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This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

Being an extroverted introvert is becoming an increasing phenomenon. They are fun, pumped up and could be interesting people to be with. Celebrities like Julia Roberts, David Letterman and Clint Eastwood are all extroverted introverts.

There is nothing wrong with any of these individuals; they just would want to give a new face to their introverted persona by doing well to adjust on certain occasions to the needs of their environment. Rather than switch off like introverts, they still would show some signs of the extroverts. If you are dating an extroverted introvert you should know that you are getting a mixed blend of two identities. And these can be great.

1. They are not extreme

You shouldn’t expect extreme partying or hanging out from them. They could chill out during day time on a Saturday drinking with friends. But they will still return home on time to be with their loved one. They prefer to have their activities in limited doses rather than go for extreme fun.

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2. They could warm up to your family

Extroverted introverts are able to adapt to new surroundings real quick. Even if they may get mentally drained within a short period of time, they still would do well to make the other person like them. Certainly your family won’t find them less a person they can communicate to.

3. They are unconventional

They do not follow societal constructs. They wouldn’t be doing the same thing every other person is doing. They are unique and are not suited for the traditional system. They bring something multidimensional to the relationship rather than the regular thing.

4. They are in between wild and soft

They are not pretentious about how they feel. They would keep their cool and be less frantic, but if they want sex or want something romantic from you, know that they mean it, know that they really want to get in with you. And this makes them desirable.

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5. They can be mistaken as extroverts during their first date

You may have got caught with them and be thrilled with their extroverted persona on the first date. But they could deviate to who they truly are as time goes on. This makes them eccentric and pushes you to accept them for who they are. What they would demand from you as acceptance and tolerance during a relationship with them.

6. They would offer you the freedom to do your thing

Extroverted introverts won’t stifle you. They won’t be over-demanding or overprotective. They are already consumed and absorbed in their world to pose so many distractions for you.

7. They are creative with their ideas for a romantic night

Even though they don’t socialize often, when they do they try to make a specialty out of every time out with you. They are always ready to dial down the lights and action like offer you an experience at a dark movie theater or a quiet restaurant.

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8. They focus on you

They are not pretty everywhere in their thoughts or desires. They tend to focus. They tend to be with someone and direct their energy at this person. They won’t dilly-dally. Rather they will be attentive to what you can add to them.

9. They are attentive

They work with their environment. And getting the best out of an extroverted introvert depends on how you have been able to make them feel essential and switch them to a comfy environment. They are attentive and would pay attention to what you need because they really can’t handle so much at a time. They are energy level actually is influenced by their environment.

10. They are cool with being who they are

Their lives are not betrayed with insecurities. They just prefer to be what they are and that you love them for it. As time goes on they become pretty predictable and you can get what you expect from them.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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