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20 Things A Truly Great Partner Doesn’t Do

20 Things A Truly Great Partner Doesn’t Do

Being a great partner means certain characteristics are displayed. A great partner doesn’t do any of these things.

1. They don’t belittle your dreams

Great partners see your success as part of their success. They want you to achieve great things and they will support you on the path you are trying to take.

2. They don’t constantly remind you of your failures

Granted we all make mistakes and fail sometimes. But a great partner does not make a big deal out of your failures or mistakes.

3. They don’t disrespect you in public

Great partners know that you are an integral part of their world. They could scorn you privately but never will they give you a public shaming.

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4. They don’t exert control on your world

Great partners offer you the freedom to excel. They are not domineering and they wouldn’t want to twist your arm to always do what they want.

5. They don’t seek vengeance

They do not always find an avenue to pay a tooth for a tooth or an eye for an eye. They would find a way to move on with you rather than seek revenge for every hurt you direct at them.

6. They don’t encroach on your space

Even in a relationship everyone needs his/her space. A great partner will respect that you need your space and there is a life outside the relationship as well.

7. They don’t feel indifferent to your feelings

They are concerned about how you feel and will never abandon you to deal with certain emotional situations alone.

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8. The don’t take the superior position

They see you as a partner and do not belittle or consider you inferior. Rather they want you to be part of every decision they make.

9. They don’t disappoint you

If they want you in their world a great partner will be there to keep to his promises and stand up to any responsibility he commits himself to as regards to.

10. They don’t make you feel insecure

They are not threatening or want to impose themselves on you. Rather they complement and make you feel you are part of a team.

11. They don’t constantly disapprove of everything you do

They do not see you as a pain and disapprove of every action you take. If you need some counsel or advice they are willing to offer it to you.

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12. They don’t expose every aspect of the relationship to the world

Great partners keep certain things in your relationship private. They understand that the relationship is just between two of you.

13. They don’t treat you like a disposable object

A great partner appreciates you. He/she knows that you are special and keeps you that way. They want to treat you as something they can keep.

14. They don’t think they are always perfect

A great partner knows that he/she will make mistakes and when they do they don’t think they are always right.

15. They don’t always disbelieve you

A great partner trusts you. He knows that you are part of his success and has no reason to continue disbelieving everything you say.

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16. They don’t tell you demeaning jokes

Humor can be used as medium of mockery and sarcasm. A great doesn’t humor to abuse you but to make you happy.

17. They don’t blame you for their problems

They don’t see you as a hindrance to their success rather they see you as someone who makes them happy.

18. They don’t become sensitive when you make a joke

When you throw a joke at a great partner they can laugh at them and see the humor in it.

19. They don’t make you feel as if you are not good enough

A great partner knows you are not just good enough for them but great and everything they need.

20. They don’t force you to prove your love

They know that you have the right to show your love and they are not accusing of things to make you feel as if you don’t care.

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Last Updated on July 15, 2019

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

Some things in life are hard to describe, yet we can recognize them when we see them.

Love is one of those things.

True love comes in many different forms, but here are some that many of us know well.

True love means supporting those who can’t support themselves

supportive couple

    A young man comforts his date in Times Square, New York City. Image by mbtrama

    strong hug

      A young man holds his significant other close to him. Image by Brad Fults

      running help

        A young track competitor helps one of her injured opponents over the finish line. Image from ViralNova.com

        feeding kitten

          A soldier in the Korean War takes time to feed a baby kitten. Image from US Naval Insititute

          It’s having the perfect selfie partner

          mom and daughter selfie

            A mother and her daughter take a selfie together. Image by Andrew Fysh

            girlfriends

              Two young girls pose for the camera. Image by Rolands Lakis

              selfies

                A happy couple takes a picture together. Image by Kayla Heineman

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                selfie

                  Two best friends take a selfie together. Image by Jason Wahido

                  dude selfie

                    Friends take a selfie together. Image by Glenn Scofield Williams

                    It’s all the warm fuzzies

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                      A young man spends time with his dog on a beach. Image by Magdalena Roeseler

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                        A pet owner hugs his dog while on a day trip in San Francisco. Image by Taro the Shiba Inu

                        It means having a friend to photobomb you

                        photobomb

                          A boy makes a funny face as he poses for a picture with his brother. Image by Michael Bentley

                          old man photobomb

                            A man photobombs his wife while their grandson snaps a picture. Image by Frank

                            family photobomb

                              Family members photobomb their relatives’ Thanksgiving day family photo. Image by Beth Scupham

                              boyfriend photobomb

                                A friend photobombs the photographer and their friend, the woman in the foreground of this photo. Image by Lachlan Hardy

                                True love means being there even when life gets unbearably hard

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                                shoulder to cry on

                                  A family watches the Vermont National Guard depart for Afghanistan. Image by The U.S. Army

                                  flood dog

                                    During a monsoon in the Philippines, a boy carries his dog to safety. Image by Romeo Ranoco

                                    A woman is rescued from flood waters by a resident standing on top of her car during heavy rain in Chalandri suburb north of Athens

                                      A man helps a woman out of her vehicle during a flood in Chalandri, Greece. Image by John Kolesidis

                                      lunch

                                        A woman has lunch with her husband every day, even after he’s passed away. Image from ViralNova.com

                                        hug

                                          A woman hugs the mother of 6-year-old Noah Ponzer, who was one of the victims of the Sandy Hook shootings. Image by Spencer Platt

                                          rubble

                                            An Oklahoma couple pauses while trying to salvage belongings from a family member’s home after a tornado. Image by Adrees Latif

                                            sister and brother

                                              A girl puts her arm around her little brother as they wait outside of Sandy Hook Elementary after gunshots are fired. Image by Reuters.

                                              headstone

                                                A woman sits at her husband’s grave the day before their wedding anniversary. Image from NBC news

                                                It means taking the time for long goodbyes

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                                                  A man says goodbye to his son before deploying. Image by Official U.S. Navy Page

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                                                  national guard goodbye

                                                    A South Carolina man says goodbye to his son before deploying for Afghanistan. Image by The National Guard

                                                    saying goodbye

                                                      A Sergeant hugs both of his sons before being deployed to Afghanistan. Image by The National Guard

                                                      And cherishing reunions

                                                      husband home

                                                        A woman hugs her husband as she sees him for the first time since his deployment to Iraq. Image by The U.S. Army

                                                        boyfriend home

                                                          A young  woman hugs her significant other as he returns home for Kuwait. Image by The National Guard

                                                          mother hug

                                                            A mother drops to her knees as she hugs her son on her return home from the Persian Gulf. Image by The National Guard

                                                            True love is letting yourself feel young when they’re around

                                                            elderly women

                                                              Two friends on their smartphones. Image by Robert Neff

                                                              feeling young

                                                                A young couple getting their picture taken. Image by db Photograph

                                                                sprinkler dad

                                                                  A father plays in a sprinkler with his daughter at Millennium Park in Chicago. Image by Ben Forsberg

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                                                                  subway couple

                                                                    A young couple on a subway enjoys sharing time together, while the girlfriend’s father sneaks a photo of them. Image by Gareth Williams

                                                                    wheelchairs

                                                                      A couple holds hands on a fall day. Image by David Amsler

                                                                      It’s letting yourself be silly… just because they’ll enjoy it

                                                                      silly faces

                                                                        A grandfather makes faces at the camera with his granddaughters. Image by Tim Pierce

                                                                        vote for pedro

                                                                          A woman’s father wears a Napoleon Dynamite t-shirt to make his daughter laugh. Image by emdot

                                                                          True love is allowing yourself to show how you really feel

                                                                          date night

                                                                            A young couple kisses in the back of a restaurant in Washington, D.C. Image by Derek Key

                                                                            playing violin

                                                                              Violinist Nancy Dinovo plays at a memorial service for the victims of 9/11. Image by Christopher Morris

                                                                              True love is timeless

                                                                              old friends

                                                                                Friends spending some time together. Image by Cristian Bortes

                                                                                sitting around a fire

                                                                                  A group of friends sits around a campfire eating. Image by New Old Stock

                                                                                  elderly couple

                                                                                    An elderly couple walks down a street together. Image by Matteo Paciotti

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