How To Destress In 5 Minutes
November 13 by Axel Gjertsen in Lifestyle | 233 Shares
In this post, we’ll take a look at an easy yet powerful form of meditation, that you can use to destress in a matter of minutes. What’s more, you don’t need any previous meditative experience; all it takes is an open mind and some motivation to practice.
You probably already know that meditation is physically and mentally calming, but it’s also emotionally soothing. That makes meditation most pleasant and revitalizing.
Before we get to the mediation, let’s examine the nature of stress first.
What is Stress?
When the mind is speeding from one thought to the next like a jet, and the physical body feels intensely alive, that’s a common type of stress. So, is it a pleasant or unpleasant mental state? To answer that question, I suggest you tune in to your bodily sensations next time you are under stress. That way, you will know for yourself.
Stress is generally triggered by heavy workloads and tight schedules. For example, you have to cover for a colleague at the office who has called in sick, which doubles your workload. Another scenario would be a deadline that moved up.
Ultimately, thinking is the cause of stress. The sheer thought of a heavy workload or a tight schedule, can give rise to a sense of panic. With this knowledge, it’s quite easy to see that destressing is fundamentally about not thinking. In other words, the most effective way to relieve stress is by taking a break from thinking.
How to Destress: Guided Meditation
Guided meditation does not involve thinking. Instead, you work with plain awareness. When you meditate, you give relaxed attention to your meditation object. That’s it!
The mind calms down the moment awareness takes the place of thinking. In this context awareness, attention, and mindfulness mean the same thing, they all point to a state of mind that is free from thought.
Guided meditation is one of the easiest meditation techniques available. What is more, it’s as fun as it is powerful. All you have to do is press play, close your eyes, and follow the voice instructions.
Meditation downloads can be found by searching for guided meditation in any search engine.
Meditation Tips
- Meditate in a quiet room where you won’t be disturbed. That makes it easier to relax and concentrate. It’s also a good idea to switch off the sound on your cell phone.
- Meditate lying down on your back. It’s natural to relax the body while lying down. Remember that a relaxed body makes for a relaxed mind and vice versa, so make yourself as comfortable as possible. If there is nowhere to lie down, sitting on a chair will do just fine.
- Meditating with your eyes closed makes it easier to stay focused. Moreover, darkness has a calming effect on the mind. So if you like, you can switch off the lights in the room.
- Always give relaxed attention to your meditation object, trying too hard only increases physical and mental tension.
- Meditate 1-2 times per day for a minimum of 5 minutes per session.
- It’s better to do multiple 5-minute meditations with short breaks, than a long session. In the beginning, the mind quickly gets tired since it’s not used to giving its continuous attention for extended periods of time.
- Meditate in the morning while you’re still in bed. That gives you a fresh start of the day. Likewise, you can improve the quality of your sleep by doing a session before going to bed at night.
A final note. The more you practice, the deeper the meditation takes you, making the destressing more effective. The soothing and calming effects also become more pronounced with experience. In short, you have everything to gain by establishing a regular meditation practice.
Good luck!
Feel free to share your experiences of destressing in the comments…
Featured photo credit: morning meditation via Shutterstock











I distress by shutting down everythng and just floating wherever I am.
Hello Christiano!
Thanks for your pointers.
Flowing with life makes for comfort and ease. It’s similar to acceptance and letting go.
All the very best
Axel
Thank you Axel.
Similar to yesterday’s discussion on reducing distractions… I love soundrown.com for relaxing. The sounds of rain and kids are both great soundtracks for meditation or reducing stress
Hello Rishi!
Thanks for your input.
Nature sounds are deeply relaxing. Some like the sound of crashing waves, while others prefer bird song or thunder. How about space sounds recorded by NASA? There are no rules, the key is to find audio you resonate with.
All the very best
Axel
“the most effective way to relieve stress is by taking a break from thinking.”. I like this part and it makes sense to me. I hope I will remember it and give it a try when things became tought. Thank you for your article.
Hello!
Thank you for your kind feedback.
When the mind is aware without engaging in thinking, you experience a most soothing stillness. A good example of what it feels like would be a baby who is nurtured by her mother.
Good luck with the destressing
Axel
I’ve been practicing meditation for the past few months and it sure isn’t easy. Thanks for these tips! Sometimes it takes breaking it down into just 5 minute periods to make it easier. I also like the tip to do it before you get out of bed, great way to start the day.
Hello Jen!
Thanks for sharing your experiences.
By doing away with unnecessary distractions and practicing the right way, it’s much easier to meditate. Then, it’s just a matter of practice…
Good luck
Axel
“Ultimately, thinking is the cause of stress.”
Never thought about it this way. Very true.
I’ve found that sometimes it’s difficult to keep the mind ‘focused’ on nothing.
I have come to the realization that if I get less sleep than normal, then it is hard to meditate. The brain is much more difficult to control and keep in this calm/unfocused state. Do you happen to notice this kind of thing or anything similar?
On a side note, I also live in Thailand. Where abouts are you located? (I’m in Chiang Mai)
Hello Gabe!
Thanks for your feedback and questions.
I’m located a 5-hour drive north of Surat Thani.
It’s really hard to focus on nothing or nothingness. Having a meditation object simplifies meditation enormously.
Speaking of meditation objects in general, it’s best to use the same point of focus all the time. That way, it’s easier and you also make speedier progress.
Likewise, in the case of guided meditation, sticking to the same meditation makes it easier and results in faster progress.
Yes, the mind is sluggish when you are sleepy. A way around it is to meditate prior to meals and right after waking up in the morning. It’s also possible to take a nap beforehand.
Good luck with your practice
Axel