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8 Common Writing Mistakes Stephen King Tells Us Not To Make Anymore

8 Common Writing Mistakes Stephen King Tells Us Not To Make Anymore

For a writer who has sold millions of copies including hit titles like Cujo and The Green Mile, it is hard to get it wrong with Stephen King. Stephen King has written more than 50 books and has fans around the world who adores his works. In his memoir he talks about his travails on writing and how he has come to succeed as one.

Yet, his book offers interesting insights for writers to develop their craft and become better writers. Here are eight pieces of advice from Stephen King on what common mistake you should not make with your writing.

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Trying to please everyone but yourself

Truth is that not everyone will love what you write. There are different segments of the society and they all have their opinions on the approach you take to your writing. Yet according to Stephen King, rather than trying to please people or worrying about their opinions, do well to be as truthful as you can to yourself. It is apparently a waste of time trying to please anyone with your writing.

Being overly challenged by what you write

Many writers try to run away from seemingly difficult subjects to write. What they forget to understand is that such issues need digging deep rather than shying away from them. Actually, the most relevant things are the most difficult things to say, so excite yourself in the journey of breaking into the elements of the story as much as you can.

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Connecting with the world while you write

You can’t get the words out right if you are deeply connected to the world while you write. The world with its many items poses a lot of distractions. So try and shut yourself away from it and focus on your writing. Going private with your writing is better than going public with it.

Using long paragraphs and adverbs

When you use your paragraph, let it add flow to your story rather than make it disjointed. Try to also be meticulous with the way you use adverbs. They could be destructive to your phrases or sentences rather than add beauty to them. An adverb after common words like ‘said,’ ‘ran’ and ‘heard’ may not contribute to the beauty of your writing but take from it.

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Using too much description

Your description should not overshadow your story. Let your reader be able to deduce some of these themselves. Descriptions or background information should persuade the reader to want to continue reading rather than to divert them from the purpose of the story. Simplicity and clarity in your description will channel your message to your reader in a direct fashion.

Trying to play it safe

There is no use in trying to play it safe. Let your voice come out actively in a story. This makes the reader understand that you are aware and that you are in charge. There really is no point in sitting in a comfort zone. Do well to face and approach the adventures of writing accordingly.

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Writing only when you are in the mood

There is no mood to writing. You can either love doing it all the time or settle for being average. According to King, the best way to get better as a writer is to “write consistently.” You are not going to be a rock star writer all at once but through little steps you will become a better writer.

Trying to be someone else

Every writer is unique. Some people adore other writers so much that they want to be just like them. You should understand that you are your own voice. Any other thing that comes out of you rather than your own voice will simply be a ‘pale imitation.’

As a writer myself, I totally see that there are underlying relevance to the points made by Stephen King. Do you agree?

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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