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10 Signs That You’re In a Truly Unbreakable Friendship

10 Signs That You’re In a Truly Unbreakable Friendship

True friendships are unbreakable. It all depends on your perspective on what friendship means. When friendship is done right, there really are no boundaries or borders. You experience a classic story that will forever remain memorable. You may not know it, but there are small things that point to the fact that you are in an unbreakable friendship.

1. You can’t be with someone who they don’t like

There is this unspoken conduct or standard for your friendship. Both of you cherish being together so much that you only want someone who can positively impact your friendship. You will only be dating someone if your friend approves of him or her. If someone is not good enough for your friend, obviously that person cannot be good enough for you.

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2. You make important decisions only after talking to them first

You can’t make those big moves without talking to your friend first. As such a huge part of your life, they deserve to play a role in the decision-making. Besides, they would do the same. Such moments solidify your commitment of friendship to each other.

3. You don’t want to hear gossip about them

You would go to war with anyone who says something terrible about them. You will have their back immediately by standing up for your friend and confronting the gossiper. And they will do the same for you with anyone who tries to sling your name through the mud.

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4. You are happy for their successes

You can sincerely congratulate them and boast about about their successes. You don’t fake it or succumb to a state of silent envy — you are actually happy for their every success. You are even likely to announce your pride in them on social media.

5. You would never allow them to do something stupid

Before they go all-out and embarrass themselves in front of a crowd, or try to grab their car keys after a few drinks, you will stop them and make sure nothing awful happens. They will do the same for you because that’s just the type of friendship you have.

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6. You can borrow each other’s stuff

There are certain items acquaintances cannot share, but friends who maintain an unbreakable friendship see the other person’s stuff as their own. They can share their cars, rooms, expensive electronics, and do these things for each other without expecting anything in return.

7. You can be possessive of each other

You think your friendship should be a priority and you should spend most of your time together. You can be jealous if they find other friends that they wish to spend time with. Luckily, you always come back to each other.

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8. You treat every fight with them like a break up

You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t find peace until you’ve made up. Every fight with someone you have an unbreakable friendship with means a lot of pain to you. You really need to make a wrong into a right with them.

9. You really are not interested in more friendships

You are so cool with your friend that you are fine without any other friendships. You are super lazy about making new friends. In fact, you are not interested in the idea because it seems you are more interested in the energy you put into maintaining an unbreakable friendship with him or her.

10. You have an unspoken trust towards your friend

You do not need to say it or voice it. There are little boundaries in your friendship. Even when you go a few days without communication, you still have no doubts about your friendship.

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Casey Imafidon

Specialized in motivation and personal growth, providing advice to make readers fulfilled and spurred on to achieve all that they desire in life.

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

When you have an important decision to make, what is the first thing you do?

You want to know if your decision is right or wrong because, of course, you want to make the right choice. Do you go to friends hoping they will tell you? Do you agonize over it writing lists? Or have you ever tried to feel into the wisdom of your body? We all have the ability to read the body’s signs – inwards and out. But not everyone knows how to listen and trust your intuition.

You may have noticed two voices in your head arguing back and forth. They can get loud and confusing because they both seem concerned for your well-being.

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So which one is your inner knowing and which is simply resistant? You can tell through the simple exercise of slowing down, breathing deeply and tuning into your body. You will notice very real signs.

Everyone can tune into their intuition with the simple exercise outlined below. If you want to know how to trust your intuition, read on.

The Golden Rule

A rising, light and expansive feeling in your heart is a yes. A sinking, contracting and heavy feeling in your gut is a maybe or a no, which are both a no. The best way to access these feelings is by slowing down with a deep breath.

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Access Your Inner Guidance

Think of a simple decision you have to make that has two sides to it. Forgetting your background stories, take each at a time and sort of role play as you alternate each option in your mind.

Don’t go into the details of how you’ll get there or how a certain person might feel about it. Drop the stories and worries around it, simply be with one option, as though it is your choice. Remember, you can always pick up your concerns again right afterwards, if you want!

Bring option A into your mind like you are already there. It doesn’t have to be super specific, just imagine it is the direction you take. Start with the breath because it is clearing, it resets your nervous system and brings you to be completely present. Begin with your long, deep breath, exhaling all the way out.

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As you sit there and think of option A, notice what is happening in your body. What sensations are there, and where? Do you feel a buzzing in a limb or a prickling sensation? Maybe butterflies in your stomach? Sit with it, not judging it. Simply take note of what your body is telling you. If it is light and expansive then you have a good option. Now, take another breath to clear out option A.

Next you will probably notice feelings in different parts of your body as you focus on option B. Again, drop the fear and doubt you might have around it. Let yourself imagine (just for now) that this is what you’re choosing. Your breath is so important in this because it slows you down and connects you with your inner guidance. Give yourself that few extra seconds to deepen your breath. It will help you feel incredibly clear.

Become curious about the feelings in your body and how they are different from the last option. What do they mean? The answer is always in the weight of them. If they rise and feel light, you have your yes. The option that feels shrouded, heavier, contracted and sinking deeper in your stomach is the warning. It sounds simplistic, because it is.

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Your body has a profound and simple wisdom. When you let go of old expectations and open up to myriad possibilities, you can easily feel the best avenue to take simply by following what feels best. This is an important key in manifestation because how you feel at the start of any endeavor is generally how it will play out. So the lighter you feel about a situation, the happier it will be.

The Bottom Line

A special thing about intuition is that it never explains, it simply points the way. It may not always seem logical, but if it feels best then it will lead you to your success.

Remember, you need not to explain yourself either. Your internal yes will always be with you. The more you practice this and follow your internal yes, the stronger it will become and the more confidence you will gain! Soon you will notice it to be second nature, and the answer will come to you in a heart beat.

How have you connected to your intuition? We would love to hear how this exercise works for you. Where did you feel the yes or the no in your body? 

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