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5 Experiences That Can Bring Couples Closer Together

5 Experiences That Can Bring Couples Closer Together

When you and your partner spend most of your time working or studying, busy as bees, it is natural that you can grow somewhat distant from each other. However, relationships tend to get spoiled and break down if you don’t pay enough attention to their development.

If you suddenly realize that you don’t seem to understand your loved one quite the way that you used to, it’s time to apply some positive experience therapy. There are certain events and experiences that bring couples closer together. Here are five such experiences that would do you some good to share with your partner.

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1. Getting A Couple’s Massage

What could possibly be a better connecting experience than a relaxing couple’s massage? You might make it a weekly tradition. Simply pick the day, time, and spa of your liking, and take your partner out for the massage session. This might be an enjoyable way to begin a Friday evening after the long and hard workweek. You two could use the time to talk with each other, or simply to lie quietly while listening to music. In fact, the latter might be preferable — silence allows you to better concentrate on positive feelings, and that is exactly what you need this experience for.

2. Showering Together

Showering together is quite an interesting and intimate experience. There are many reasons why you should try it with your partner at least once. It’s unusual, it sets up new privacy conditions, besides, it’s simply comfortable — you can get your loved one to scratch your back with a sponge and then return the favor. There are also plenty of other things that two adults can get up to in the shower — it’s all up to you. One thing is certain — you will literally get up close with your loved one if you shower together.

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3. Getting an STD Tested Together

Testing yourself and your partner for sexually transmitted diseases and infections is something you should do before becoming a couple — however, it’s never too late. There might be certain issues with this experience that could possibly drive the whole couple’s therapy idea in the wrong direction, so you’d better be absolutely positive about your own loyalty when you decide to test yourself. However, if you and your partner have no trust issues and have never cheated on one another, the experience of getting STD test together might unite you better than any other event.

4. Spending A Vacation Together

It’s not as easy to set up a vacation together as it seems, but it’s totally worth it. The success depends on whether you will find a type of vacation that will satisfy both of you. That may be hitchhiking, traveling by cruise ship, or spending your free days lazily on a beach. The place, conditions and activities of the vacation should be equally acceptable for both of you, so make sure that your partner shares your enthusiasm about whatever you have in mind, whether that’s shopping, engaging in sports, or sightseeing — make plans together. You will be rewarded for your efforts with all the happy memories you will share after the vacation of your dreams.

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5. Cooking Dinner Together

Cooking together will definitely unite you as a couple. Even if you burn down your stove in the process, the value of this experience is not to be underestimated. There is no need to spend hours in the kitchen, just find a good recipe for a simple and tasty dish. For example, you could make pies or pizza, or even a salad. Sushi is another popular thing to prepare as a couple.

The main thing about cooking together is that both of you have to actually participate in the process. Don’t shove your partner aside because they are not skilled enough. Share your tasks and in the end you will get some tasty food and lots of positive impressions.

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As you can see, there are more than enough ways to make the relationship stronger. Use these tips to get close with your loved one!

Featured photo credit: Picjumbo via picjumbo.com

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Last Updated on July 15, 2019

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

41 Beautiful Pictures That Show What True Love Is All About

Some things in life are hard to describe, yet we can recognize them when we see them.

Love is one of those things.

True love comes in many different forms, but here are some that many of us know well.

True love means supporting those who can’t support themselves

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    A young man comforts his date in Times Square, New York City. Image by mbtrama

    strong hug

      A young man holds his significant other close to him. Image by Brad Fults

      running help

        A young track competitor helps one of her injured opponents over the finish line. Image from ViralNova.com

        feeding kitten

          A soldier in the Korean War takes time to feed a baby kitten. Image from US Naval Insititute

          It’s having the perfect selfie partner

          mom and daughter selfie

            A mother and her daughter take a selfie together. Image by Andrew Fysh

            girlfriends

              Two young girls pose for the camera. Image by Rolands Lakis

              selfies

                A happy couple takes a picture together. Image by Kayla Heineman

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                selfie

                  Two best friends take a selfie together. Image by Jason Wahido

                  dude selfie

                    Friends take a selfie together. Image by Glenn Scofield Williams

                    It’s all the warm fuzzies

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                      A young man spends time with his dog on a beach. Image by Magdalena Roeseler

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                        A pet owner hugs his dog while on a day trip in San Francisco. Image by Taro the Shiba Inu

                        It means having a friend to photobomb you

                        photobomb

                          A boy makes a funny face as he poses for a picture with his brother. Image by Michael Bentley

                          old man photobomb

                            A man photobombs his wife while their grandson snaps a picture. Image by Frank

                            family photobomb

                              Family members photobomb their relatives’ Thanksgiving day family photo. Image by Beth Scupham

                              boyfriend photobomb

                                A friend photobombs the photographer and their friend, the woman in the foreground of this photo. Image by Lachlan Hardy

                                True love means being there even when life gets unbearably hard

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                                shoulder to cry on

                                  A family watches the Vermont National Guard depart for Afghanistan. Image by The U.S. Army

                                  flood dog

                                    During a monsoon in the Philippines, a boy carries his dog to safety. Image by Romeo Ranoco

                                    A woman is rescued from flood waters by a resident standing on top of her car during heavy rain in Chalandri suburb north of Athens

                                      A man helps a woman out of her vehicle during a flood in Chalandri, Greece. Image by John Kolesidis

                                      lunch

                                        A woman has lunch with her husband every day, even after he’s passed away. Image from ViralNova.com

                                        hug

                                          A woman hugs the mother of 6-year-old Noah Ponzer, who was one of the victims of the Sandy Hook shootings. Image by Spencer Platt

                                          rubble

                                            An Oklahoma couple pauses while trying to salvage belongings from a family member’s home after a tornado. Image by Adrees Latif

                                            sister and brother

                                              A girl puts her arm around her little brother as they wait outside of Sandy Hook Elementary after gunshots are fired. Image by Reuters.

                                              headstone

                                                A woman sits at her husband’s grave the day before their wedding anniversary. Image from NBC news

                                                It means taking the time for long goodbyes

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                                                  A man says goodbye to his son before deploying. Image by Official U.S. Navy Page

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                                                  national guard goodbye

                                                    A South Carolina man says goodbye to his son before deploying for Afghanistan. Image by The National Guard

                                                    saying goodbye

                                                      A Sergeant hugs both of his sons before being deployed to Afghanistan. Image by The National Guard

                                                      And cherishing reunions

                                                      husband home

                                                        A woman hugs her husband as she sees him for the first time since his deployment to Iraq. Image by The U.S. Army

                                                        boyfriend home

                                                          A young  woman hugs her significant other as he returns home for Kuwait. Image by The National Guard

                                                          mother hug

                                                            A mother drops to her knees as she hugs her son on her return home from the Persian Gulf. Image by The National Guard

                                                            True love is letting yourself feel young when they’re around

                                                            elderly women

                                                              Two friends on their smartphones. Image by Robert Neff

                                                              feeling young

                                                                A young couple getting their picture taken. Image by db Photograph

                                                                sprinkler dad

                                                                  A father plays in a sprinkler with his daughter at Millennium Park in Chicago. Image by Ben Forsberg

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                                                                  subway couple

                                                                    A young couple on a subway enjoys sharing time together, while the girlfriend’s father sneaks a photo of them. Image by Gareth Williams

                                                                    wheelchairs

                                                                      A couple holds hands on a fall day. Image by David Amsler

                                                                      It’s letting yourself be silly… just because they’ll enjoy it

                                                                      silly faces

                                                                        A grandfather makes faces at the camera with his granddaughters. Image by Tim Pierce

                                                                        vote for pedro

                                                                          A woman’s father wears a Napoleon Dynamite t-shirt to make his daughter laugh. Image by emdot

                                                                          True love is allowing yourself to show how you really feel

                                                                          date night

                                                                            A young couple kisses in the back of a restaurant in Washington, D.C. Image by Derek Key

                                                                            playing violin

                                                                              Violinist Nancy Dinovo plays at a memorial service for the victims of 9/11. Image by Christopher Morris

                                                                              True love is timeless

                                                                              old friends

                                                                                Friends spending some time together. Image by Cristian Bortes

                                                                                sitting around a fire

                                                                                  A group of friends sits around a campfire eating. Image by New Old Stock

                                                                                  elderly couple

                                                                                    An elderly couple walks down a street together. Image by Matteo Paciotti

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