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This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

Being an extroverted introvert is becoming an increasing phenomenon. They are fun, pumped up and could be interesting people to be with. Celebrities like Julia Roberts, David Letterman and Clint Eastwood are all extroverted introverts.

There is nothing wrong with any of these individuals; they just would want to give a new face to their introverted persona by doing well to adjust on certain occasions to the needs of their environment. Rather than switch off like introverts, they still would show some signs of the extroverts. If you are dating an extroverted introvert you should know that you are getting a mixed blend of two identities. And these can be great.

1. They are not extreme

You shouldn’t expect extreme partying or hanging out from them. They could chill out during day time on a Saturday drinking with friends. But they will still return home on time to be with their loved one. They prefer to have their activities in limited doses rather than go for extreme fun.

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2. They could warm up to your family

Extroverted introverts are able to adapt to new surroundings real quick. Even if they may get mentally drained within a short period of time, they still would do well to make the other person like them. Certainly your family won’t find them less a person they can communicate to.

3. They are unconventional

They do not follow societal constructs. They wouldn’t be doing the same thing every other person is doing. They are unique and are not suited for the traditional system. They bring something multidimensional to the relationship rather than the regular thing.

4. They are in between wild and soft

They are not pretentious about how they feel. They would keep their cool and be less frantic, but if they want sex or want something romantic from you, know that they mean it, know that they really want to get in with you. And this makes them desirable.

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5. They can be mistaken as extroverts during their first date

You may have got caught with them and be thrilled with their extroverted persona on the first date. But they could deviate to who they truly are as time goes on. This makes them eccentric and pushes you to accept them for who they are. What they would demand from you as acceptance and tolerance during a relationship with them.

6. They would offer you the freedom to do your thing

Extroverted introverts won’t stifle you. They won’t be over-demanding or overprotective. They are already consumed and absorbed in their world to pose so many distractions for you.

7. They are creative with their ideas for a romantic night

Even though they don’t socialize often, when they do they try to make a specialty out of every time out with you. They are always ready to dial down the lights and action like offer you an experience at a dark movie theater or a quiet restaurant.

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8. They focus on you

They are not pretty everywhere in their thoughts or desires. They tend to focus. They tend to be with someone and direct their energy at this person. They won’t dilly-dally. Rather they will be attentive to what you can add to them.

9. They are attentive

They work with their environment. And getting the best out of an extroverted introvert depends on how you have been able to make them feel essential and switch them to a comfy environment. They are attentive and would pay attention to what you need because they really can’t handle so much at a time. They are energy level actually is influenced by their environment.

10. They are cool with being who they are

Their lives are not betrayed with insecurities. They just prefer to be what they are and that you love them for it. As time goes on they become pretty predictable and you can get what you expect from them.

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Last Updated on October 6, 2020

15 Things Highly Confident People Don’t Do

15 Things Highly Confident People Don’t Do

Highly confident people believe in their ability to achieve. If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else put their faith in you? To walk with swagger and improve your self-confidence, watch out for these fifteen things highly confident people don’t do.

And if you want to know the difference between an arrogant person and a confident person, watch this video first:

 

1. They don’t make excuses.

Highly confident people take ownership of their thoughts and actions. They don’t blame the traffic for being tardy at work; they were late. They don’t excuse their short-comings with excuses like “I don’t have the time” or “I’m just not good enough”; they make the time and they keep on improving until they are good enough.

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2. They don’t avoid doing the scary thing.

Highly confident people don’t let fear dominate their lives. They know that the things they are afraid of doing are often the very same things that they need to do in order to evolve into the person they are meant to be.

3. They don’t live in a bubble of comfort.

Highly confident people avoid the comfort zone, because they know this is a place where dreams die. They actively pursue a feeling of discomfort, because they know stretching themselves is mandatory for their success.

4. They don’t put things off until next week.

Highly confident people know that a good plan executed today is better than a great plan executed someday. They don’t wait for the “right time” or the “right circumstances”, because they know these reactions are based on a fear of change. They take action here, now, today – because that’s where progress happens.

5. They don’t obsess over the opinions of others.

Highly confident people don’t get caught up in negative feedback. While they do care about the well-being of others and aim to make a positive impact in the world, they don’t get caught up in negative opinions that they can’t do anything about. They know that their true friends will accept them as they are, and they don’t concern themselves with the rest.

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6. They don’t judge people.

Highly confident people have no tolerance for unnecessary, self-inflicted drama. They don’t feel the need to insult friends behind their backs, participate in gossip about fellow co-workers or lash out at folks with different opinions. They are so comfortable in who they are that they feel no need to look down on other people.

7. They don’t let lack of resources stop them.

Highly confident people can make use of whatever resources they have, no matter how big or small. They know that all things are possible with creativity and a refusal to quit. They don’t agonize over setbacks, but rather focus on finding a solution.

8. They don’t make comparisons.

Highly confident people know that they are not competing with any other person. They compete with no other individual except the person they were yesterday. They know that every person is living a story so unique that drawing comparisons would be an absurd and simplistic exercise in futility.

9. They don’t find joy in people-pleasing.

Highly confident people have no interest in pleasing every person they meet. They are aware that not all people get along, and that’s just how life works. They focus on the quality of their relationships, instead of the quantity of them.

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10. They don’t need constant reassurance.

Highly confident people aren’t in need of hand-holding. They know that life isn’t fair and things won’t always go their way. While they can’t control every event in their life, they focus on their power to react in a positive way that moves them forward.

11. They don’t avoid life’s inconvenient truths.

Highly confident people confront life’s issues at the root before the disease can spread any farther. They know that problems left unaddressed have a way of multiplying as the days, weeks and months go by. They would rather have an uncomfortable conversation with their partner today than sweep an inconvenient truth under the rug, putting trust at risk.

12. They don’t quit because of minor set-backs.

Highly confident people get back up every time they fall down. They know that failure is an unavoidable part of the growth process. They are like a detective, searching for clues that reveal why this approach didn’t work. After modifying their plan, they try again (but better this time).

13. They don’t require anyone’s permission to act.

Highly confident people take action without hesitation. Every day, they remind themselves, “If not me, who?”

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14. They don’t limit themselves to a small toolbox.

Highly confident people don’t limit themselves to Plan A. They make use of any and all weapons that are at their disposal, relentlessly testing the effectiveness of every approach, until they identify the strategies that offer the most results for the least cost in time and effort.

15. They don’t blindly accept what they read on the Internet as “truth” without thinking about it.

Highly confident people don’t accept articles on the Internet as truth just because some author “said so”. They look at every how-to article from the lens of their unique perspective. They maintain a healthy skepticism, making use of any material that is relevant to their lives, and forgetting about the rest. While articles like this are a fun and interesting thought-exercise, highly confident people know that they are the only person with the power to decide what “confidence” means.

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