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10 Things Only Those Who Travel With Friends Understand

10 Things Only Those Who Travel With Friends Understand

Traveling with your best friend can be truly amazing. You get to make memories that will last forever while spending time with somebody who gets you more than any other person. So much awesomeness rolled into a single vacation. Here are some of the most amazing things you learn traveling with your best friend!

1. You share stuff even words can’t capture

That gorgeous sunset might make a nice picture, but really the cool colors are not what makes this moment special. When you are there with your best friend, you don’t have to convey why its special. You are your bestie just get it in a way you don’t even need to describe.

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    2. You feel incredibly invincible afterward

    Traveling can be a bit intense, but after overcoming all the challenges with your best friend, you will feel ready to take on the world. Wherever your next adventure takes you, you will be ready to take it all in stride. Food poisoning, getting lost on the subway, and transportation breakdowns all feel like part of the adventure because you’ve already survived it with your bestie.

    3. You know you’re unstoppable when working together

    Totally lost in the streets of Madrid? No problem! Your bestie is a wiz at reading the map and you are awesome at asking for directions, even if your Spanish is a little sketchy. With a bit of team work, you are back on the right path. Nothing like working as a team with someone as cool as your best friend.

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      4. You know how great it is to have someone help you stay safe

      Sometimes we get carried away and have a drink or two more than we should. Or maybe we’ve just stayed out a little later than was smart. When you travel with friends, you know that someone is there to help you out. Things will not get too out of hand because you are with your best friend.

      5. You have awesome stories to relive

      Whether you and your best friend are trying to impress people at the dinner table, or you are just looking for a way to lighten your spirits, those shared experiences truly give you something awesome to reflect on. These moments can help you take on new challenges, feel better about those you have already overcome, and continue living your life to the fullest.

      6. You learned stuff about your bestie, even though you already knew everything

      Traveling with your best friend reveals stuff that just never comes up in everyday life. You get to see your bestie in new situations and find out even more about your favorite person. Some of these things your best friend might not have even known themselves. Learning new stuff is awesome and what a better way to discover it than on some amazing adventure.

      7. Your travel down time was NEVER BORING

      Stuck for an hour in the train station? No problem! With your bestie by your side this is the perfect opportunity for a dance party, or gossip fest, or whatever you and your bestie do best! That time is usually a drag, but when your best friend is with you, every moment is an opportunity for awesomeness.

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        8. You got an honest opinion about whatever you considered buying

        While those leather pants seemed like a really great idea to you, your best friend was right by your side to help you avoid that disaster. When you travel with your bestie, you know you’ve got someone there to help you make good choices.

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          9. You never had time to feel homesick

          Your best friend is like a little piece of home that travels with you. With the friendly laugh and smiling face of your bestie, there is no way you could feel homesick. And that is an awesome way to spend your vacation.

          10. You have LEGENDARY Pictures of your adventures

          Since you and your bestie are on the same page, you took some epic pictures on your journey of awesomeness. These are pictures your family members will be talking about for generations. And its all thanks to having such a great travel buddy.

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          Last Updated on January 18, 2019

          7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

          7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

          Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

          But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

          If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

          1. Limit the time you spend with them.

          First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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          In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

          Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

          2. Speak up for yourself.

          Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

          3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

          This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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          But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

          4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

          Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

          This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

          Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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          5. Change the subject.

          When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

          Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

          6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

          Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

          I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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          You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

          Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

          7. Leave them behind.

          Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

          If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

          That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

          You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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