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5 Types Of People You Don’t Want On Your Team

5 Types Of People You Don’t Want On Your Team

When assembling a team of coworkers to get a job done, it’s important to understand each individual’s personality in order to ensure successful teamwork occurs. While this sounds like it should be the easy part of a job, it’s anything but. Certain personalities jibe with each other, and simply do not make good team members. As an employer, you want to make sure that none of your workers fall into these categories:

1. The Yes-Man

Think back to grade school. Remember the kid that would always remind the teacher to give homework if she forgot about it? He grew up to be the Yes-Man. Now he spends his time at work agreeing with everything the boss says, regardless of how he really feels.

He’ll never criticize a bad idea that comes from someone in a position to give promotions, and he’ll follow a bad idea into the grave. Too often, bosses will rely on them in a sort of symbiotic relationship; since the Yes-Man agrees with the boss’ idea, the boss will use this as leverage when someone else has the guts to share their dissenting opinion.

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And, worst of all, the Yes-Man never comes up with his own opinions; he relies on his brown-nosing capabilities to keep his position on the team.

2. The Devil’s Advocate

The opposite of the Yes-Man is the Devil’s Advocate. While the Yes-Man is the one pushing bad ideas forward, the Devil’s Advocate holds good ideas back. They shoot down everyone’s opinion with overly dramatic statements such as “That’ll never work,” or “How do you expect that to happen?”

The Devil’s Advocate seems to serve no other purpose to the team other than to bring morale down. They might think they’re being realistic, but in actuality they’re being overly pessimistic.

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When you’re working as a team, it’s best to start with optimism, and pepper in healthy doses of skepticism along the way. The one thing the Devil’s Advocate and Yes-Man have in common is that neither of them have any ideas of their own.

3. The Know-It-All

On the complete opposite end of the spectrum is the Know-It-All. This is the person on your team who spends too much time spouting his own opinion, because he thinks he’s always right.

Not only is the Know-It-All arrogant and cocky, but he puts other people down in the process. Unfortunately, this forces most other team members to keep their mouths shut, even if they have what they believe to be a good idea.

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The Know-It-All, like all humans, often makes mistakes, but since he sees himself as the personification of perfection, he fails to realize it, and thus never learns from his misgivings.

4. The Inflexible

The Inflexible team member is what happens when the Devil’s Advocate becomes complacent. The Inflexible doesn’t see any way growth can occur, and doesn’t want to put the work in to get where they need to be.

Not only that, but the Inflexible also does not see the potential for growth in his teammates. This is the kind of person who shrugs and says “It is what it is,” without actually looking into why things are the way they are, and coming up with ways to solve the problems the team is facing.

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If everyone on a team acted like the Inflexible, the company would never grow.

5. The Defensive

The Defensive team member has his guard up at all times. They’ll take the most innocuous criticism and turn it into a personal attack, thinking all other team members are out to get them. While he could use the criticism given constructively in order to grow as a professional, the Defensive employee shuts down when criticized, and often will resort to insulting others.

Because of this, the Defensive will often sit back and not say a word, making himself quite useless to the team as a whole.

I should note that it’s quite impossible to avoid these personalities, but great leaders know how to harness the negative aspects of their employees and improve on them in some way. Professional development and team building go a long way, and will ultimately lead to success for each individual, as well as the team.

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Last Updated on November 5, 2018

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

We’ve all got our enemies; people who take pleasure in causing us pain and misery. Sometimes, the development of an enemy is due to certain differences in your characters and events have led to that. Other times, some people end up hating you for apparently no reason at all.

Regardless of how you got this enemy, as opposed to the paradigm of fighting fire with fire, consider the following reasons and see why you should actually appreciate your enemies. This article will show you not only how to not be bothered by your enemies, but how to actually foster love for them.

Read on to learn the secret.

1. It’s a practical lesson in anger management

To be honest, your enemies are the best people to help you understand your sense of anger management. When it might be true that your enemies have a way of bringing out the worst in you as regards anger, it is also true that they can help you in your quest to have that anger managed. You can’t get truly angry at someone you love and it is only in that time when you get truly annoyed that you learn how to manage it.

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Anger management is more effective when it is in practice and not in theory

Your enemies are like the therapists who you need, but actually don’t want. Inasmuch as you might want to hate them, they provide you an opportunity to control the anger impulse that you have.

2. It’s an opportunity for healthy competition

You might not know it, but your enemies make for great rivals as they help harness the competitor in you (sometimes, you might not even know or bee conversant with this competitive side until you come across an adversary). You get the right motivation to compete and this can go a long way to spur you to victory.

However, while doing so, it is also essential that you remember not to become a worse version of yourself while competing. Working against an adversary is tricky, and you need to ensure that you don’t cause harm to yourself or your morals in the process. Healthy competition is all you need to get out of this.

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3. Their negative comments can help you make a breakthrough

It is true that your enemies never really have much good to say about you. However, in as much as they might be talking out of a place of hate, there might be some truth to what they’re saying.

To wit, whenever you hear something mean or nasty from an enemy, you might want to take a step back and evaluate yourself. There is a chance that what this enemy is saying is true and coming to face that fact is a major step in helping you to become a better person overall. This is another testament to the fact that enemies can be therapists in their own way.

4. Enemies can also be powerful allies

Loving your enemies can also mean making an effort to interact and make peace with them. In the end, if you are able to establish some common ground and patch things up, you’ll have succeeded in making another friend. And who doesn’t need friends?

This can also help you in working with people in the long run. You get to hone your inter-personal skills, and that can be a big plus to your ledger.

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5. It gives you the ability to realize positivity

In a multitude of negativity, a speck of positivity always seems to find its way through.

Sometimes, a knowledge of the fact that you have enemies will also help you to focus on the many positives and good things that are in your life. A lot of times, we neglect what really matters in life. This can be due to being overly concerned with the enemies we have.

However, it is also possible for this acknowledgement to spur you to take a step back and appreciate the goo things (and people who surround you).

6. There might just be a misunderstanding

Sometimes, the reason why you have an enemy might be something very innocuous. You might not have known the cause of this fractured relationship and your enemy will help complete the picture.

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Simply approaching them will help you to understand the reason for the fracture. This, in turn, can help you to work towards healing your relationship moving forward. Misunderstandings happen, and you need to be able to work around them.

7. You learn to appreciate love as well

A constant reminder of the fact that there are enemies will also help you not to take those who love you for granted. Love and hate are two opposing emotions and it is possible for one to momentarily overshadow the other.

However, while you’ll always have enemies, there will also always be people who love you. These people need to be appreciated for what they do for you. Never let the hate projected to you from your enemies take the place of that.

8. Do you really need the hate?

The truth is that enemies bring only toxic emotions and generate bad reactions from you. If you’re truly to live a prosperous life, you can’t really be carrying all this baggage around.

Hate is bad and you should try all you can to get rid of it. It is a well-known fact that nobody can get really far in life while carrying a lot of emotional baggage. Well, hate is the biggest form of emotional baggage there is.

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