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8 Habits For a Better Work-Life Balance

8 Habits For a Better Work-Life Balance

For most of us who work, our time away from the office is spent on other responsibilities and it feels like we just never seem to be able to achieve the ever elusive, but very much talked about, work-life balance. As best as we try to attain such stability, it just seems like the more we pursue it, the more it slips through our fingers.

You may try your best to take some time off for yourself, however, these times always seem to get dedicated to more work: work around the house, running errands, basically anything that you’ve been meaning to do in your life that you were too tired to attend to after a long day of work. The intention to move towards balance is always present, however, most of us find it really hard to properly accomplish this state of being when we always feel too overwhelmed with work, responsibilities, and a constant sense of not being adequately productive.

Below are eight habits that can help you start working towards the goal of a well balanced life:

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1. Choose the quality of life you desire

In order for you to achieve work-life balance, you have to first determine the quality of life that you are hoping to achieve. While this might seem redundant, many of us have never really decided on the quality of life we aspire to maintain. Instead, we just take it a day at a time with no further thought to what we are really trying to create as our standard of living. This quality of life should not revolve on our possessions but rather on the more intangible (and fulfilling) parts of our lives, such as values and relationships.

2. Know your limits and respect them

Understand that you too have a breaking point where your body both physically and mentally will require a rest. Be in tune with yourself and know how to manage your body. It is best to know your limits and stay within these parameters than to overdo it and regret it later.

3. Set aside time for those close to you

Your family and friends usually tend to be the ones that will help you realize when you are overdoing it. However, those closest to us are usually the ones who get to share less of our time if we are constantly working. Be sure to set aside some quality time with the ones that matter the most.

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4. Build a support network

Usually your support network is made up of those who have been there to support you through your successes and failures without judgment, simply attending to you with a listening ear and words of encouragement. Be sure to surround yourself with those who will always present you with truth and honesty and able to build you up in your times of weakness.

5. Increase your social activities

Get out of the house, fill your calendar with more than just meetings and deadlines, find a common interest group, join an exercise group or attend that weekly social event you always wondered about. The point is to get out of your normal surrounding and your monotonous daily routine. Discover the life that is happening around you.

6. Take some time off

It may surprise you but your coworkers (and your boss for that matter) will survive your absence, no matter what they tell you. Be sure to take some time off for yourself to reconnect, relax, and just enjoy a couple of days where you have absolutely nothing in your planner! Whether you choose a travel destination or simply decide to rediscover your city: take the time to enjoy yourself.

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7. Turn off technology

Social media, television, laptops, and other electronic devices can survive without you too. You can benefit significantly from disengaging from these devices for a few hours. You don’t always have to be the first to know what’s going on in the online social universe. Take some time off to do something relaxing and give your fingers and eyes a rest.

8. Periodically reevaluate your life

Sometimes it’s good to look at where you’ve come from and see where you are in life. Is it where you planned to be? What factors that are in your control could you change? Take some time to consider this and make necessary adjustments.

We all get the same amount of hours in the day, but it is how we organize them that separate the success stories from the failures when it comes to work-life balance. Everyone’s idea of work-life balance differs but one thing is for sure: we all share a need for some form of equilibrium in our lives.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2019

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

10 Simple Ways To Always Think Positive Thoughts

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

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5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

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Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

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9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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