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6 Alternative Romantic Expressions To Tell Your Man

6 Alternative Romantic Expressions To Tell Your Man

“I love you”. This sentence may be only three words, but they are some of the most emotionally-laden words that you could say to your man. While it is important to remind your significant other how much you love him from time to time, it is also important to express your feelings towards him in other phrases that show him you care. Scientifically, it is proven that men crave respect from their partner more and appreciate hearing these other types of romantic expressions and phrases from you occasionally.

1. “Thank you”

This simple expression of gratitude is important for him to hear because it means that you are acknowledging his efforts. Whether it is something as simple as putting away the dishes without you asking or something bigger like him remembering to pick-up your dry cleaning, these are moments that he is showing how much he cares and it is important for you to show him how much it means to you.

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2. “I’m proud of you”

This phrase is important for him because it shows that you are acknowledging his accomplishments, big and small. He will appreciate hearing this expression from you because it shows that you are paying attention to important goals in his life and giving him validation for completing them. No matter when you say it, either after he finished a long-time personal goal of competing in a marathon or successfully being able to stand up to his boss when he was being treated unfairly, it is music to his ears.

3. “I believe in you”

This crucial expression is important because it shows him how much you believe in his abilities, especially if he is doubting them himself. Men are wired to be more goal-oriented than women and find encouragement from their significant other to be a factor in their success with anything that they do. Having a strong foundation of moral support in small daily occurrences like encouraging him to try take-up a new sport to larger life goals like finishing an advanced degree is important for his chance of success.

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4. “I trust you”

This sentence is one of the most important romantic expressions or phrases that you could say to him to show that you care. Men often have a competitive nature and like to believe that they can figure some things out on their own. If he excels at something like balancing your taxes and you would rather do anything but, give him the reigns and then leave him alone and let him do his thing. When men are given their partner’s complete trust it boosts their self-confidence and they often end up doing a top-notch job with this added encouragement.

5. “You are handsome”

This expression may seem a bit surface-level, but it is important to acknowledge the extra effort when he dresses up. Men are physical creatures and when you complement him on his looks, he feels desired by you even after all the time you have been together. Likewise, it is also important to recognize his efforts if he has been working out and there are noticeable positive changes in his body. Men love to know that all the long hours they have put into the gym have been paying off and are easily noticeable to others, especially you.

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6. “You are so talented”

This expression is important because it shows that you notice his strengths, whether it is his ability to cook his signature roasted chicken dish or his ability to finish a crossword puzzle in record time. Whatever his talents are, big or small it is important that you acknowledge them often, which will give him the boost to keep pursuing them and improving  himself.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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