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6 Alternative Romantic Expressions To Tell Your Man

6 Alternative Romantic Expressions To Tell Your Man

“I love you”. This sentence may be only three words, but they are some of the most emotionally-laden words that you could say to your man. While it is important to remind your significant other how much you love him from time to time, it is also important to express your feelings towards him in other phrases that show him you care. Scientifically, it is proven that men crave respect from their partner more and appreciate hearing these other types of romantic expressions and phrases from you occasionally.

1. “Thank you”

This simple expression of gratitude is important for him to hear because it means that you are acknowledging his efforts. Whether it is something as simple as putting away the dishes without you asking or something bigger like him remembering to pick-up your dry cleaning, these are moments that he is showing how much he cares and it is important for you to show him how much it means to you.

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2. “I’m proud of you”

This phrase is important for him because it shows that you are acknowledging his accomplishments, big and small. He will appreciate hearing this expression from you because it shows that you are paying attention to important goals in his life and giving him validation for completing them. No matter when you say it, either after he finished a long-time personal goal of competing in a marathon or successfully being able to stand up to his boss when he was being treated unfairly, it is music to his ears.

3. “I believe in you”

This crucial expression is important because it shows him how much you believe in his abilities, especially if he is doubting them himself. Men are wired to be more goal-oriented than women and find encouragement from their significant other to be a factor in their success with anything that they do. Having a strong foundation of moral support in small daily occurrences like encouraging him to try take-up a new sport to larger life goals like finishing an advanced degree is important for his chance of success.

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4. “I trust you”

This sentence is one of the most important romantic expressions or phrases that you could say to him to show that you care. Men often have a competitive nature and like to believe that they can figure some things out on their own. If he excels at something like balancing your taxes and you would rather do anything but, give him the reigns and then leave him alone and let him do his thing. When men are given their partner’s complete trust it boosts their self-confidence and they often end up doing a top-notch job with this added encouragement.

5. “You are handsome”

This expression may seem a bit surface-level, but it is important to acknowledge the extra effort when he dresses up. Men are physical creatures and when you complement him on his looks, he feels desired by you even after all the time you have been together. Likewise, it is also important to recognize his efforts if he has been working out and there are noticeable positive changes in his body. Men love to know that all the long hours they have put into the gym have been paying off and are easily noticeable to others, especially you.

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6. “You are so talented”

This expression is important because it shows that you notice his strengths, whether it is his ability to cook his signature roasted chicken dish or his ability to finish a crossword puzzle in record time. Whatever his talents are, big or small it is important that you acknowledge them often, which will give him the boost to keep pursuing them and improving  himself.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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