True friendships are unbreakable. It all depends on your perspective on what friendship means. When friendship is done right, there really are no boundaries or borders. You experience a classic story that will forever remain memorable. You may not know it, but there are small things that point to the fact that you are in an unbreakable friendship.
1. You can’t be with someone who they don’t like
There is this unspoken conduct or standard for your friendship. Both of you cherish being together so much that you only want someone who can positively impact your friendship. You will only be dating someone if your friend approves of him or her. If someone is not good enough for your friend, obviously that person cannot be good enough for you.
2. You make important decisions only after talking to them first
You can’t make those big moves without talking to your friend first. As such a huge part of your life, they deserve to play a role in the decision-making. Besides, they would do the same. Such moments solidify your commitment of friendship to each other.
3. You don’t want to hear gossip about them
You would go to war with anyone who says something terrible about them. You will have their back immediately by standing up for your friend and confronting the gossiper. And they will do the same for you with anyone who tries to sling your name through the mud.
4. You are happy for their successes
You can sincerely congratulate them and boast about about their successes. You don’t fake it or succumb to a state of silent envy — you are actually happy for their every success. You are even likely to announce your pride in them on social media.
5. You would never allow them to do something stupid
Before they go all-out and embarrass themselves in front of a crowd, or try to grab their car keys after a few drinks, you will stop them and make sure nothing awful happens. They will do the same for you because that’s just the type of friendship you have.
6. You can borrow each other’s stuff
There are certain items acquaintances cannot share, but friends who maintain an unbreakable friendship see the other person’s stuff as their own. They can share their cars, rooms, expensive electronics, and do these things for each other without expecting anything in return.
7. You can be possessive of each other
You think your friendship should be a priority and you should spend most of your time together. You can be jealous if they find other friends that they wish to spend time with. Luckily, you always come back to each other.
8. You treat every fight with them like a break up
You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t find peace until you’ve made up. Every fight with someone you have an unbreakable friendship with means a lot of pain to you. You really need to make a wrong into a right with them.
9. You really are not interested in more friendships
You are so cool with your friend that you are fine without any other friendships. You are super lazy about making new friends. In fact, you are not interested in the idea because it seems you are more interested in the energy you put into maintaining an unbreakable friendship with him or her.
10. You have an unspoken trust towards your friend
You do not need to say it or voice it. There are little boundaries in your friendship. Even when you go a few days without communication, you still have no doubts about your friendship.
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