How Huge Dreams Can Seriously Affect Our Lives
August 16 by Jared Latigo in Lifestyle | 214 Shares
You’re a dreamer.
Whether you realize it or not, you are. Have you ever wished to be something you’re not?
And that can have some serious implications on our lives. I’d venture to say both positively and negatively.
The Negative Effect
We love to think about what we could be. Or what we’d like to have been.
But it’s the rare occasion when we’re sitting somewhere and thinking that we’d like to be worse off than we are. That just doesn’t happen much.
I mean, do you think to yourself, “I really wish I had less money” or “I really wish my health was declining”? No. That would be ridiculous.
The thing is that our dreams can cause us to end up there if we’re not careful. Our decisions shape our lives and those around us. It affects the plan that’s set in place for our life and everyone who we come in contact with.
Dave Ramsey has said, don’t jump from the dock before the boat gets close enough or you’ll get all wet. Which simply means, don’t quit your day job before your dream job can support you.
Yeah…I didn’t do that. It wasn’t a good idea either. Which leads me to my point.
You’ll get negative results if you let your dream take over and control you. I think there’s a time when it needs to, but it’s a very calculated and semi-risky approach.
The Dreaded Non-Effect
The type of effect that goes hand in hand with the negative impact of our dream, is the one that has no effect on it.
This is just as bad, maybe worse.
Maybe we dream about being something and decide it’s not possible. Or not worth acting on. That typically gives us no results.
I think of the definition of insanity when I hear of people wanting things to change but not acting on it. Albert Einstein defines insanity as doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results.
So, if you combine those, doing nothing about your current situation will effectively make you insane. I’d say that’s a problem.
The Positive Effect
On the flip-side, our passions can drive us right along the freeway to our dreams and everything can be peachy.
And this is what we hope for, most certainly.
We wish of doing something that really matters. Something that is changing lives. Or saving lives. Or just bettering our own lives. Maybe you’re focused on living out God’s plan for your life like I am…there’s a slew of possibilities.
It can happen. And I think that if we will take that calculated approach with minimal risk, we can have an extremely positive experience.
Our dream and the pursuit of it can affect tons of people along the way and many more as we approach our destination. That’s likely the goal anyway so it’s a good thing that’s happening.
So, I ask you: What will you do? Do you wish to have a positive experience in life? Or are you content where you’re at?
There’s something to be said about contentment. It’s a good thing. But not to the extent that you never want to improve yourself or someone else’s life.
We all have a purpose. Pursue yours.
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It’s amazing how easy it is to be negative and look at what could have been. That age old saying “hindsight is 20/20″ kind of applies but only if you dwell on what could have been instead of what you took away from the past. Also, I think people who say “it is what it is” are the same people who are the ones rereading the previous chapters of their lives instead getting excited about what their life story will bring.
Funny you say that about the “it is what it is”…I have the exact same thoughts. Thanks for reading!
Any suggestions for FINDING your purpose?
Absolutely. Check out “cure for the common life” by Max Lucado. It’s incredible, I trust it will help you immensely. Thanks for asking!
Thanks for sparking this conversation. I do disagree with the portion of the article referencing people should wait to quit their day jobs until the new opportunity can replace that income (or close to it). Most great entrepreneurs did NOT succeed by taking the “safe” route. Going after your life passion and dream takes risk. If everyone could do it by being “safe,” everyone would have already. I’m not advising to quit your day job with no plan, knowledge, and/or expertise. Write the plan; create the original service/product, and go for it. The worst result? You go broke. Then you work yourself back up. At least you got to enjoy the ride of pursuing a life mission. Too many people fear going broke to the point they never give themselves a real chance to make money doing what they love.
This is true, by making forcing yourself to work toward your goal of owning your own business of some kind, you have a greater chance of it happening sooner.
I see a lot of people saying this all over the internet. The thing is, most people have some sort of financial responsibilities they are mandated to pay for. Without an income, this leap of faith can cause more harm to their lives than having the freedom to make their schedule, have job security and potentially make more than they did at their day job.
I think the smartest route is to explore how viable it is to make a living at it while you have a day job. When you are simply too busy with your entrepreneurial venture or have saved enough money to cover your expenditures for a few, then it is time. No business is worth starving, losing your house, family, car and having crappy credit over.
Well said Trevor. And @facebook-735580719:disqus, I see your point 100% but I have to say that’s not always the smartest choice. I have experience with that. The problem that I ran into was that I then had to take any job that came my way and it burned me out on what I thought was my passion in life.
I think risk is necessary…and any entrepreneurial venture is a risk in and of itself. BUT, I believe we all have to minimize risk where we can in life and the closer we can get to evening things out, the better off we’ll be.
Think of it like this. If I’m making $50,000 at my day job…and my side job, where I put in only 10 hours per week, start making $10,000 per year. I can then assume that if I quit the day job and work 40+ hours a week at my dream job, I will then be making close to the same amount. That’s simplified of course due to taxes, insurance and all that junk. But i hope you get the point.
Someone’s dream job should be making some reasonable income before the jump is made. It’s just the smartest way to go about doing it. And, from experience, the only defense we may have against getting burnt out on taking just anything that comes our way.
Thanks again for both of your inputs, I appreciate your reading and conversations! Take care!