I was still in bed when I heard that big bang this morning. Since I already heard that similar type of sound a few times this year, I knew that it was another fender-bender of a car crash outside.
My house faces a street intersection that can get quite busy during rush hours even though at other times, the traffic is quite low to moderate. Fortunately, my house is separated from the main street not only by a pedestrian sidewalk but also a steel fence, garden area and a front lane. So the traffic is still quite a distance from my front door.
I went to the window of my home office which faces the street and sure enough, there was a car stopped just past the intersection and another one that was actually off the road right on the corner pedestrian sidewalk area. This second car must have been hit with enough force to send it off the
road. Fortunately, no pedestrians were on that corner at that time. If this was during the school year, this could have been very different.
What amazes me is that this is about the fourth or fifth such traffic accident at the same intersection this year. It’s usually when one car is trying to beat the traffic lights and another one is turning into the intersection. The times of these car accidents are always either morning or evening rush hours.
Always in a rush is a symptom of poor time management
The drivers of the speeding vehicles who tried to outrun the yellow (or even red) lights were likely in a rush to get somewhere. They are the ones who feel extra frustrated especially when it seems that each time they approach a traffic light, it’s turning amber or red. I know the feeling because I’ve been late for appointments on the road too (although not recently).
The need to rush somewhere especially during rush hours is a symptom of poor time management. These folks just did not factor in adequate extra time needed either in the morning or right after work when traffic is the heaviest.
Some time management tips to avoid the need to rush
Since I’ve been down this road before so to speak, I’ve learned a few things to avoid the need to rush. Here are some useful tips.
- Factor in additional travel time in the morning, especially during snow days if you live in winter zones
- Wake up earlier in the morning and go to bed earlier the night before so you are alert
- Prepare as much as possible during the night by setting out your work materials and wardrobe (do this for kids too)
- If possible, schedule appointments and travel outside of rush hours
- Relax during driving knowing it’s better to arrive late and safe in one piece
- Enjoy music or an educational audio while driving
- Do not try to beat the traffic lights and drive defensively especially through intersections
As far as I know, none of the car accidents outside my home this year resulted in any loss of life but there have been injuries requiring ambulances and vehicles requiring tow trucks. I’m sure that we have all seen on the TV news, other accidents where the circumstances were much worse.
These types of fender-benders, as with most car accidents, are totally preventable. If only individuals learn not to be in so much of a rush, a lot of damage, injuries and grief could be avoided. This is always a very expensive lesson for those who were the offending drivers as they not only put themselves at risk, but also other innocent drivers, passengers and pedestrians in danger.
We have all heard that by improving our time management habits, we will become more productive. But now we also know that better time management in terms of advance preparation can also possibly save lives and limbs.

















thank u…
You are welcome – be safe out there.
As I get older and hopefully more mature, I notice that doing things in a hurry, or at the last minute, is hard, while doing things in advance, and factoring in extra time to get where I am going, actually makes life easy. It’s funny, the more time pressure we feel, the more tempted we are to cut corners and hurry, which makes things harder, a very nasty cycle. The real solution is to calm down, plan and prioritize more, and look for what needs to be let go, then life gets easy again.
David Kaiser, PhD
Time Coach
http://www.DarkMatterConsulting.com
“Time to be Extraordinary!”
That’s it David. Folks who rush are just making life hard for themselves.
Great advice Clint, I especially agree with the rising early one, I think so many parts of your life can function better if you give yourself more time in the morning. It helps me be more in control, calmer and more organized
Being calmer with early mornings is a great point! Thanks :)
Great tips, Clint.
Thanks Harry!
Thanks Harry!
rushing always to all sorts of accidents.. i can testify on that
Hopefully we all learn from them so that we can all be safer out there.
Yes! and I hope they don’t have to go through any sort of accident to just experience and learn from it.
You would think that by just witnessing such accidents should be more than enough to change their own driving habits.
I am never in a rush, even when I am late. I do not understand people who are constantly trying to steal a few minutes through traffic.
It seems to me that it’s just the elevated levels of stress are forcing people to act kinda stupid, because all the driving faster, won’t get them through red traffic lights.
Being a driver for 3 years I can understand that certain population of drivers is constalty like this in their driving, endangering our lives.
Good for you Bojan, especially since you haven’t been driving long. There are many drivers out there who have been driving for 10, 20, 30 or more years and they still drive dangerously. I was out walking with my dogs today across the same intersection with the pedestrian walk light and some lady making a turn did not bother to yield and drove right in front of me. I hope she gets caught one day with a heavy fine.