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14 Reasons Why Couples Who Play Music Together, Stay Together

14 Reasons Why Couples Who Play Music Together, Stay Together

There is something about couples who play music together. You wonder how they can stay together and remain so compatible and interesting even in a world where there is so much divide, envy, and demands. The truth is that music being played together has a way of enlivening the relationship. When you play music together, you have a real chance of staying together.

1. Music makes magic and fun when you are together

Music makes you alive when you are together. You can experience the fun side of the world and laugh over the insanely distracting nuances that could spoil all that fun.

2. Music is an identity that stays with you forever

People change, that’s what many believe. And circumstances could trigger that change. But love for the music is always there for couples who play music together. They find out that there is something that bonds them together through youth and into old age.

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3. They are honest about who they are

A guitarist is always a guitarist. A pianist is always a pianist. You get what you are in it for. As a musician, you might start to recognize certain personality types were associated with specific instruments. This keeps your relationship calm and strong.

4. They can maintain a sense of humor

There is never perfection with making music together. It is always a learning process and one of growth and discovery. You tend to laugh over your mistakes together and grow through those challenges that come.

5. They are solid

There is solidity with playing music together. You have someone who holds your back and you can rely on with the music and with life. You sort of complement each other with every sound you make and this is thrilling.

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6. They respect each other

You can respect the other person’s skill and proficiency, and the other person respects yours. In the relationship you both have something you are bringing to the table. You are not independent; rather you can depend on the other person at certain times.

7. They travel together

They don’t wait for the other person rather they experience incredible moments with the other person. They can travel to play their music in new locations and have new experiences. It’s common to see musicians have the travel bug — why not share it with someone you love.

8. They set goals together

Reaching new grounds in music is easier when you have someone at your side who understands the concept and is ready to support you all the way and make those hours of practice count. Your partner can encourage you musically and in other aspects of like that requires goal-setting.

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9. They understand each other

They do know what the sweat and pain of practicing on the chords of a guitar or a piano means. They do not have to spend hours explaining to their significant other what this means.

10. They can relax together

It is not just about them. They could listen to other people’s music and enjoy such moments together. They talk about other people’s strengths and flaws. These conversation points are exciting because they relate back to what you both love.

11. They are not jealous of each other

They know that there is no point in trying to envy the other. Musicians simply have to help each other overcome their hurdles and bring them out of their holes. They do not just help with the music, something they can connect with very well, they also provide emotional support.

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12. They could heal with their music

There are difficult times in the relationship, but somehow they can heal through this period because they have a connecting force in the music they play together. They can heal together through their music.

13. They can value each others opinion

They are the best critic of their works. Others may criticize them for what they do. However, because of the honesty and respect between them, they can value each others opinion on the music they play.

14. They can tolerate each other

Even when they try to be perfectionists or make their music sound perfect, there will be mistakes. They can tolerate each other however because they see the other person for his or her strengths rather than their weaknesses.

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Last Updated on May 17, 2019

This Is What Happens When You Move Out Of the Comfort Zone

This Is What Happens When You Move Out Of the Comfort Zone

The pursuit of worthwhile goals is a part of what makes life enjoyable. Being able to set a goal, then see yourself progress towards achieving that goal is an amazing feeling.

But do you know the biggest obstacle for most people trying to achieve their goals, the silent dream killer that stops people before they ever even get started? That obstacle is the comfort zone, and getting stuck there is bound to derail any efforts you make towards achieving the goals you’ve set for yourself.

If you want to achieve those goals, you’ll have to break free from your comfort zone. Let’s take a look at how your life will change once you build up the courage to leave your comfort zone.

What Is the Comfort Zone?

The comfort zone is defined as “a behavioural state within which a person operates in an anxiety-neutral condition, using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.”

What stands out to me the most about that definition is the last part: “using a limited set of behaviours to deliver a steady level of performance.” How many successful people do you know who deliver a steady level of performance?

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The goal in life is to continually challenge yourself, and continually improve yourself. And in order to do that, you have move out of your comfort zone. But once you do, your life will start to change in ways you could never have imagined. I know because it’s happening right now in my own life.

Here’s what I’ve learned.

1. You will be scared

Leaving your comfort zone isn’t easy. In fact, in can be downright terrifying at times, and that’s okay. It’s perfectly normal to feel a little trepidation when you’re embarking on a journey that forces you to try new things.

So don’t freak out or get overwhelmed when you feel yourself getting a little scared. It’s perfectly normal and all part of the process. What’s important is that you don’t let that fear hold you back. You must continue to take action in the face of fear.

That’s what separates winners from losers.

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2. You will fail

Stepping out of your comfort zone means you’re moving into uncharted territory. You’re trying things that you’ve never tried before, and learning things you’ve never learned before.

That steep learning curve means you’re not going to get everything right the first time, and you will eventually fail when you move out of your comfort zone. But as long as the failures aren’t catastrophic, it can actually be a good thing to fail because …

3. You will learn

Failure is the best teacher. I’ve learned more from each one of my failures than I have from each one of my successes. When you fail small, and fail often, you rapidly increase the rate at which you learn new insights and skills. And that new knowledge, if applied correctly, will eventually lead to your success.

4. You will see yourself in a different way

Once you move out of your comfort zone, you immediately prove to yourself that you’re capable of achieving more than you thought was possible. And that will change the way you see yourself.

Moving forward, you’ll have more confidence in yourself whenever you step out of your comfort zone, and that increased confidence will make it more likely that you continue to step outside your comfort zone. And each time you do, you’ll prove to yourself again and again what you’re really capable of.

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5. Your peers will see you in a different way

Whether we want to admit or not, people judge other people. And right now, people view you in a certain way, and they have a certain idea of what you’re capable of. That’s because they’ve become accustomed to seeing you operate in your comfort zone.

But once you move out of your comfort zone, you’ll prove to other people, as well, that you’re capable of much more than you’ve shown in the past.

The increased confidence other people place in you will bring about more opportunities than ever before.

6. Your comfort zone will expand

The good thing about the comfort zone is that it’s flexible and malleable. With each action you take outside of your comfort zone, it expands. And once you master that new skill or action, it eventually becomes part of your comfort zone.

This is great news for you because it means that you can constantly increase and improve upon the behaviors that you’re comfortable with. And the more tools and skills you have at your disposal, the easier it will be to achieve your goals.

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7. You will increase your concentration and focus

When you’re living inside of your comfort zone, the bulk of your actions are habitual: automatic, subconscious, and requiring limited focus.

But once you move out of your comfort zone, you no longer rely on those habitual responses. You’re forced to concentrate and focus on the new action in a way you never do in your comfort zone.

8. You will develop new skills

Moving out of your comfort zone requires that you develop new skills. One of the many benefits you’ll experience is that you’ll be stepping away from the “limited set of behaviors” and start to develop your ability and expertise in new areas.

Living inside of your comfort zone only requires a limited skill set, and those skills won’t contribute much to your success. Once you can confidently step outside of your comfort zone and learn a new skill, there’s no limit to how much you can achieve.

9. You will achieve more than before

With everything that happens once you move out of your comfort zone, you’re naturally going to achieve more than ever before.

Your increased concentration and focus will help you develop new skills. Those new skills will change the way you see yourself, encouraging you to step even further out of your comfort zone.

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