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6 Reasons You Should Try Dating A Single Mom

6 Reasons You Should Try Dating A Single Mom

The love of a single mother means that one has hit a jackpot in terms of a relationship. There are few single women who are able to give love the way single mothers do. Single moms will give love fiercely and selflessly because they have already raised children on her own. Here are some great reasons why men should consider dating a single mom.

1. They are sexy

A single mother has a no-nonsense appearance when they deal with their children. However, these moms are also likely to get dolled up when they are asked out on a date. Single mothers are all-rounded with sexy lips and clothes. They know how to let loose when they are given the chance, as it rarely comes their way. Strada (a single mother) said that she can’t wait to feel sexy after dressing up.

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2. She knows her sexual desires

The single mothers out there know what they want, and they are not afraid to show it. A single mother who has already gone through a divorce or a failed relationship has already done some soul searching. This makes her know where she went wrong in her relationship, making her less likely to avoid making the same mistakes again. The single mom is likely to have strong sexual desires that will increase intimacy in the relationship. The single mom knows what she wants from experience. When she commits to a relationship, it has to be worth the risk. She gives her partner confidence because they’ll know how valued they are.

3. She is committed

The single mom is not there to experiment because she already did that when she was single and without a child. The time for playing games is over. All she wants is a serious man to spend her life with. Single moms know when it is time to be beautiful when going out on a date, and when to be busy in the kitchen playing her “mommy” / “wife” roles. The single mother knows what is best for her children and will not allow any man to get into her child’s life. The man who has been chosen by the single mom must consider himself lucky and very special. These men reach a level that is not reached by many. Single moms expressed that the way they love can be described in the same way they live their lives as single moms. They express their love in a smartly, sweetly, and fiercely manner.    

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4. She knows how to love

Single mothers know how to love unconditionally, since they give love to their child like no other. The single mom is everything to the child has and this makes them love harder. This unconditional and selfless love makes her a better partner. The single mom has to provide her children with a happy environment and has to avoid all things that are likely to cause sadness. The love, nurturing capability, and patience have increased in depth because of her children. When the man is good to the single mom and her child, he is likely to have a loving and more supportive partner than they have ever had.

5. She is well-rounded

A single mom gets things done because she has been doing it on her own already. She can do almost anything and everything. She ensures that the child is taking healthy foods because she wants them to grow well and be free of diseases. This means that when you gain entry into this family, you are guaranteed of taking healthy foods daily, and you are likely to stop eating so much “junk foods”. The single mom is likely to ensure that the child is brought up in a healthy lifestyle. This includes taking part in exercises. The man who dates a single mom is likely to be involved in routine exercise. This helps makes the whole family healthy. The single moms are also enthusiastic and very hard working. They are regularly involved with making tough decisions, yet also know how to provide tender care.

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6. She can roll with the punches

A single mom has dealt with a lot on her plate, and she is still dealing with it. She is likely to know the causes of depression and how to avoid them. She has already dealt with a broken marriage/relationship and raising the children on her own. Canceling a dinner plan may mean the whole world to a single woman, but this means nothing to a single mom who has a lot on her plate.

Conclusion

Dating a single mom is a good risk that men are advised to take some time. Single moms know how to give selfless and unconditional love, making them better partners. They are more rounded as they make firm decisions concerning their families. They are not afraid to give and show love as they know what they want in a relationship.  

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References

https://www.glozine.com/lifestyle/relationships http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/06/12/you-should-date-a-single-mom_n_7563900.html http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating-advice-for-you/15-reasons-to-date-a-single-mom/#.VYv2S_mqqko https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/female-sexual-health/

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

6 Ways to Be a Successful Risk Taker and Take More Chances

I’ve stood on the edge of my own personal cliffs many times. Each time I jumped, something different happened. There were risks that started off great, but eventually faded. There were risks that left me falling until I hit the ground. There were risks that started slow, but built into massive successes.

Every risk is different, but every risk is the same. You need to have some fundamentals ready before you jump, but not too many.

It wouldn’t be a risk if you knew everything that was about to happen, would it? Here’re 6 ways to be a successful risk taker.

1. Understand That Failure Is Going to Happen a Lot

It’s part of life. Everything we do has failure attached to it. All successful people have stories of massive failure attached to them. Thinking that your risk is going to be pain free and run as smooth as silk is insane.

Expect some pain and failure. Actually, expect a lot of it. Expect the sleepless nights with crazy thoughts of insecurity that leave you trembling under the covers. It’s going to happen, no matter how positive you are about the risk you are about to take.

When failure hits, the only options are to keep going or quit. If you expect falling into a meadow of flowers and frolicking unicorns, then you’re going to immediately quit once you realize that getting to that meadow requires you to go through a rock filled cave filled with hungry bats.

2. Trust the Muse

Writing a story isn’t a big risk. It’s really just a risk on my time. So when I start writing a story, I’m scared it will be time wasted. Of course, it never really is. Even if the story doesn’t turn out fabulous, I still practiced.

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When I’ve taken risks in my life, the successful ones always seemed to happen when I followed the muse. Steven Pressfield describes the muse,

“The Muse demands depth. Shallow does not work for her. If we’re seeking her help, we can’t stay in the kiddie end. When we work, we have to go hard and go deep.”

The muse is a goddess who wants our attention and wants us to work on our passion.

If you’re taking a risk in anything, it’s assumed that there is some passion built up behind that risk. That passion, deep inside you, is the muse. Trust it, focus on it, listen to it.

The most successful articles and stories I write are the ones I’ve focused all my attention on. There were no interruptions during their creative development. I didn’t check my phone or go watch my Twitter feed. I was fully engaged in my work.

Trust the muse, focus your attention on your risk, let the ideas and path develop themselves, and leave the distractions at the side of the road.

3. Remember to Be Authentic

Taking a risk and then turning into something you’re not, is only going to lead to disaster. Whether you are risking a new relationship or new opportunity, you must be yourself throughout the entire process.

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How many times have you acted like you loved something just because the men or woman you just started going out with loved it?

For example, I’m not an office worker. I have an incredibly hard time working in a confined timeline (ie. 9-5). That’s why I write. I can do it whenever the mood strikes, I don’t have somebody breathing down my neck, telling me that I’m five minutes late, or missed a comma somewhere. I don’t have to walk on eggshells wondering if what I’m writing will get me fired or make me lose a promotion. I can just be myself, period.

One girlfriend didn’t understand that. She believed solely in the 9-5 motto, specifically something in human resources because that was a very stable job. I was scared for my future, but I stuck with the relationship because of my own insecurities and acted like I would do it to make her happy.

Here’s a tip: NEVER take away from your happiness to make somebody else satisfied (note I didn’t say happy).

Making somebody else happy will make you happy. Doing something to satisfy somebody is murder on your soul.

4. Don’t Take Any Risks While You’re Not Clearheaded

I’d been considering the risk for a couple weeks. It all sounded good. I was 22 and I could be rich in a couple of years. That’s what they were selling me, anyways.

One night, while at a house party with some friends, I found myself at a computer. A couple of my friends were standing nearby and asked me what I was doing. I told them I was considering starting my own business and it was only going to cost me $1,500.

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Of course, when a bunch of drunk people are surrounded by more drunk people, things get enthusiastic. It sounded like the best business venture in the world to everybody, including me. So I signed up and gave them my credit card number.

A few painful months and close to $4,000 dollars lost later, I quit the business. I was young and fell into the pyramid scheme trap. It was an expensive drunk decision.

Drinking heavily and making decisions has a proven track record of failure. So when you have something important to decide, don’t let your emotions take over your brain.

5. Fully Understand What You’re Risking

It was the start of my baseball comeback. I got a tryout with a professional scout and killed it. After the tryout, he talked to my girlfriend and myself, making sure we understood I would be gone for up to 6 months at a time. That strain on the relationship could be tough.

We understood. I left to play ball, chose to stay in the city I played in, and a year later we broke up. Not because of baseball, see point 3 above. Taking big risks can have massive impacts on everything in your life from relationships to money. Know what you’re risking before you take the risk.

If you believe the risk will be worth it or you have the support you need from your family, then go ahead and make the leap.

You can get more guidance on how to take calculated risks from this article: How to Take Calculated Risk to Achieve More and Become Successful

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6. Remember This Is Your One Shot Only

As far as we know officially, this is our one shot at life, so why not take some risks?

The top thing people are saddened by on their deathbeds are these regrets. They wish they did more, asked that girl in the coffee shop out, spoke out when they should have, or did what they were passionate about.

Don’t regret. Learn and experience. Live. Take the risks you believe in. Be yourself and make the world a better place.

Now go ahead, take that risk and be successful at it!

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