Why You Need to Give It Away
January 11 by Dave Kaiser in Lifestyle | 133 Shares
Everyone is looking to make an extra buck these days.
We all want more clients, a better job offer, a promotion. Nothing wrong with that of course, but why is one of the best strategies to give it away?
Well, I’ll give you four good reasons.
You make connections
Let’s say you write a free white paper that can help solve a problem, or respond to questions at Answers.com, or give a free health assessment at a train station. You are meeting people and making connections. Granted, most of them will go nowhere, and that’s OK, if you begin to connect with 2 – 3 % of those who accept your offer, you will soon find that you know a whole bunch of people who are interested in you and your talents. You would not have met them if they would have had payed for something, since they didn’t know you and the risk was high. By giving stuff away you reduce their risk to almost nothing and more people will take you up on it.
You get practice
One of the best ways to gain experience, especially in a new and untried area, is to give it away. Again, there’s no risk. A company might not be willing to offer you a big salary to come and sell for them, but a church or PTA fundraising committee would be overjoyed if you volunteered to help them. Now you’re gaining experience, getting better at the thing you want to do and creating stories that demonstrate your success to people who will now consider taking a risk.
When I was still getting certified as a coach, I began volunteering at the Career Transition Center of Chicago, with a little training, a lot of raw talent, and a willingness to work for free. 200+ clients later, it has been a wonderful use of my time, and it has led to paying gigs.
It feels good
Don’t underestimate this. It feels great to do something you really enjoy and have people appreciate it, even if you’re not getting paid. You’re doing “Your Thing,” that will make you feel strong (if it doesn’t, it might not be “Your Thing”), Important point here; don’t just do something because you have to and do it begrudgingly. Do something you love to do, and your joy and passion will attract attention. If you like to write, write a white paper or a blog. If you hate writing, do something else, like create websites or read to sick kids or talk about a favorite topic at a professional association.
It always comes back to you
You are investing in the “Good Karma Market”, which always pays out in the long run when something is offered with joy and love. It doesn’t always pay out the way you expect, or on the schedule you would like, but it never fails. That’s not to say you should give in order to get. You should give and trust that you will get what matters. It’s a subtle distinction, yet crucial.
To sum up, give because you:
- Make connections
- You get practice
- It feels good
- It always comes back to you
Conclusion
I heard a story (I wish I could remember where) that most people stand in front of the fireplace and say to the fire, “I’ll give you more wood when you start giving off more warmth.” We laugh, but that is the approach many of us take to our careers and lives. Some people, on finding the fire burning hotter by sheer luck, don’t even put more wood in at that point, yet we find ourselves surprised when our career is nothing but ash.
Don’t be this person. If you put in more wood first, the fire will give off more warmth. Give and give. You will surely receive.
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This reminded me of a chapter in Seth Godin’s “Linchpin: Are You Indispensable?” in which he talks about the power of gifts, where gift giving is defined as sharing your artistic talents or your creativity with others, and how that can make you indispensable. More generally he talks about the impact of generosity, and he touches on reciprocity (and in particular, the problems with reciprocity). Thanks for the post. -DP
David P, Linchpin is one of my favorite business books. I’m honored that my post reminded you of it. Thnks for the comment!
This is certainly true for many businesses these days. But I wonder if this strategy is working for the arts (music, fine art). It would be neat to hear about a success story from the music world where an artist did become successful by allowing free downloads of his/her music at first.
Client, I am sure there are such examples, but I am just not that plugged into the new music community.
I think that the broad principles outlined above are fundamental for personal effectiveness, well being and happiness. There are several business networks that operate to the principle that ‘Givers Gain’ as a way of developing business, and the seem to work!
Think about it for a minute or two. If you want to be successful in business. People need to trust you, they need to feel you are credible. The need also to be dealing with someone who is confident, generous and who has demonstrated their abilities.
Imagine – two business people one happy , confident, you know them , you’ve tried their services, (You not only have a relationship but you might just feel a little bit obliged to them) and another person with great services website and a lovely price list – guess where the business is going.
Being generous is fundamentally important in terms of developing and maintaining a positive, resourceful state which will attract business to you.
Better to appear (and be) generous, rather than needy, right? Good points!
I’ve been using this strategy for a while on my own personal music, but I’ve yet to see any real results from it. Although, I’ve only used the internet to do my promotion with.
I use a form of this with my music. I’ve found making tutorials on music theory, synthesizer use, or song creation really get people’s attention. I’ve not had much come back from it, but I’m sure one day I can say otherwise!
Try taking it up a notch (throw even more wood into the fire) and see what happens.
And, I would love to see links to those tutorials. What kind of music, btw?
Thanks. This is a golden piece of advice!
Thank you very much for your kind advises. I think you are right. :)
I like!!
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