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10 Top Habits You Can Exploit To Be Successful

10 Top Habits You Can Exploit To Be Successful

For many of us, our success comes from being able to put in place routines that we don’t even realize that we are doing. From those who are organized and ready to roar from 7AM to the late birds who know how to make the night work for those, our lifestyle are dictated by our patterns that we can adapt to and learn from.

This is one of the hardest things on the planet to do, and we recommend that you consider any of the following if you want to take things to that next level. This will help you understand what kind of routines you need to get into to become a successful, independent person who can hit their own targets and progress;

Focus on the upside

A good unconscious habit that brings success is to see the positive spin on any situation. It can be hard if you are typically a cynical person but you need to look to the positives in any situation otherwise you will simply find it too hard to take decisions and accept people for what they appear to be offering you in life.  It’s a simple enough – but truly effective – choice.

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Show courage in adversity

A vital part of getting things moving in the right direction in your life is actually fairly simple; get into the mindset of putting a brave face on things. This will make a big difference to your overall growth as a person, showing true courage for others.

Trust you’re instinct

We all get that feeling when something good or bad is about to happen – it’s time that you trusted it. If you believe this stuff was for movies and books you need to think again. Intuition is the difference between being ripped off and becoming a millionaire.

Focus on the Haves, not the Have Not’s

A typical mentality is to concentrate on what we don’t have on this planet, not what we do have. If you want to be successful, get into the mindset of accepting – and appreciating – what you do have in this life, not what’s missing.

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Work less, do more

We all believe that putting in the extra hours every day is all that is needed to get where we want to be; this isn’t true. You need to start thinking about how you can work smarter every day, not harder!

Set priority goals

Having a subconscious pull to getting things done is very important in this world; you’ll need to get yourself prepared for the way forward in a simple, effective manner. To do this we recommend setting goals in order of priority so you have a subconscious subject to concentrate on moving forward.

Seek less approval

Seeking praise is for animals in the circus, not successful people. You need to get into the mindset that success is going to be noticed anyway, you don’t need some big wig in a suit to tell you that you have done a good job as you will know that before they even speak. Make it a subconscious habit to recognize your own success, so you aren’t constantly trying to chase approval from others

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Ignore comparisons

When you hear yourself or others getting compared to X and Y situations or people, ignore this. It’s nothing more than some overworked narrative that means nothing except from additional pressure and taking you away from the main objectives that you set. Gets your subconscious mind setting the tone, not the opinions of overpaid and overblown “experts” who barely know the first thing about you or what you are capable of!

Moving on

A key part of becoming a more balanced person mentally is to try and cover the right kind of way to move forward; this includes letting go the people who you like but know they are holding you back. If you want to be successful you need to cut loose from the various distractions in life.

Manage your money

Make a point in your mind to always be in charge of your money instead of letting it be in charge of you. You should be sending your money at your own will, not living your life according to the bank balance. Take the time needed to learn how to manage your money, and make sure that you never go above the means that you can actually afford.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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