to aim high!

                  Final Thoughts

                  Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

                  Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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