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6 Reasons Why You Should Date A Frequent Traveler

6 Reasons Why You Should Date A Frequent Traveler

Do you feel like the cons to dating a globetrotter usually seem to outweigh the pros? While it gets tough at times, there are reasons why you should date a frequent traveler. Dating a traveler means that you are signing up for an often long-distance relationship with the added obstacles of different time zones and reliable Internet accessibility to connect on Skype. Despite the difficulties that a dating a globetrotter might pose, here are a few important benefits you will experience when you date someone who has a serious case of wanderlust:

1. They Will Always Entertain You

Having a significant other who travels frequently means that you will get to hear their many crazy adventure stories. Whether it is about the time that they got stranded in the middle of a rainstorm in Tokyo or tried fermented shark in Iceland, there is an endless treasure trove of tales that might inspire to travel in the future and go out of your comfort zone. Their stories might even inspire you to travel more, perhaps by their side. You want a partner that entertains you no matter what.

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2. They Will Give You A New Perspective Of The World

One of the best things about dating a frequent traveler is their open mindset and their ability to share it with those close to them. There are many different values, cultures and lifestyles around the world and seeing them with an unbiased eye is crucial to understanding that your viewpoint is just one of many. Respect is key in any situation of intercultural instances. The view  of the person you are dating might change the way you see things, even in your every day life. Loving a person that challenges your perspective is valuable and rewarding.

3. They Will Introduce Your To New Favorite Foods

A frequent traveler is often an expert on different cuisines and regional dishes and are more than happy to introduce their significant other to a local version. You thought you were an adventurous eater until you began dating your current flame. Nepali cuisine one weekend and Basque cuisine the next, has opened your taste buds to flavors you never knew existed. Trying different cuisines with the encouragement of your more experienced significant other has made you realize the culinary treats that you have been missing right in your own backyard.

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4. They Make You Realize That Distance  Makes The Heart Go Fonder

Everyone from your grandmother to your kid sister says that distance really does make you miss a person more and you have come to realize this firsthand. Every time that your significant other goes away you are counting down the days until their return. One of the advantages of not always being together is that you can balance time for yourself and time for your relationship easier. You cherish the time that you have together, because you know you will not always be physically together. A relationship is strengthened when there are times of being alone balanced with time together.

5. They Have An Independent Attitude

Co-dependent relationships are never healthy and create a toxic environment for all parties involved. That is why there is something refreshing about having someone who can knows how to take care of themselves and does not need to heavily rely on their significant other. This is one of the many advantages of dating a frequent traveler, who is used to taking care of themselves on the road and can transfer the act of being self-reliant to their relationships back home.

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6. They Know the Importance of Supporting Others

They may be independent-minded, but travelers also know the necessity of leaning on others when on the road. This will translate well in their relationships because they will know when they need to ask their significant other for support. Loving someone that supports you makes you a much stronger duo when you are together. Dating a traveler also means that they know the importance of giving you support when you need it the most and always being there for you, even if they are not physically present.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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