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8 Habits For a Better Work-Life Balance

8 Habits For a Better Work-Life Balance

For most of us who work, our time away from the office is spent on other responsibilities and it feels like we just never seem to be able to achieve the ever elusive, but very much talked about, work-life balance. As best as we try to attain such stability, it just seems like the more we pursue it, the more it slips through our fingers.

You may try your best to take some time off for yourself, however, these times always seem to get dedicated to more work: work around the house, running errands, basically anything that you’ve been meaning to do in your life that you were too tired to attend to after a long day of work. The intention to move towards balance is always present, however, most of us find it really hard to properly accomplish this state of being when we always feel too overwhelmed with work, responsibilities, and a constant sense of not being adequately productive.

Below are eight habits that can help you start working towards the goal of a well balanced life:

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1. Choose the quality of life you desire

In order for you to achieve work-life balance, you have to first determine the quality of life that you are hoping to achieve. While this might seem redundant, many of us have never really decided on the quality of life we aspire to maintain. Instead, we just take it a day at a time with no further thought to what we are really trying to create as our standard of living. This quality of life should not revolve on our possessions but rather on the more intangible (and fulfilling) parts of our lives, such as values and relationships.

2. Know your limits and respect them

Understand that you too have a breaking point where your body both physically and mentally will require a rest. Be in tune with yourself and know how to manage your body. It is best to know your limits and stay within these parameters than to overdo it and regret it later.

3. Set aside time for those close to you

Your family and friends usually tend to be the ones that will help you realize when you are overdoing it. However, those closest to us are usually the ones who get to share less of our time if we are constantly working. Be sure to set aside some quality time with the ones that matter the most.

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4. Build a support network

Usually your support network is made up of those who have been there to support you through your successes and failures without judgment, simply attending to you with a listening ear and words of encouragement. Be sure to surround yourself with those who will always present you with truth and honesty and able to build you up in your times of weakness.

5. Increase your social activities

Get out of the house, fill your calendar with more than just meetings and deadlines, find a common interest group, join an exercise group or attend that weekly social event you always wondered about. The point is to get out of your normal surrounding and your monotonous daily routine. Discover the life that is happening around you.

6. Take some time off

It may surprise you but your coworkers (and your boss for that matter) will survive your absence, no matter what they tell you. Be sure to take some time off for yourself to reconnect, relax, and just enjoy a couple of days where you have absolutely nothing in your planner! Whether you choose a travel destination or simply decide to rediscover your city: take the time to enjoy yourself.

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7. Turn off technology

Social media, television, laptops, and other electronic devices can survive without you too. You can benefit significantly from disengaging from these devices for a few hours. You don’t always have to be the first to know what’s going on in the online social universe. Take some time off to do something relaxing and give your fingers and eyes a rest.

8. Periodically reevaluate your life

Sometimes it’s good to look at where you’ve come from and see where you are in life. Is it where you planned to be? What factors that are in your control could you change? Take some time to consider this and make necessary adjustments.

We all get the same amount of hours in the day, but it is how we organize them that separate the success stories from the failures when it comes to work-life balance. Everyone’s idea of work-life balance differs but one thing is for sure: we all share a need for some form of equilibrium in our lives.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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