March 21st, 2007 in Featured, Lifehack, Productivity

Productivity & Organizing Myth #9 – We need a lot of stuff!

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Myth: We need a lot of material things.
Reality: We can succeed and be happy with very little stuff.

When we productivity pros hear a few phrases we pay attention because you are giving clues to your mindset. Do you say a version of any of these things?

  • I need another ______ (fill in the blank- pair of shoes, suit, house, car, computer, tech toy, etc.)
  • It would be nice to pay off those credit cards!
  • If we lived in a bigger house we’d be tidy because we’d have a place to put things.
  • I spend all weekend cutting the grass, washing the car, and maintaining the house.
  • Put the car in the garage – ha!

Here are some downsides to having too much stuff:

  • You have to pay for it
  • You have to insure it
  • You have to maintain it
  • You have to walk and work around it
  • You have to store it
  • You won’t have room for new stuff to come into your life

In a few chapters of my life I got rid of almost everything. I stopped my job and resigned from all my volunteer positions. We sold the house. We put half of everything in recycle or the dumpster. The rest of our stuff went into storage. And, I lived very happily for years! This was extreme but illustrates how little I needed. For example, I was in Europe for 4 months with:

  • 1 backpack
  • 1 pair of pants
  • 1 pair of shorts
  • 1 skirt
  • 3 shirts
  • 1 sweater
  • 1 jacket
  • 1 pair of shoes (2 pr socks)

TJ is experiencing a similar revelation as he is getting divorced and living in a rented 2-bedroom townhouse. This weekend he said to me, “It’s amazing how little you really need. A couple of carloads of stuff and a dozen pieces of furniture and I am all set up here. I have the kids every other weekend and visitors now and then and really do have all I need. I got used to the 3 car garage and filled that with all kinds of things but I sure do fine without them.” TJ now has a one-car garage.

Linda’s revelation came when she moved to New York City (NYC). Her new place is 1/5th the size of her suburban home. Forced by space limitations Linda scaled to having what she needs and no more. Multiple pair of black shoes are now represented by just 2 pair – and that’s the only color she wears with her traditional corporate/banking wardrobe. Still, she’s content with her living quarters and the abundance of little neighborhood restaurants that she frequents rather than cook daily. And, she’s since moving to the coop, she’s added two little ones (kids) to the ‘limited’ space.

When circumstances push these real-life people to consider what they really need they have adjusted and lived rich lives with much less stuff. They also focus a lot more on the experiences in their life and are free from things that consume loads of money, time and energy.

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Susan Sabo is an intrepid traveler who has organized her life to be out of the country for months at a time. She’s visited South & Central America, Europe, Asia, ‘Down Under” and traveled across North America. Susan writes at www.productivitycafe.com, consults with professionals on improving their personal productivity and presents motivating productivity programs & tips (such as how to get ready for the busy season) to groups.

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  • Nate says on March 21st, 2007 at 3:12 pm

    Stuff people keep are really more expensive than most people realize. My girlfriend burries things on her desk with unopened mail. Then when she needs to find something important she can’t.

  • Susan Sabo says on March 21st, 2007 at 3:22 pm

    And then we could mention the checks that aren’t found in the piles until they are no longer able to be cashed. I’ve seen that!
    Susan

  • Alex says on March 21st, 2007 at 7:02 pm

    Well, did you need tampons, back in Europe? That’s plus one to your list!

    I get your point and agree with it, but where to draw the line?

  • Susan Sabo says on March 21st, 2007 at 8:20 pm

    Alex,
    Tampons would definitely be on the ‘need’ list. You’ll notice I didn’t list comb or toothbrush either… two other things I clearly had to have.

    The point is that most of us can get along well with a minimum of ’stuff’. After that, it’s fluff. Fluff’s not bad unless it’s causing you to go into debt, to stress, to wish you were doing something else, making you feel like a prisoner in your job, or simply feeling discontent.

    Thanks for the comment!

    Susan

  • Lance says on March 21st, 2007 at 10:20 pm

    Your post reminded me of the Rules of Stuff that I have hanging by my desk at work. I tried to remember where I found these and after a couple of minutes found the following:

    http://www.salsburg.com/OrganizeGuide.htm

    This article not only has the Rules of Stuff I have by my desk at work (yes, I need to the constant reminder!) but also Ten Step to Un-Stuffing. There’s a lot of commentary with the Rules and Steps, so here’s the main points:

    Rules of Stuff

    1. Stuff breeds—the more you have, the more you need.
    2. Useless stuff crowds out the good stuff.
    3. Filth loves stuff. Bugs love stuff. Rodents love stuff. Moisture loves stuff.
    4. Stuff loves to stay where it lands.
    5. Stuff expands to fit the space available.
    6. Over time, stuff becomes invisible.
    7. Stuff costs you money more than once.
    8. Stuff has a powerful effect on your state of mind.
    9. Stuff takes on value only when it is used.

    Ten Steps to Un-Stuffing

    1. If you don’t use it, lose it.
    2. Put it away.
    3. Give it away (before you die or it kills you).
    4. Take just 15 minutes to get started
    5. Group like things together.
    6. Consolidate and compress.
    7. Alphabetize.
    8. Label it.
    9. Go for quality, not quantity.
    10. Think multipurpose, not single purpose.

  • Jessica Duquette says on March 22nd, 2007 at 8:52 am

    wow, Susan, great post! How timely, last week, I wrote about ‘10 potent reasons to let go’. It IS freeing and even exciting to pare down to only what you love the most. I love watching the tension lines in people’s faces lift when they start releasing the weight of their past—sometimes they look 10 years younger!

    Here’s the post I was referring to:

    http://www.its-not-about-your-.....asons.html

    It’s nice to see we are flowing on the same wavelength…

    All the best,

    Jessica from It’s Not About Your Stuff.

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