I haven’t made any new year’s resolutions. It’s not that I don’t believe in them or think that they don’t work. It’s that I don’t believe in them in January and know they don’t work at this time of year. So I don’t start my new year on January 1st.
I hold off until February.
Why do I buck traditional trends and wait an entire month to start anew? It’s simple: I’m too tired in January. And the truth is, so are you.
Think about it.
You’ve just come off of a hectic holiday season – and for some of us that started back in early November. You’ve been on the move since then, attending holiday parties, eating copious amounts of food and frantically trying to wrap up all of your open loops before the end of the year hits. So when January rolls around and you finally have time to catch your breath, what do you?
You try to take on new habits, attempt to abolish bad ones and tackle projects while not giving yourself the time to recharge your batteries and really reflect on the year that has just passed you by.
While taking on this type of approach to mapping out your new year may not be as unconventional as, say, starting your week on a Sunday, it certainly won’t be popular with everyone. But think about the benefits of taking January to put yourself in a position to really succeed and polish up your plans for the year ahead. Even if you made a single resolution to take the first month of the calendar year to focus on the future through reflection and planning without the baggage of a worn out body and mind, wouldn’t you have a higher chance of achieving what you set out to do?
Rather than take on a series of resolutions now, keep them in mind and plan properly for them during the month of January. Make this a month of setting yourself up rather than sprinting in to the new year with full intentions and not enough energy to see them through over the long haul. Remember that a year is a marathon, not a sprint.
That’s not to say that you shouldn’t do anything in January, just take on projects that won’t make or break you.
3 Project Ideas for January
1. Clean out the clutter. Clear out everything from the past year (and years prior, if applicable) and give yourself a clean slate come February. You have far more energy for this type of project in January than you do for ones that will take plans involving the future.
2. Start a journal. This type of activity allows you to reflect and start a new habit. It puts you in the position to have started a journey during a month where everything should be as low-impact on the mind as possible. Yet it allows your mind to think back to the year before to see what you did (and would do differently) and put it on record.
3. Gather your tools. January is the month where you can start to assemble the tools you’ll need for the year ahead. A paper planner (which often is sold at a cheaper price once hte year starts), a new domain for a website you’re going to start, and things of that nature are ideal things to gather so that you can start off the next month with most of what you’ll need at your disposal.
Focus on February
January is the perfect month to look back and prepare yourself for the months to come. Don’t saddle yourself with resolutions and intentions that are going to be difficult to maintain throughout the month – let alone the year – because you’re not fully prepared for them in mind, body and spirit.
Focus on making February the month to hit the ground running. Plan your route in January. You’ll have a better chance of not only finsihing the race, but being pleased with your results as well.
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Totally agree, and totally love this idea. If I make resolutions for January I like to make them at the start of December so that I have momentum running into the new year and I have already made the changes that I want to carry on. It’s easy to decide to make changes when you’re on holiday, but then implementing them when you get back into the real world again is a massive struggle. I guess it’s a similar idea, moving it to February – you have a grip on life again, you’re back in routine and have a realistic idea of HOW you will be able to make the changes. I am spending January writing a ‘look back at 2012′ – a journal type look back from the future at the changes I’d like to make, the things I want to achieve etc It’s fun. I’d recommend it!
My journal entries have been exceedingly helpful to me so far — and we’re only a couple of days into 2012. Totally recommended, as you have.
And you’re exactly right — the HOW is far more important. The WHEN comes afterward.
Thanks for reading and leaving a comment. Happy New Year…almost! ;)
A very interesting idea to say the least..
This is very fitting, especially since I’m moving in February. There’s no chance for me to start New Year’s resolutions this month, and a new place with a new start seems like a great time to start off the new year.
January is a great month to settle old scores and steel yourself for the next 11 months. I’m glad you’re being realistic about what you can and can’t do this month.
Good luck with the move and in the new year! Thanks for reading and taking part in the conversation.
Why to postpone what you can do today? I did my reflection and clutter cleaning in December. I haven’t really started working on all of my resolutions yet, but I’m going to start as soon as I can. Why wait till February. I think now is the best time for most important things.
I’m not suggesting that you postpone things, but why is January the opportune time to start/change things? Is it because a new calendar is needed?
I think that by easing into the year with some reflection and recharging is going to better serve you in the long run. It’s not procrastinating unless you subscribe to the notion that you MUST start off making changes as of January 1. It’s simply managing your time differently than the vast majority of others.
Thanks for reading and thanks for the comment!
I use my birthday in August as my resolution time. The summer seems like a better time to start personal and business resolutions than in the middle of winter right after the holidays. I’ve got a clearer head and I can gauge how the resolutions of my peers are working out.
I definitely recommend starting your resolutions in February if you are intending to get fit – means you get a less crowded gym. Take January to plan things out, then join the gym in February, when the New Years’ burn-out has thinned the gym back to normal levels.
Great idea. I will try that next year.
I agree with you that decisions made in haste when we’re tired aren’t always the best ones.
So, January 2013 will be cleaning up after the holidays, and clearing out clutter, and pondering the direction I want the new year to take. February 2013 will be when I finalize and start implementing those resolutions.