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8 Reasons Why You Should Date A Person Who Loves Movies

8 Reasons Why You Should Date A Person Who Loves Movies

Every interest comes with its perks. For movie lovers, their interest is in movies and the stories that are immaculately pictured through a digital lens. They love movies and can be so passionate about every film that has left an indelible mark on their memory. When you date them you have to focus on the pleasant. And yes there are many pleasant reasons for you to date a movie lover.

1. They will make every night out at the cinema count

Who doesn’t like someone who can take them to the cinema and make them feel cozy while the lights go dark? Movie lovers take you out and are informed enough about the type of movie that they will make you feel all warm and fuzzy, getting you in the perfect mood.

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2. They want to become movie stars

They have become so engrossed in the actors and actresses or writers and directors that they seriously consider a career in the profession. Certainly the movie lover you date today could become a movie star tomorrow. Isn’t that cool?

3. They know how to insert charming dialogue into a conversation

Won’t you feel enthralled when someone tells you this quote, “You are more beautiful than Cinderella! You smell like pine needles, and have a face like sunshine!” (Bridesmaids, 2011) or this, “What we do in life echoes in eternity.” (Gladiator, 2000). You can learn so much from a movie lover because they have become so absorbed in the movies that they watch that certain lines become a part of their statements.

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4. They spin strong narratives

They don’t get you bored with what they say. They could always talk about a movie they have seen and make you want to watch it with them. They are so good at narratives that you may just want to skip the movie and listen to them tell you all about it.

5. They are great at remembering dates

Movie lovers are so enthused with release dates and dates that make a mark on the film that they suddenly become great with remembering other dates. Ask them when was the Writers’ Strike? And they will take you back to what won the Best Picture in 2007/2008. Or when did the Titanic sink and they will roll back to 1912. So don’t expect them to forget your birthday or any major anniversary because they will look forward to it the same way they look forward to the release of a movie.

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6. They will debate with you

They are great debaters. They have an opinion of how their movies should have ended and what makes a great actor or a great picture. They will make a great and informed debater when they engage in a debate with you about a movie. The way they put so much energy and knowledge in their discussions about movies can be so sexy.

7. They won’t compare you to a character in a movie

This can be controversial, but they know that there is no way who they are dating can be a Kate Dawson or a Lloyd Dober. Their sweetest expectations, memories, and moments are saved for the movies. But it is easy for them to separate reality from fiction. They want you to be you, rather than try to be a character in their favorite movie. They understand that scenes from a romantic movie can be painted with over-enthusiastic romantic epiphanies.

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8. They will give you the credit you deserve

Movie lovers understand the importance of giving credit to who deserves it. They know that a movie by Steven Spielberg is unique and can be done by only him. What is portrayed by a Tom Cruise is different from what is portrayed by a Leonardo Dicaprio. Most importantly, if you are in a relationship with a movie lover, they will give you every credit you deserve.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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