People Judge Your Personality Based On These 7 Small Things

People Judge Your Personality Based On These 7 Small Things

From the moment you meet someone for the first time, you quickly want to assess who the person is and what they represent. This is why you may be on the lookout for certain stable qualities like honesty, kindness and intelligence.

Paying attention to these things may even help you evaluate if you will want to pursue an intimate relationship with this person or not.

Such judgment of character could be helpful on major decisions such as pursuing a romantic relationship, employing an individual or accepting a job offer. Based on these things, this is how people judge your personality and determine who you are and who you might not be.

1. Your handwriting


    According to a study, the way someone writes and the size of their handwriting can tell you certain things about the person. According to the research which was conducted by the National Pen Company, it is revealed that persons with small handwriting tend to be shy, meticulous and studious while people who were more outgoing tried gaining attention with larger handwriting.


    Those who take things seriously put more pressure on the pen when they write, while light-handed writers typically tend to be empathetic and are more sensitive.

    2. Your color


      According to an article on Psychology Today, the color you frequently turn to for clothes or are more akin to says a lot about who you are. People who frequently choose black are sensitive, artistic and attentive to details, while those who love red live life to the fullest and proactive in their endeavors.

      People who love green are loyal and affectionate, while those who love white are organized and logical, and those who have blue as their favorite color are stable, sensitive and are considerate of others.

      3. Biting your nails



        Certain body-focused repetitive behaviors can say a lot about your personality. How your body reacts to situations, whether by pulling your hair, biting your nails or picking at your skin could elicit impatience, frustration, boredom and dissatisfaction.

        Take nail biting for example. According to a research, it is suggested that those who bite their nails tend to be perfectionists, while also tense and often nervous.

        4. Your shoes


          According to psychologists, you can correctly judge a person just by looking at their shoes. According to the lead researcher Omri Gillath from the University of Kansas, just by examining the cost, style, color and condition of the shoe, you can be able to guess about 90% of the owner’s personal characteristic such as his or her income, political affiliation, gender, and even age.

          5. Your eyes



            Your eyes are the mirror to your soul. Your eyes can tell a lot about you, what you are thinking and feeling and if you are either deceitful or loyal. According to studies, people with blue eyes are less agreeable and more likely to be alcoholics than people with darker eyes.

            Another way the eye gives you away is that a lack of steady eye contact would reveal a lack of self-control and a weak will.

            6. Your punctuality


              How early or late you show up for an appointment or a meeting could form an impression, either negative or positive, about your personality. Being late for an important date means you are creating a negative impression about who you are, while being early for an appointment means you are considerate about other people’s time, and are both mentally organized and self-motivated.

              7. Your handshake



                It has been discovered that people with a strong handshake exude confidence and reflect a strong and confident character. Such people are also more likely to be extroverted, being expressive of their emotions, and less likely to be placid.

                People with weak handshakes, on the other hand, lack confidence and always tend to want the easy way out of a challenge. Offering a handshake alone could be the different between appearing standoffish or sincerely friendly.

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                60 Things To Be Thankful For In Life

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                Sometimes it’s easier to focus on what we don’t have, rather than what we do have. It’s important to take time out and remember all of the things to be thankful for that many of us take for granted.

                  Here you’ll find 60 very solid things to be thankful for in your everyday life. These are great reminders for you to treasure everything you have.

                  1. Good Health

                  Even if you’re health isn’t great, it could be worse and you likely still have some working parts to be thankful for.

                  2. Money in the Bank

                  Having just a few coins makes you richer than most people on Earth.

                  3. Good Friends

                  Often, it’s the quality of friendships, not the quantity.

                  4. Freedom of Religion

                  Being able to worship whomever and however you want is something many people don’t ever experience.

                  5. Your Parents

                  Even if they’re dysfunctional, they gave you life.

                  6. Weekends

                  There’s something magical about weekends.

                  7.Having a Partner

                  Being in a romantic relationship can teach you so much about the world and yourself.

                  8. Pets

                  Pets offer one of the best examples of unconditional love.

                  9. Learning from Mistakes

                  If we never made mistakes, we wouldn’t learn much so it is one of those things we should be thankful for.

                  10. Opportunity to Get an Education

                  The opportunity to attend school is something many people don’t have.


                  11. Having a Home

                  Whether you live in an apartment, a mansion, or a tent, having a place to call home is something to be thankful for.

                  12. An Ability to Read

                  If you’re reading this right now, you have a lot to be thankful for.

                  13. Breathing Fresh Air

                  Being able to step outside to breathe in fresh air is a good reminder how many little things we should be thankful for.

                  14. A Bed to Sleep

                  A bed is one of those things that’s easy to take for granted, until you don’t have one.

                  15. Laughter

                  Without laughter, the world would be a sad place.

                  16. Safety and Security

                  Being able to wake up without immense fear frees us up to really live life.

                  17. Cars

                  Without cars, it would take a lot longer to get our activities done.

                  18. Sunshine

                  The sun’s warmth can brighten any day.

                  19. Time

                  Although we often don’t think there’s enough of it, time is something we shouldn’t take for granted.

                  20. Clean Water

                  Many people on earth lack access to clean water.

                  21. Cell Phones

                  Cell phones make talking to loved ones easy.

                  22. Love

                  The world sure would be a different place if we lacked the ability to love.

                  23. Books

                  Books provide an opportunity to enter another world all from the comfort of your own home.


                  24. Kindness of Strangers

                  Never take the kindness of a stranger for granted.

                  25. Campfires

                  The simplicity of a campfire creates lifelong memories.

                  26. Pain

                  Without pain, it would be difficulty to appreciate life’s joys.

                  27. Art

                  The world would be less beautiful if art didn’t exist.

                  28. Holidays

                  Any reason to celebrate is something we should be thankful for.

                  29. Freedom of Speech

                  Being able to express your thoughts and feelings freely should never be taken for granted.

                  30. Rainbows

                  The beauty of a rainbow is unmatched.

                  31. Tears

                  Sometimes when there are no words to say, tears express how we feel for us.

                  32. Waking up Today

                  Simply waking up today means you have things to be thankful for.

                  33. Indoor Plumbing

                  Indoor plumbing not only provides convenience, it spares us from disease.

                  34. Wisdom that Comes with Age

                  Thankfully, we grow smarter over time.

                  35. Mountains

                  Mountains provide us with beauty and recreation.

                  36. Eyesight

                  Being able to see allows us to view the world’s beauty.


                  37. Grocery Stores

                  Grocery stores mean we don’t have to spend all of our time getting our own food.

                  38. Sunsets

                  Sunsets are a reminder that we should enjoy the simple things in life.

                  39. Entertainment

                  Entertainment gives us a way to relax and enjoy life.

                  40. Your Mind

                  Being able to think, remember, and solve problems sure makes life easier.

                  41. Employment

                  Even if you don’t like your job, being employed means someone thought you were special enough to hire.

                  42. Diversity

                  The world would be a boring place without diversity.

                  43. Moon and Stars

                  The moon and stars encourage us to dream.

                  44. Electricity

                  Electricity makes most of our chores efficient.

                  45. Air Conditioning

                  Staying cool on a hot day is something people wouldn’t have dreamed about in past centuries.

                  46. Hearing

                  Being able to hear your loved one’s voice is something that not everyone gets to do.

                  47. Children

                  Watching children laugh, grow, and dream can keep things in perspective.

                  48. Ability to Learn

                  The ability to learn new things means we have endless potential.

                  49. People Willing to Teach

                  Whether it’s your grandmother teaching you to knit or your plumber showing you how to prevent future problems, be grateful that others are willing to use their time and talents to teach you something new.


                  50. Oceans

                  The sea creatures in the ocean almost seem too mystical to be real.

                  51. Modern Medicine

                  Without advances in modern medicine, many of us wouldn’t be alive.

                  52. Music

                  Music brings out new emotions.

                  53. Entrepreneurs

                  Some of life’s best inventions resulted from an entrepreneur who was willing to take a risk.

                  54. Warm Clothing

                  On a cold day, there’s nothing more important than warm clothing.

                  55. Freedom to Vote

                  Being able to have a say in the laws should never be taken for granted.

                  56. An Internet Connection

                  It’s hard to believe how easy it is to take the internet for granted, seeing how none of us had just a couple of decades ago.

                  57. Challenges

                  Without challenges in life, we wouldn’t be the people we are now.

                  58. Hiking Trails

                  Hiking trails give us the chance to enjoy mother’s nature beauty.

                  59. Vaccines

                  Many of us wouldn’t be alive without today’s vaccinations.

                  60. Armed Forces

                  Our lives would likely be very different if we didn’t have protection from the armed forces.

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