5 Reasons to Care About Your Online Presence, and 3 to Forget About It
It’s gotten to the point that you just aren’t keeping up with the times if you don’t have a Facebook account, a LinkedIn profile, a Twitter feed and a presence on a dozen other websites. It can be crazy trying to keep up with all of it — and there are new social networking websites coming out every day. What can you do? It’s absolutely imperative that you’re on all of them, right?
Well, there are some clear benefits to spending time on all those websites that make up your online presence — but there are also plenty of drawbacks. It’s worth taking a look at the reasons you should care about creating social networking profiles and updating them, as well as considering the negative aspects of dealing with all of those sites.
5 Reasons to Care About Your Online Presence
- Employers and clients look for you online. While many of those people interested in offering you work are looking for your contact information and your references, plenty are looking for all the bad things about you that may have be listed online. Having social networking profiles can give you several pages that pop up on a Google search that are more or less under your control. They’re usually highly ranked and can help you show off your talents in a more recognizable format than a blog or personal website.
- You can make contacts and find friends online. Stories of long-lost friends reconnecting on Facebook and other websites are becoming common. And social networking sites don’t just limit you to friends you already know: they provide an easy forum to find business contacts without any requirement that you actually leave your home or office and go to a networking event.
- You can communicate even without contact information. Many important people in a variety of industries have at least a placeholder profile up on a variety of social networking website. And while you could never get a direct phone number for some of the people higher up the food chain, you can still easily send them a message on LinkedIn or whatever other website they frequent. It’s possible that some sort of assistant will review your message — but you can still get a lot closer to bigwigs via social networking.
- If you don’t claim your name on all the various social networking sites, someone might do it for you. Seth Godin, the author of numerous marketing books, provides a classic example: despite the fact that someone has claimed the name ’sethgodin’ on Twitter, it wasn’t actually Godin (who blogged about the fact). In Godin’s case, the account was not used maliciously — but it also wasn’t a case of someone with the same name getting there first. If you don’t grab your name on every social network that pops up, you may not be so lucky. Someone could easily use such an account to spread false information or otherwise cause trouble.
- Everybody else is doing it. Peer pressure is a poor excuse — but if it’s becoming an industry standard in your field to have an online presence, not having one can be problematic in the long run. And if all of your friends stay in touch through a particular website, you certainly don’t want to get left out. Merely putting together a profile and updating it can be a small investment of your time, compared to not having the ability to connect to customers or friends online.
3 Reasons to Forget About Your Online Presence
- Employers and customers don’t actually care that much about your social networking abilities. Sure, just about everyone will run a search on your name these days — but as long as they don’t find anything bad, it doesn’t particularly matter what they do find. If you have a particularly common name, you’re likely to get lost in the shuffle anyhow. You’ve got plenty of other ways to describe your abilities and connections, and you can probably do a better job of that fact than a standardized profile page.
- Putting too much information out there isn’t necessarily safe. Even assuming that identity thieves aren’t monitoring your every move through all your online accounts, telling your clients, family and everyone else every detail of your life just doesn’t sound like a good idea. There are so many horror stories about over-sharing, and having a thorough online presence just asks for such a story to happen to you.
- Social networking and crafting an online presence take a lot of time. If you get going, it isn’t hard to spend hours on a site like Twitter. You can call it networking or marketing, but either way, you’ve spent time that certainly could have been put to better use on trying to connect with the kids in your third grade class.
Finding Some Balance
It seems like social networking and online presences only have the value that we give them — and giving them too much value isn’t wise. That said, I think that maintaining a profile or two is a good idea. It’s worthwhile to grab your name on multiple sites, but I don’t bother with constantly updating every site I have a profile on. Instead they all point to either my website or the two sites that I do interact with regularly.
Like most things, caring about your online presence in moderation can be useful. It’s when a person tries to update every site under the sun that it becomes useless. It’s worth thinking about just what level of moderation makes sense for you.
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Thursday Bram
Thursday Bram blogs about a variety of topics, from personal finance to small business. She is the author of an upcoming book on the tools and tricks you need to build a career you can take with you during long-term travel. More information about Thursday and her book, Working Your Way Around the World, is available on her personal site, ThursdayBram.com.
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Comments
Jamie Isfeld says on January 2nd, 2009 at 1:29 pm
Be very careful about what you post online, even if you’re not job-hunting. I know someone who was let go from their position due to what they wrote on their blog.
If you insist on posting something that might be used against you, put the proper protection on it.
Miguel @ Simply Blog says on January 2nd, 2009 at 5:33 pm
You’re right on, finding balance is the key but be mindful of your prioritizes because social services like Facebook and Twitter have a way of draining ones time. :) Be open but be careful don’t feel bad about withholding some of your personal info. Play it safe folks. Cheers,
-Mig
James Stratford says on January 2nd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
I concur that it’s important to have a balanced perspective and work on two or three accounts will create the online presence which each business needs.
The three reasons to forget about it are things to take to heart. What you share online needs to be honest, but guard the information you put out there and err on the side of caution. It’ll potentially protect your personal and business identity and reputation.
Kblrm says on January 3rd, 2009 at 4:55 am
I prefer to be anonymous instead of giving fully detailed profile everywhere on the inet. But as we are human beings, it is always possible to leave tracks about our real identities. At the end anonymity does not work properly. Because sooner or later, somewhere or there, person appears his real identity by registering on another site, or by writing on a friendship area.
Anyway, what i want to say is that keeping the identity secret works not. So, people should be avoid of using the words or writing, of what they cannot endure the responsibility in the real world. Because there is no anonimity on the inet. You are yourself everywhere, noone else. Watch out!!!
Lily says on January 3rd, 2009 at 7:41 pm
If my circle of friends is any indication, I am the only person alive without a Facebook page. I just don’t understand the urge to lose all anonymity on the web. Once your name is out there, it’s OUT THERE. Never to be removed for all eternity. Even if it’s all innocuous stuff, it’s still there for every person snooping to find out personal things about you: employers, family, a new guy you’re dating, your future children and grandchildren, etc. There is enough stuff on the internet about you from public records that is beyond your control – I have no desire to willingly add to it.
Andrew Bryant says on January 4th, 2009 at 3:41 am
Good balanced post, if you don’t mind me saying.
Aristotle taught us that to influence and persuade we need to have ‘ethos’ which translates as character. In Ancient Greece you would be known by your actions and words; nothing has changed except that our actions and words are now open to the world wide web. Guard your character because once lost it is almost impossible to regain.
hazed says on February 15th, 2009 at 8:12 am
Employers don’t need to know your hobbies, religious choice, time you spend online, who your friends are, what your attitude outside of work is, or anything along these lines. It shouldn’t be you at fault for having an online presence, it should be them for snooping around without your knowledge.
ankara oto kiralama says on March 16th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Good balanced post, if you don’t mind me saying. This is right thanks..