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8 Ways To Make What You Say At Work More Persuasive

8 Ways To Make What You Say At Work More Persuasive

If you care at all about your job, you have big plans and ideas for your company that you want others to hear and take seriously. While many times you may be rebuffed by higher-ups who make whatever decision they want regardless of other suggestions, you never know when an idea you have could catch your boss’ eye and put you on his radar for a future promotion. When these ideas strike you, it’s important that you present yourself well in order to be as persuasive as possible when you finally get a chance to break into the big time.

1. Be curious

Before even making a pitch, you want your employer to see that you’re not just looking out for yourself; you have the company’s interests in minds. Put in extra hours, go the extra mile on projects, and ask questions about goings-on in the industry. Showing you have a genuine interest in the industry is the best way to get your foot in your boss’ door. On the other hand, nothing will sour your boss to your idea than showing you are only out for a promotion, and have nothing more than a passing interest in the company as a whole.

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2. Listen effectively

Of course, since you’ll be asking a lot of questions, make sure you listen to the answer. Again, asking questions superficially just to make yourself look inquisitive will get you nowhere. You have to genuinely want to know the answers to the questions your asking, and also show that you’re able to take this information and act upon it. Regurgitating information only gets you so far; taking in information and integrating it with your ideas will take you much further.

3. Be honest

You’ll be much more persuasive if you’re always honest with others. Remember: your reputation is at stake when you go out on a limb to make a project pitch. Stretching the truth even a little bit can not only crush your hopes of a promotion, but may even cause you to lose your job. On the other hand, if you have a proven track record of honesty, your boss will probably at least hear your idea before he decides whether or not to run with it. Make sure you’re completely transparent about your ideas and motivation before moving forward with your pitch.

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4. Be confident

Being confident is definitely tough, especially when taking a risk and trying to impress your employer. However, being confident shows others that you are knowledgeable and care deeply about the subject at hand. Be prepared with answers to potential questions in order to show you’ve covered all the bases and thought of possible contingencies. This will also alleviate your boss’ concerns, and make him more willing to take a chance on your idea.

5. Speak confidently

Not only do you have to be confident, you have to show confidence. Public speaking is a pain but the truth, even if you have some Earth-shatteringly awesome ideas, no one will listen to you if you’re afraid to get up and scream them to the world. Waffling while on the “big stage” transmits the idea that you’re not entirely sure of your idea, and are taking a stab in the dark. Be confident, and speak confidently, and people will listen to you.

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6. Tell an anecdote

Your ideas need to be actionable. You can’t just come into a meeting with an idea you think would work just because, well, you think it’d work. You have to back it up with stories of past experiences in which your idea would have helped in some way. Think about past customer interactions, or past troubles the business has had, and work with them. “I noticed that, in the past 6 months, our customers have been replying negatively to x, y, and z. My idea to alleviate this situation is a, b, c.” This statement clearly states the problem you wish to attack, why you want to attack it, and how you plan on doing so.

7. Address concerns

We mentioned before that you should prepare answers to potential questions your audience may have. This is incredibly important in order to maintain your sense of confidence. However, if you don’t have an answer to a question being asked, that’s okay too. Just be prepared to turn the question around to the floor, and solicit advice from other members of the audience. Remember, being a good listener is just as important as having all the answers.

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8. Find a common ground

Make sure your audience knows you’re all in the same boat, and you all want the same thing: For your company to succeed. Even though you might have to step on other people’s toes (for example, if someone’s idea hasn’t worked out as planned), don’t dismiss their ideas entirely. Instead, use their ideas as a springboard, and tweak them to be more successful. By making sure everyone is on the same page as you forge forward, you ensure that everyone’s in your corner, and your ideas can gain some traction.

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What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

What Makes People Happy? 20 Secrets of “Always Happy” People

Some people just seem to float through life with a relentless sense of happiness – through the toughest of times, they’re unfazed and aloof, stopping to smell the roses and drinking out of a glass half full.

They may not have much to be happy about, but the simplicity behind that fact itself may make them happy.

It’s all a matter of perspective, conscious effort and self-awareness. Listed below are a number of reasons why some people are always happy.

1. They Manage Their Expectations

They’re not crushed when they don’t get what they want – or misled into expecting to get the most out of every situation. They approach every situation pragmatically, hoping for the best but being prepared for the worst.

2. They Don’t Set Unrealistic Standards

Similar to the last point, they don’t live their lives in a constant pursuit towards impossible visions of perfection, only to always find themselves falling short of what they want.

3. They Don’t Take Anything for Granted

Happiness rests with feeling fulfilled – those who fail to stop and appreciate what they have every now and again will never experience true fulfillment.

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4. They’re Not Materialistic

There are arguing viewpoints on whether or not money can really buy happiness; if it can, then we know from experience that we can never be satisfied because there will always be something newer or better that we want. Who has ever had enough money?

5. They Don’t Dwell

They don’t sweat the small things or waste time worrying about things that don’t really matter at the end of the day. They don’t let negative thoughts latch onto them and drain them or distract them. Life’s too short to worry.

6. They Care About Themselves First

They’re independent, care for themselves and understand that they must put their needs first in order to accommodate the needs of others.

They indulge, aim to get what they want, make time for themselves and are extremely self-reliant.

7. They Enjoy the Little Things

They stop to smell the roses. They’re accustomed to find serenity when it’s available, to welcome entertainment or a stimulating discussion with a stranger when it crosses their path. They don’t overlook the small things in life that can be just as important.

8. They Can Adapt

They’re not afraid of change and they work to make the most out of new circumstances, good or bad. They thrive under pressure, are not overwhelmed easily and always embrace a change of pace.

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9. They Experiment

They try new things, experience new flavors and never shy away from something they have yet to experience. They never order twice from the same menu.

10. They Take Their Time

They don’t unnecessarily rush through life. They work on their own schedule to the extent that they can and maneuver through life at their own relaxing pace.

11. They Employ Different Perspectives

They’re not stuck in one perspective; a loss can result in a new opportunity, hitting rock bottom can mean that there’s no where to go but up.

12. They Seek to Learn

Their constant pursuit of knowledge keeps them inspired and interested in life. They cherish information and are on a life-long quest to learn as much as they can.

13. They Always Have a Plan

They don’t find themselves drifting without purpose. When something doesn’t go as planned, they have a plan for every letter in the alphabet to fall back on.

14. They Give Respect to Get It

They are respectful and, in turn, are seen as respectable; the respect they exude earns them the respect they deserve.

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15. They Consider Every Opportunity

They always have their eyes open for a new road, a new avenue worth exploring. They know how to recognize opportune moments and pounce on them to make the most of every situation. Success is inevitable for them.

16. They Always Seek to Improve

Perpetual self-improvement is the key towards their ongoing thirst for success. Whatever it is they do, they take pride in getting better and better, from social interactions to mundane tasks. Their pursuit at being the best eventually materializes.

17. They Don’t Take Life Too Seriously

They’re not ones to get offended easily over-analyze or complicate matters. They laugh at their own faults and misfortunes.

18. They Live in the Moment

They don’t live for tomorrow or dwell on what may have happened yesterday. Every day is a new opportunity, a new chapter. They live in the now, and in doing so, get the most out of every moment.

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19. They Say Yes

Much more often than they say no. They don’t have to be badgered to go out, don’t shy away from new opportunities or anything that may seem inconvenient.

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20. They’re Self-Aware

Most important, they’re wholly aware of themselves. They self-reflect and are conscious of their states of mind. If somethings bothering them, they fix it.

We’re all susceptible to feeling down every now and again, but we are all equipped with the necessary solutions that just have to be discovered.

Lack of confidence, inability to feel fulfilled, and susceptibility to stress are all matters that can be controlled through the way we handle our lives and perceive our circumstances.

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Final Thoughts

The main philosophy employed by the happiest includes the idea that life’s simply too short: life’s too short to let things get you down, to take things for granted, to pursue absolute and unrealistic perfection.

For some, employing these characteristics is a second nature – they do it without knowing. For others, a conscious effort must be put forth every now and again. Self-Awareness is key.

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