Posts Tagged ‘interaction’

3 Ways To Be Memorable By Breaking People’s Patterns

Life is full of little situations that you encounter regularly. Some people don't see these for the opportunities that they are: a chance to stand out, be different, and be memorable.They're a way to quickly built rapport with someone so they can think back later and say "Brian...hmm, yeah he was the guy who does [BLANK]" or "Barbara, oh yeah she is the gal who said [BLANK]". You stood out… Continue reading

September 12 2008 | By Brian | Tagged: connections, expectation, greeting, interaction, meet, pattern, people, rapport, surprise | 33 comments»

What Are Your Filters?

Whammo! You didn’t see that coming, did you?Why is it that, despite all our planning, we sometimes get caught by surprise, totally unprepared, with our pants down as it were? I mean, we’re smart folks, right? How come sometimes we just don’t see stuff coming?The answer is, much of the time, that we don’t see everything clearly because we don’t see a lot of things at all. We process the… Continue reading

August 13 2008 | By Dustin | Tagged: filter, gender, interaction, people, perception, race | 6 comments»

12 Ways to Help Make MLK’s Dream a Reality

Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day in the United States, a federal holiday. We remember Dr. King as a civil rights leader, a rousing speaker,and an advocate of non-violent resistance. Best remembered of all his works, though, is his "I have a dream" speech. King dreamed that one day, race would be irrelevant to an individual's opportunities in life.

That hasn't happened, not in the United… Continue reading

January 21 2008 | By Dustin | Tagged: difference, interaction, mlk, racism, society | 25 comments»

Don’t let your “hot buttons” spoil your chances

Everyone has “hot buttons.” They’re your tender spots, the places where you’re most sensitive, the points where you get irritated, or hurt, or angry, and have to respond. The trick to preventing them from messing up your day is awareness: The more aware you are of what rattles the bars of your cage, the more you’ll be able to catch yourself before you do any damage. If you… Continue reading

November 19 2007 | By Adrian | Tagged: behavior, habit, interaction, relationship | 6 comments»

Other people are not broken . . .

All of us depend on relationships with others—in our work, in our communities, in our families, in our social lives, and in our most personal and emotional attachments. A great deal has been written about building and maintaining relationships. Some of it is useful, some less so. Much of it is too complicated to carry around easily in your head, which limits its usefulness in practice. So here are… Continue reading

June 11 2007 | By Guest | Tagged: Communication, friendship, interaction, relationship | 10 comments»

5 Conversation and Interaction Tips

I had a phone call yesterday with someone very important, and important to me. But for the life of me, I couldn't recall a single word of what we'd talked about. (If I'd followed my own hack and written the conversation directly into the contact notes section in Gmail, I'd be saved, but I didn't.) I really faltered for a short while, so this gave me some thoughts on how… Continue reading

August 17 2006 | By Chris | Tagged: Communication, conversation, interaction, social-networking | 9 comments»

Promote Yourself

I'm running into a recurring theme when meeting new, interesting creative folks: they don't know the first thing about how to promote themselves and what they're doing. Sure, it's not for everyone, but if you're attending conferences or gathering with lots of interesting people to discuss your big ideas and future plans, a little self-promotion is a good thing.