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This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

This Is Why Extroverted Introverts Make Great Partners

Being an extroverted introvert is becoming an increasing phenomenon. They are fun, pumped up and could be interesting people to be with. Celebrities like Julia Roberts, David Letterman and Clint Eastwood are all extroverted introverts.

There is nothing wrong with any of these individuals; they just would want to give a new face to their introverted persona by doing well to adjust on certain occasions to the needs of their environment. Rather than switch off like introverts, they still would show some signs of the extroverts. If you are dating an extroverted introvert you should know that you are getting a mixed blend of two identities. And these can be great.

1. They are not extreme

You shouldn’t expect extreme partying or hanging out from them. They could chill out during day time on a Saturday drinking with friends. But they will still return home on time to be with their loved one. They prefer to have their activities in limited doses rather than go for extreme fun.

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2. They could warm up to your family

Extroverted introverts are able to adapt to new surroundings real quick. Even if they may get mentally drained within a short period of time, they still would do well to make the other person like them. Certainly your family won’t find them less a person they can communicate to.

3. They are unconventional

They do not follow societal constructs. They wouldn’t be doing the same thing every other person is doing. They are unique and are not suited for the traditional system. They bring something multidimensional to the relationship rather than the regular thing.

4. They are in between wild and soft

They are not pretentious about how they feel. They would keep their cool and be less frantic, but if they want sex or want something romantic from you, know that they mean it, know that they really want to get in with you. And this makes them desirable.

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5. They can be mistaken as extroverts during their first date

You may have got caught with them and be thrilled with their extroverted persona on the first date. But they could deviate to who they truly are as time goes on. This makes them eccentric and pushes you to accept them for who they are. What they would demand from you as acceptance and tolerance during a relationship with them.

6. They would offer you the freedom to do your thing

Extroverted introverts won’t stifle you. They won’t be over-demanding or overprotective. They are already consumed and absorbed in their world to pose so many distractions for you.

7. They are creative with their ideas for a romantic night

Even though they don’t socialize often, when they do they try to make a specialty out of every time out with you. They are always ready to dial down the lights and action like offer you an experience at a dark movie theater or a quiet restaurant.

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8. They focus on you

They are not pretty everywhere in their thoughts or desires. They tend to focus. They tend to be with someone and direct their energy at this person. They won’t dilly-dally. Rather they will be attentive to what you can add to them.

9. They are attentive

They work with their environment. And getting the best out of an extroverted introvert depends on how you have been able to make them feel essential and switch them to a comfy environment. They are attentive and would pay attention to what you need because they really can’t handle so much at a time. They are energy level actually is influenced by their environment.

10. They are cool with being who they are

Their lives are not betrayed with insecurities. They just prefer to be what they are and that you love them for it. As time goes on they become pretty predictable and you can get what you expect from them.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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